In this world, we all deal with people to a greater or lesser extent, different people have different tempers, and all kinds of people have an impact on our lives to a greater or lesser extent.
If you handle the communication around you properly, then you will be like a fish; if you do not handle the communication around you well, then you will run into a wall everywhere.
Therefore, it is necessary to master some ways of dealing with the world, in order not to be troubled by the world, in order not to be troubled by personnel, not only to make people comfortable but also to make themselves happy, why not enjoy it?
When dealing with people, keep your distance
Dealing with people, you don't have to be too enthusiastic at the beginning, you are very honest with people, if you dig out your heart and lungs in everything, you may end up with no heart and no lungs. If you still don't understand what kind of person the other party is, entrust your own sincerity, no doubt handing the other party a sharp knife towards yourself, facing the danger of blood at any time, and making yourself scaly.
The smartest way is to interact with people, always keep a distance, and grasp the distance between people, because distance produces beauty, many things do not have to be fully entrusted, leaving a little mystery, in order to leave room for others to think.
Instead of being a chattering person and constantly talking to others, it is better to be a person who listens carefully and is good at listening to others, which is a kind of upbringing and a kind of wisdom.
Talking to people, kindness has sharp edge
Keep being a kind person, learn to let the people you interact with feel warm, feel happy is also a kind of happiness, have compassion for the world, have responsibility, contribute, is a responsibility.
But we must also know that kindness is also to have a sharp edge, goodness without principles will only promote evil greed, and kindness without sharpness will only bring infinite pain to people, so while maintaining kindness, we must also know how to bring armor to ourselves, so that good people can really have good rewards, and bad people cannot easily hurt themselves.
True kindness has never been weakness, forbearance and compromise, but in seeing people's hearts clearly, distinguishing between right and wrong, maintaining the bottom line, and adhering to the principle of giving, helping and supporting, this kind of kindness is worth having.
Get along with people, and be angry and make money
How well people get along with each other, mainly depends on the atmosphere of conversation between them, only when everyone respects each other, understands each other, and everyone is harmonious, can this relationship last continuously. Treat people with kindness, smile, and be courteous, so that people can increase their good feelings for you and be willing to associate with you.
In the exchange, talk can not be too blunt, too perfunctory, do not interrupt when others speak, do not say nonsense, to know how to observe the color, only to create a good relationship, once the popularity is good, the opportunity will naturally increase, do things naturally become more satisfactory.
Everyone has their own difficulties, but also have their own unhappiness, rather than indulging in the past, unable to let go, it is better to learn to be strong, optimistic, and meet your rainbow will eventually belong to you.
No matter who you get along with, you must keep the above tips in mind to make our lives as smooth as water!