Author: Water color
Source: Mom.com Parenting (ID: mmwyuer)
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After giving birth to a "huge baby", I became "sick"
"Because of my postpartum depression, breast milk quality is not good and nutritional deficiencies;
My son cried in my husband's arms, and I sat on the bed and watched my husband cry..."
In the new season of "Wife's Romantic Trip", Qin Hailu revealed that she had suffered from postpartum depression.
She conceived the baby at the age of 36, and the pregnancy itself was very hard.
The most worrying thing is that the fetus was found to have hereditary giant baby disease during the obstetric examination, and the weight was seriously oversized and difficult to control, and even the doctors felt headaches.
Medically, newborns weighing 2-4 kg is normal weight, more than 4 kg is called macrosomia, if more than 4.5 kg, the risk of childbirth and the risk of health problems after the baby is born will be greatly increased.
A mother in Jiangsu because of gestational diabetes, coupled with no strict control of diet, the first fetus weighed 11.4 pounds, the second child gave birth to a 13.6 pounds of giant baby, as soon as she was born with blood sugar and breathing problems, she got on a ventilator...
It's hard to have a baby, and it's even harder to have a giant baby.
In order to control the weight of the fetus, Qin Hailu carefully controlled her diet, eating only two meals a day, or quantitative.
Still, by 37 weeks, fetal markers were already outside the 40-week mark.
Coupled with her a lot of amniotic fluid, and a huge belly like a twin, even daily life is extremely difficult.
Because the fetus is too large, only caesarean section can be selected, and the most terrible thing is that the doctor said: overweight babies may also have complications.
It was hard to survive until the time of delivery, and the mother and child were safe, but for the arrival of this 9-pound fat boy, Qin Hailu did not know how to deal with it.
After giving birth, her weight reached more than 160 pounds, and she also had to worry about the child's problems, worried about complications, the child cried and cried, her heart was completely out of line, and soon she suffered from postpartum depression.
Because she cried every day, her eyes were red, swollen and inflamed, and her eyeballs were damaged, and the doctor could only make her double eyelids to make her eyelashes turn up and no longer rub.
Fortunately, after three months, her son was normal, and her husband's care for her gradually found her self-confidence and slowly recovered from depression.
Now, after five years, qin Hailu still couldn't help but blush when he recalled that difficult time.
Procreation is the greatest adventure in a woman's life.
How many mothers have survived the pregnancy reaction, endured ten levels of labor pain, escaped amniotic fluid embolism,
After giving birth to a baby, he finally failed to escape postpartum depression.
02 I was so close to the collapse, but he said I was pretentious
How terrible is postpartum depression?
Only those who have experienced it know that it was perhaps the hardest day of their lives:
"I was lying there looking at the ceiling, always fantasizing about a rope hanging there, and I felt like I wanted to put my head up."
"I got sick, but because I didn't cough and didn't have a runny nose, no one in the family knew I was sick, but I was really sick..."
"Little Swallow" Li Sheng admitted in the interview that she had been plagued by postpartum depression, not only anxious for a long time, the most serious thing was that she often cried in the middle of the night looking at the ceiling and crying all the time.
In September last year, Japanese actress Yuko Takeuchi, known as the "Queen of Smiles", hanged herself at home late at night, suspected of postpartum depression, and her youngest son was only 8 months old.
Strong Lotte, like Taiwanese actress Zhong Xinyi, also fell into anxiety every day after giving birth to her eldest daughter and could not breathe.
She said:
"Postpartum depression is a state of mind that slowly pushes you into a black hole, and you don't want to go there, but your emotions can't be controlled by yourself."
If childbirth is a ghost door, postpartum depression is a blunt knife, slashing the fragile body and mind of mothers one by one.
I read a postpartum story shared by a new mother online.
After giving birth to the baby, she suffered severe pain from contractions, swollen tear wounds, nipples were sucked, lack of sleep, exhaustion, and the first time she was a mother, she was always helpless.
But when she cried to her husband in fear, his husband did not give comfort, but severely accused her: "Don't cry, you will return to your milk!" ”
The double torture of body and mind, the complaints and accusations of her family, made her both broken and helpless. She suspected she was suffering from postpartum depression, but her family coldly rebuked:
"If there is any depression, you are blessed now!"
Postpartum depression is not a terminal illness, and the incomprehension of those around you is the last straw that crushes the camel.
"You're just being too pretentious";
"Everyone else is normal, why is our family like this"...
Every harsh word of condemnation was fiercely rooted in the heart of his wife.
As Li Ai said in "Diary of a New Student":
Even two intimate people do not have absolute empathy.
Multiple survey data shows:
Up to 80% of mothers have had a tendency to be depressed after childbirth.
Nearly 60% of postpartum depression goes undiagnosed,
50% of diagnosed postpartum depressions go untreated,
20% of postpartum deaths are due to depression.
Postpartum depression is a disease that almost no one understands.
Every "flirtatious" mother has stood on the brink of death.
03 When you become a mother, the world is only the size of a stove and a crib
Many husbands do not understand why their wives become "flirtatious" after giving birth. They think it's easier for a woman to have children.
As everyone knows, my mother's body and psychology have long been exhausted by various factors.
Physiologically, experienced the pain of childbirth, the pain of opening milk and milk, the tiredness of lack of sleep, the tiredness of carrying children, and the sudden change of hormone levels in the body;
Psychologically, the neglect of the family, the helplessness of the first mother, the concern about the suspension of her career, and the inaction of the husband, the disagreement between the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law...
Yuan Yongyi will want to cry when she sees her mother returning from shopping for vegetables alone; her husband's simple words can also make her sad for a long time.
Huo Siyan only stayed briefly because her father came to see her, and cried in the ward.
Seemingly insignificant little things can cause them to collapse completely.
If at this time, the family does not understand and says something hurtful to her, it is tantamount to worse.
Baby rash: "You should eat something you shouldn't eat." ”
Source: TikTok @ Fat Boy Mom
The baby was hungry and crying: "Why don't you have enough breast milk, let you drink more soup, you don't listen..."
Every indiscriminate complaint and accusation is a knife stuck in the mother's heart.
In "Jin Zhiying born in 82", Jin Zhiying, who graduated from a famous school, has a gentle and kind husband and a lively and cute child.
It seems that the family is happy, but she suffers from severe postpartum depression.
Her illness is not untraceable.
After giving birth, she was faced with endless housework every day.
In order to take care of the children, she had to give up her dreams and was not even allowed to "go out".
Surrounded by children 24 hours a day, the whole world is only a square inch of the stove and crib, and the meaning of life seems to be only feeding, bringing a baby, and cleaning.
Even so, she still did not get any understanding:
The husband said that she was at home to watch the children is resting;
The mother-in-law said that she was just a housewife and should do more housework.
I saw a video on the Internet, a mother with a child at home, often photographing the family dog playing, it seems very happy.
One day she told her husband that she was depressed, and he said, "To be depressed is also the dog's first depression." ”
There is a message in the comment area that is very heartfelt:
"The way she looks so funny, and she's depressed, is not in conflict."
Psychology has a word called "smile depression": people smile and frolic in front of people, but inside they cry and say "let me die".
How many mothers are not spared: countless times tossing and turning by the crib, empty, endless self-doubt,
Turning around and lying in bed again, experiencing long periods of insomnia, anxiety, irritability, despair...
Postpartum depression is never an imaginary pain, but a silent cry.
04 When I was in the swamp, thank you for reaching out to me
Postpartum depression is not incurable, and many times, only one person needs to pull her along.
And the love of the family is precisely the cure for postpartum depression.
I once watched a public service video that cared for postpartum depression.
The mother, who was originally brightly colored, gradually became gray and dark because she took care of her children alone.
When the husband saw it, he got up and hugged and shared the responsibility of caring for the child, and the mother returned to the past.
There may be no real empathy between husband and wife, but there can be unshakable protection and the responsibility of being in the same boat through thick and thin.
When Qin Hailu was pregnant, she was an elderly mother, and Wang Xinjun was not at ease, pushing off her work and concentrating on accompanying her at home.
Having just given birth to a child and being discharged from the hospital, afraid that she would be blown by the wind, he wrapped her up in full arms.
After Qin Hailu gave birth to a child, because of worry and overwhelmed, she washed her face with tears all day and lost her previous self-confidence.
Wang Xinjun looked very distressed and encouraged her to go filming and return to a familiar place, while he transformed into a super dad to take care of the children at home.
Qin Hailu suffers from social phobia, and every time she goes out, Wang Xinjun will send her and then say:
"Okay, it's all right, there's a husband."
As long as he was at home, he would not sleep first, and no matter what time his wife came home, he would sit on the sofa in the living room and wait for her.
Married for many years, no matter how old she is, Qin Hailu is still the "baby" that Wang Xinjun holds in the palm of his hand.
In The Wife's Romantic Journey, their dialogue style goes like this:
Qin Hailu was wearing small high-heeled leather shoes to walk the mountain road, tired of walking, Wang Xinjun like magic, took out a pair of flat shoes from the bag she carried to help her change.
In the morning, Qin Hailu was still sleeping in the bed, and Wang Xinjun had already made breakfast, and then gently woke her up.
In the show, Zhang Xinyue said that fans did not like her, she felt that she was dragging Lin Feng down, and Qin Hailu opened up without saying a word:
"You're too pretentious, just live your own life, why should you care what others say?"
Wang Xinjun, who was sitting in the observation room, quickly apologized to Lin Feng on her behalf...
He is a good medicine for Qin Hailu, curing her social fears and depression with love and encouragement;
He is also the one who will always support Qin Hailu,
She lit the fire, he went to extinguish it, she shook people, he went to the aftermath.
05 I'm just an ordinary mom,
And not the omnipotent Superman
It has been said that seeing is the beginning of all healing.
Postpartum depression can occur in every postpartum mother, and only by understanding it can we truly cure it.
01 Prepare for the rainy day and prepare your knowledge with your husband in advance.
In preparation for pregnancy and pregnancy, learn about childbirth, postpartum depression and scientific parenting in advance, so as to avoid problems to the greatest extent;
Even if a problem occurs, you can be aware of the problem in time and respond to it correctly.
Source: bilibili@vivi is much cuter
Parenting is not a one-man affair, men have to take on the responsibilities of husband and father, share the pain of their wives, and learn to take care of their wives and children.
At the same time, the only hostess in the family is the mother, when the mother-in-law invades the territory, points fingers and even imposes interference on the mother's parenting behavior,
In addition to mom learning to be brave enough to say "no," dad also has to be clear about stopping.
02 Self-counseling, not demanding "perfect mother".
Let yourself go, don't force yourself to be a 100-point mother, allow yourself to make mistakes, and allow your children to make mistakes;
Be kind to yourself and try to create your own time and space to alleviate your negative emotions;
03 Once you find depression, seek medical attention in time and take the initiative to seek help.
Don't always feel that "you have to carry it alone". When you feel helpless and emotionally broken, you can confide in your partner, parents, or friends for help.
The Edinburgh Postpartum Depression Scale can also be used for self-test screening, and if you find that you have a tendency to depression, you can see a doctor in time.
Postpartum depression is not incurable, and every depressed mom isn't fighting alone.
We can help each other to be better selves.
Like a line from the movie "Husband Has Depression":
"No matter how dark the night, there will be dawn,
Even if the clear sky suddenly turns cloudy, it is far brighter than the darkness. ”
Fertility is not easy, may every mother be treated gently, even in the dark night, can finally wait for the dawn of happiness.
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1. Is it really the nature of children who do not like to learn? 2. What are the characteristics of the learning tasks that children like? 3. What can we do to help children fall in love with learning?
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Is it really the nature of children who do not like to learn?
One of the most frequently asked questions by parents of school-age children is: What if the child does not love to learn?
❌ "Children don't love to learn", in fact, this premise is not right.
Is it really the nature of children who do not like to learn? To get this clear, we need to think more carefully:
Do children really love to learn "what"?
In the subjects studied in school, did he particularly like which subjects, and did he particularly dislike any subjects?
Is the child really interested in nothing?
For example, building blocks, puzzles, reading picture books, don't you like these things?
A mom once shared her story: She said:
"Before I went to elementary school, my son was very good, he could read books for more than an hour, play puzzles by himself, play for half a day, especially focused! Alas, it is to go to elementary school, and once you do the schoolwork, you will not be able to do it. ”
I then asked, "Is he not doing all the homework in school, or is there some subjects that he loves to learn?" ”
The mother said:
It is not all impossible, chinese memorization is better, children can complete it quickly, and proudly show it to their families, but they will be particularly procrastinating when writing;
Mathematics to do simple problems can also be, encounter problems will not do him is a little anxious, if the amount of problems is large, he will look at the problem will be in a daze, very resistant.
What are the characteristics of the learning tasks that children like?
After listening to this story, we understand:
The learning tasks that children like to meet two "have" principles: one is useful, and the other is interesting.
Reading books and puzzles are fun, such "learning" children like;
Language memorization gives children a sense of accomplishment – useful, and children enjoy learning like this.
But will children not love to learn? Because school learning doesn't conform to the principles of fun and usefulness.
The amount of homework or the problem is too difficult to do, resulting in the child's lack of achievement in learning, and the child often does not see the benefits of learning for him in the learning process.
This requires the companionship and guidance of parents, so that children can see the long-term benefits of learning behavior in the learning process, so that children can experience a sense of control over learning.
What can we do to help children fall in love with learning?
In the process of accompanying children to learn, we can help children improve their interest in learning through these three aspects of efforts:
Help your child create a learning atmosphere
Many parents have the habit of accompanying reading, but often make the situation of accompanying reading "chicken flying dog jumping", this is because we use the wrong method in the process of accompanying reading.
First of all, don't always stare at your child when reading.
Some parents stare at the child's pen when writing homework with their children, and the wrong writing is immediately pointed out, and the child immediately knocks on the table as soon as he is distracted.
What would that child feel like?
It's like we're cooking, our lover is watching, we've just had everything we've cooked, and he's saying, "It's too thick, let's be thinner";
The oil was in the pot, and we were about to put the vegetables in our hands, and he said, "Let it go, the oil will smoke in a moment";
After an hour, the dish was finally ready, and he commented that "this dish has put too much salt" and "this dish has been fried overheated.".
How do we feel? Do we want to cook next time?
If an act is not encouraged, we cannot get the joy of completion, and if the completion process is accompanied by the bad emotions of being accused, then this behavior cannot be sustained.
Children learn the same, learning itself is very boring, if the side has been accompanied by parents' nagging, accusations, so that learning behavior is difficult to adhere to.
In order to improve their children's interest in learning, parents must work hard to help their children create a good learning atmosphere.
For example, when the child is studying, we can read the book next to it and say to the child: "When you write these two lines, I want to read this page of the book, you don't write too fast, don't I just read half a page and you finished." ”
If the child wants to surpass you, he will definitely "small universe explosion" secretly write quickly.
Every once in a while, we should sincerely thank him and say to him: "During the time I studied with you, I read this book myself, so that after studying with you for a few years, my mother will definitely grow a lot." ”
Secondly, we must also help children do a good job of homework management.
Especially for children in the lower grades, you can use the "Tick List Method".
☑️ First, we help the child sort out what homework is available, and then make a list of them.
☑️ Then, determine the order in which the homework is completed, such as prioritizing some difficult homework when the energy is at its best, and putting the simple homework behind.
☑️ Finally, after doing this homework, put a hook on the list to give the child a sense of accomplishment, and then start working on the next one.
This list hook method is very magical, the big goal is disassembled into small goals in a step-by-step, orderly manner, can help children develop good habits of goal management and time management, and also allow children to experience the sense of accomplishment and joy of completing homework one by one.
When a child faces difficulties, identify with his fear of difficulties
When a child is faced with difficulties, we often like to say to him that "it is not difficult".
The child's heart actually feels "so difficult, I can't do it", but we tell him that "there is nothing difficult", which has a conflict.
Just like when we were just working, a difficult task fell on our heads, and this task was completely clueless for us novices, but the leader said: "This matter is not difficult, how can you not do it well?" ”
How do we feel? Annoyed!
So when the child faces difficulties, first of all, we must tell the truth, identify with the child's fear of difficulties, and say to the child: "Well, yes." It does have a certain degree of difficulty. ”
This opens up the first step in communication between us and the child, letting the child know that we are thinking about problems on the same frequency.
Then, he said to him, "Mom also sees that you seem to be looking for a way to solve this problem, right?" This step is to clearly express the child's inner desires.
After that, encourage the child to find a way to solve the problem, saying: "Then let's see what kind of solution can solve this problem." ”
When learning is not going well, help children find a way to break through
Sometimes parents see that their child is sad and comfort him: "This is very difficult, other classmates will not, it is okay, you are already very good." ”
❌ Such an approach to education is very bad.
This seems to be helping children get rid of anxiety and build self-confidence, but this is false self-confidence, and children will have doubts when they reach the class: obviously so many people will, but they will not, or they will feel that they are worse than others.
In the face of the child's sadness, as a parent, what we must do is not to help the child escape, but to find a way to break through with him.
We can say to him: "When my mother was a child, oral arithmetic was always wrong, and then my grandmother gave me a lot of oral arithmetic problems for me to practice, 100 times a day, so that I was about to 'vomit blood', and then my oral arithmetic score finally improved." ”
"What kind of garbage is this?" At present, such "directly hitting the soul" questions abound in Shanghai. On July 1, the Shanghai Municipal Household Waste Management Regulations officially began to be implemented, which means that after more than 20 years of advocacy, garbage classification will finally be included in the legal framework.
So, why exactly is garbage sorting?
What does unclassified garbage cause?
How can we really overcome the "hard bones" of garbage classification that have been gnawed for more than 20 years?
On June 19, the property staff of the Shanghai World Financial Center attracted the people in the building to participate in the garbage sorting through the form of dance. Photo by Xinhua News Agency reporter Liu Ying
"Points" means "subtractions"
China's population is huge, and the amount of domestic waste generated is huge. According to the data provided by the China Urban Environmental Sanitation Association in 2015, the annual amount of domestic waste generated per capita in China is 440 kg, and it is growing at a rate of 8%-10% per year. In stark contrast, municipal waste disposal capacity is inadequate.
Taking Beijing as an example, according to Sun Xinjun, director of the Beijing Municipal Urban Management Committee, the city now generates nearly 26,000 tons of domestic garbage per day, with an average of 1.1 kilograms per day. There are currently 29 waste disposal terminal facilities in Beijing, all operating at full capacity.
According to statistics, garbage classification can reduce the amount of domestic garbage generated per capita by two-thirds, which is conducive to improving the quality of garbage and making incineration (or landfill) better harmless treatment.
Taking waste incineration as an example, classification can help incineration treatment to do better, and can play a role in reducing the amount (reducing the amount of waste disposal), reducing emissions (reducing pollution emissions), improving quality (improving combustion conditions), and improving efficiency (improving power generation efficiency).
Beijing Sanitation Group Nangong Biomass Energy Co., Ltd. is the fifth domestic waste incineration plant in Beijing. In a 28-meter-deep garbage storage warehouse that can hold 10,000 tons of garbage, two huge grapples take off and land, constantly throwing garbage into two incinerators with a temperature of more than 850 ° C. The incineration plant can "eat" 1,200 tons of household waste every day and "spit out" about 350,000 kWh of electricity.
Yuan Manchang, deputy general manager of Beijing Sanitation Group Nangong Biomass Energy Co., Ltd., who is responsible for the incineration plant, told reporters, "After the classification of domestic garbage, the calorific value of garbage can be increased by more than 20%, which greatly improves the power generation of garbage incineration, with the advancement of garbage classification, on the one hand, the pressure of garbage incineration plant in environmental protection emission control will be reduced, on the other hand, the conversion rate of renewable energy will be further improved." ”
The environmental protection team of Everbright Securities believes that garbage classification will further promote the improvement of incineration calorific value, the amplitude is 30%-40%, if calculated at 0.4 yuan / kWh feed-in tariff, the profit of waste incineration projects will increase by 15-20 yuan / ton; at the same time, garbage classification will also control dioxin emissions, and dioxin emissions after classification will be reduced by up to 80%.
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The difficulties and breakthrough points of "one brain"
In Beijing, although the garbage cans in most communities are marked with garbage categories, most residents are almost mixed with domestic garbage and will not be classified. Many residents said: "Anyway, the garbage trucks are all transported away in one brain, and it is useless to sort them." ”
Such a phenomenon and mentality are very common, in the view of Hao Zhilan, chairman of the Urban Construction and Environmental Protection Committee of the Beijing Municipal People's Congress, on the one hand, the current phenomenon of "mixed shipment" affects the enthusiasm of residents to carry out garbage classification. On the other hand, the classification of residents' garbage is not in place, which also affects the effect of classification, collection, transportation and classification treatment. As a result, it is easy to form a vicious circle of mutual distrust and mutual blame between the main body of garbage delivery and the main body of collection and transportation.
So how to crack such a loop? In fact, the whole work of garbage classification is divided into 4 links: classified delivery, classified collection, classified transportation, and classified treatment. The vicious circle that Hao Zhilan said mainly occurs in the first three links.
Yuan Manchang introduced that with his many years of experience in sanitation, Beijing has made preparations for garbage classification in the system, especially in the process of classification and treatment, all kinds of garbage can be reasonably disposed of. The phenomenon of "mixed shipment" can also be well handled after the upgrading of garbage transport vehicles, "this problem is not big, the difficulty is still in the classification and collection links." ”
Hao Zhilan said that garbage classification has not yet become a common action and living habit of residents. According to the poll, Beijing residents' awareness rate of the "four classifications of garbage (kitchen waste, toxic and hazardous garbage, recyclable garbage, and non-recyclable garbage)" has reached 80%, but the awareness and participation rate of residents in the classification of garbage is still low, and the accurate delivery rate of kitchen waste is only 20%. Residents' garbage classification is still in the stage of "conceptual recognition and lagging behind in action".
It is understood that at present, 100 garbage classification demonstration areas have been created in 30% of the streets and townships in Beijing, and Sun Xinjun, director of the Beijing Municipal Urban Management Commission, said that the coverage rate of the demonstration area should reach 60% in 2019, covering more than 200 township streets.
In fact, the creation of garbage classification demonstration areas is still in the promotion of institutional coverage, and the gap between it and the actual coverage is large.
"We randomly sampled 12 residential communities in 7 districts from the list of residential communities provided by the Municipal Urban Management Committee to carry out garbage classification demonstration areas, of which 5 communities with better kitchen waste separation rate basically rely on the on-site supervision and secondary sorting of 'green armbands', and labor costs are higher." If garbage classification does not have a wider participation of the masses, there will be a phenomenon of 'successful pilots and difficulties in promotion'. Hao Zhilan said.
On June 19, garbage collectors at the Shanghai World Financial Center transported the garbage back to the garbage room for centralized sorting. Photo by Xinhua News Agency reporter Liu Ying
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"Penalty" is not the goal
According to incomplete statistics, 16 cities have introduced local regulations or rules for domestic garbage classification, 26 cities have included garbage classification work in legislative plans, and since 2017, Shanghai, Xiamen, Xining, Guangzhou, Shenzhen Chongqing, Taiyuan and other places have issued local legislation on garbage classification.
On July 1, the Shanghai Municipal Household Waste Management Regulations officially began to be implemented. This means that after more than 20 years of advocacy work across the country, Shanghai has taken the lead in incorporating garbage classification into the legal framework. In the regulations, for the first time, the whole process of domestic garbage is clearly classified, and the system of responsible person for classified management and corresponding legal responsibilities is established. The connection between you is more than you alone
There is such a man, usually chatting with him, may feel very happy to talk to. But almost all conversations start with you first. You will often find a topic to talk to him, and you are reluctant to end the conversation. But he never seems to take the initiative to come to you, if you do not take the initiative to provoke the topic, he can not contact you for ten days and a half months. When you have a conflict and a Cold War, his attitude is the same, an attitude of inaction and irresponsibility. Sometimes you just gamble with him, try to make a little person, as long as he comes to coax you, you can turn anger into joy. But he is always hanging on to you like that, and he is not willing to take the time to find you.
In fact, no one is unreasonable, and he just wants to see what kind of situation he can give in to you. Many of us are like this: once wronged, we like silence. People who care about you will put down the shelf for you, people who don't care about you will maintain a stalemate, and from beginning to end, the only person who is disappointed is yourself.
Never explain to you what zhang Ailing's "Little Reunion" has a sentence: the sound of rain is babbling, like living by the stream, I would rather rain every day, thinking that you are not coming because of the rain. When I first saw this sentence, Xiaobian was particularly touched. When you are deeply in love with someone, you can't help but become humble. Even if he doesn't come to you, you can still find all kinds of excuses for him, constantly convincing yourself and comforting yourself. He doesn't reply to your WeChat, doesn't take the initiative to find you, and even when you question him, his attitude is always so perfunctory. He never explains too much about everything he does to himself, but says that you are too suspicious and not considerate enough.
However, many women are so stupid that even if they know that he is lying, they are still willing to believe it. Who would have thought that he wouldn't even bother to weave a lie to you, and trample on your sincerity like this? You always make excuses for him, and even reflect on whether you have done something wrong, but these reasons, in the end, you are tired. Tired, just leave. So non-human, forget it. He doesn't love you that much, you know. One day, you will find the message that comes back to you in that second, pin your WeChat, and often want to stick to your people. His past may not be able to participate, but your future will be carefully cared for by him and held in the palm of his hand.
Conclusion: Many men always feel that women often make a fuss about such a small thing on WeChat chat, as if it is very unreasonable, and then understand elegance.