Don't be afraid of bad souls, don't deceive good and weak souls; envy and hatred begin with being good with people; you must not lose your moral heart and fair heart when you are a person; a person must live a dashing life, and even more importantly, live with peace of mind, this is Zhang Ning's life experience.
Beautiful faces, in today's society can become a convenient opening brick, many girls in order to create a perfect face, at the expense of debt. But is there definitely happiness behind a pretty face? Looking at Zhang Ning's example, there may be some inspiration.
It's all pretty trouble
Zhang Ning was born in Nanjing in 1949 to a father who was a veteran Red Army soldier who had joined the army in 1929 and a mother who was a teacher. Others, when she was born, there was a phenomenon of "returning to her ancestors" on her body, with black hair on her body, and people who had seen her said that they had never seen such an ugly child.
But her parents took good care of her, but never named her. Therefore, when she was a child, I simply called her "hairy monkey". Until she grew to three years old, the black hair on her body naturally receded, and she grew into a white and fat female doll, and it became more and more cute and moving.
Under the love of her parents, her childhood time was also very happy. However, the weather was unpredictable, the sudden death of her father, so that the whole family seemed to collapse, when she was not yet 8 years old, she could only rely on her mother for her life.
When she was young, she liked to dance very much, often in front of adults and did not shy away from the stage, the mother found her daughter's love in this regard, began to focus on cultivating her, gradually, her talent was also highlighted, in 1960, only 11 years old Zhang Ning was admitted to the Nanjing Military Region's frontline song and dance troupe, in the regiment she practiced seriously, never lazy. At the age of 15, he was amazed by four seats on stage for the first time.
Ridiculous choice of girlfriend
After the performance, the prince actually went directly to the stage to propose to Zhang Ning, which frightened Zhang Ning to quickly refuse, but the prince was not dead hearted, and after the performance in the next few days, he expressed his love to Zhang Ning many times, and made many vows of mountain alliance and sea oath.
But for Zhang Ning, she just felt that this prince was inexplicable, and several times Zhang Ning refused to let this prince lose his patience, and even wanted to rob his relatives by force, and later under the intervention of the Chinese Embassy, Zhang Ning left Indonesia safely.
But this incident also allows us to feel how touching Zhang Ning's beauty is.
People are afraid of being famous pigs and afraid of strong, and the name of this beautiful woman in Nanjing soon spread to Beijing, but Zhang Ning did not know what kind of joke fate would make for her at this time.
Lin Liguo is Lin Shuai's only son, and her mother Ye Qun loves this son to the bone, and as her son grows up, she also begins to worry about her future daughter-in-law. Ye Qun is a woman with a strong desire to control, so she must personally look at and determine the candidate for the future daughter-in-law.
Moreover, her requirements for her future daughter-in-law are also very high, but the most important one is to be beautiful, there must be no blemishes on the face, no scars on the body, no genetic diseases or chronic diseases, and so on.
In order to find qualified people, she "chose a girlfriend" for Lin Liguo in a place under the jurisdiction of her own leadership. This was a sensation at the time.
Among the recommenders in various places, Zhang Ning, who was generous and generous, stood out and became Lin Shuai's daughter-in-law, but Zhang Ning himself did not know about this matter.
Later, her leader suddenly found her and asked her to go to Beijing for a business trip, and when she arrived in Beijing, she was arranged to the guest house. On that day, many people suddenly came, and one of the officers stared at himself as soon as he entered the door, which made Zhang Ning a little angry, after all, such behavior was very impolite.
But because everyone was a soldier, Zhang Ning was not good, but when she took out the orange to entertain them, she deliberately handed the youngest one to the person who was staring at her deadly. When they left, the more Zhang Ning thought about it, the more he felt as if he had seen that person somewhere, but he just couldn't remember it.
That person is Lin Liguo, and this time it is actually a blind date with a change of direction. Lin Liguo fell in love with Zhang Ning at first sight, so his eyes were reluctant to leave for a long time.
Later, Zhang Ning was arranged to go for a physical examination, and when the physical examination report was held in Ye Qun's hand, she carefully looked through each result, and murmured in her mouth: "The body is very healthy."
After returning to Nanjing briefly, she was sent to Beijing again, frequently traveling between Beijing and Nanjing, which made her very confused, and finally, her leader confessed to her that she had become Lin Shuai's daughter-in-law.
As soon as she said this, Zhang Ning's head buzzed, but in front of the leader, Zhang Ning directly refused, because she had a boyfriend at that time, and she was also an actor in the song and dance troupe. Moreover, she did not have too deep an impression of Lin Liguo, the most important thing was that she felt that she was a manipulated puppet, which made it difficult for her to accept.
Later, she was "tricked" into going to Beijing again, and this time it was somewhat of a house arrest, and his boyfriend was also sent to the farm by means used by the Lin family, and under the pressure of all parties, Zhang Ning could only compromise.
Later, under the arrangement of the Lin family, she gave up the dance she loved and went to study medicine, and in 1971, the two were officially engaged, which also made Zhang Ning officially become Lin Shuai's daughter-in-law. Although Zhang Ning's whole person was wrapped up in this process, Lin Liguo still had great respect for her, and Zhang Ning also felt that Lin Liguo was a very thoughtful person in the later contact, but she did not know how frightening this idea was.
Escaped a disaster, but could not escape fate
On September 13, 1971, a shocking incident occurred, because they were in too much of a hurry, so Zhang Ning did not board the plane together, which was considered to have escaped the disaster, but due to the excessively close relationship with Lin Shuai's family, she was also strictly censored until 1975, when she was released and returned to Nanjing.
After returning to Nanjing, she found a job in a museum, although she was usually very low-key, but "natural beauty is difficult to give up." As a beautiful woman, there will naturally be thousands of eyes, and later under the deep digging of the heart, her deliberately concealed identity was exposed, and she also lost her job.
She didn't do anything wrong, but she had to bear the consequences, and at her lowest point, a man appeared. This man was called Jiang Shui, and he was once Qiu Huizuo's guard staff officer. Before, when the Lin family was choosing a concubine, he had several encounters with Zhang Ning, although he was also impressed, but He Nai did not have that strength.
But later, when Zhang Ning fell, he stepped forward and finally hugged the beauty. But their marriage did not last long, and after 7 years, the two parted ways, and their only child also lived with Zhang Ning.
It is already very hard for a single mother to raise her son, but heaven may like to watch human tragedies, and this cute and sensible little boy eventually dies.
In July 1988, the body of a young boy was found at the control gate of the Qinhuai River, and after the police surveyed the scene, they found that someone had faked the illusion of the child drowning. And his criminal motive turned out to be because Zhang Ning repeatedly rejected his pursuit, and he killed Zhang Ning's children in order to vent his anger.
This incident devastated her, and she thought of renunciation when she was cornered and had no way out. She came to The Qixia Temple, but the abbot did not take her in, and the abbot saw that she still had a dusty fate, so he introduced her to the Great Monk of Rende.
On Mount Jiuhua, under the initiation of the master, Zhang Ning's heart had a long-unexplored explanation, her spirit was lifted, and soon she met the Chinese-American Lindsay Garden, and went to live in the United States with him.
Just when everyone thought that her life had begun to return to normal, an explosive news attracted people's research, and some people found that Zhang Ning had returned to China and worshiped under the supervision of Zhu Zhenxuan, becoming a Taoist monk practicing at the Nine Peaks of Tiezha Mountain.
No one knows what she went through in the United States that made her see through the red dust completely, but looking back on what she experienced, perhaps it was really only when she practiced seriously that she could regain her inner peace.
Beauty is not the original sin, and she should not bear the evil consequences of "beauty" at heart, but the reality is that she not only bears it, but also doubles it.
Although this is not fair, it is also an inescapable fate.