Reporter Lin Yanjun /Taipei News
"Doctors Are Hot" hosted by Hu Gua this time, unlike the previous content that only discussed physical health, talked about mental health issues, and asked Zhou Yipi to share the story of misunderstandings caused by words with his family in the past.
Zhou Yipei shared that in the past, her parents disciplined her strictly. (Photo/ Courtesy of ETTV)
Zhou Yipi (big teeth) blew himself up in the past, his father had long asked his daughter to go home to see them regularly, with the words "You are already working now, you have to give money to the family every month", which caused the main cause of her financial pressure and emotional collapse, and because of this, there was a communication conflict that was slapped by her father, which made the father-daughter relationship worse.
Zhou Yipei revealed on the show that when she was a child, her mother had extremely high requirements for her studies: "I let you eat the same meal and read the same books as others, why can others take the 100-point test and take the first place, you will never be able to pass the test!" 」 But she actually only scored 89 points, plus her mother always said "you are useless", so that she has always been under pressure.
Liu Yixin, Cao Xiping, and Big Tooth Day Forward Studio video. (Photo/ Courtesy of ETTV)
Psychologist Qiu Yonglin said, "This is a kind of 'Pemalong effect', what you are said to be when you are a child, you will become like that when you grow up." But he also added that there are still people who are very mentally resilient and will do the opposite. Psychiatrist Chen Jiongming said, "Parents can still ask for children sometimes, but if you ask too much, it is easy to cause harm to children." Hu Gua smiled and said, "Fortunately, Xiao Zhen didn't have the trouble of schoolwork pressure when she was a child, because the grades were never the last place or the penultimate place, but I was afraid that she would do too well in the test, and I would doubt whether she was cheating." The unexpected revelation made everyone laugh until it was impossible.
Zhou Yipi's parents all pinned their hopes on her single daughter, the pressure forced her to move out as soon as she graduated from high school, and then her parents asked her to go home once a month and give filial piety fees, until once she did not work well, there was no money to give to the family that month, so she began to avoid calls from home, "Later I wanted to say that I went back to pretend to be stupid, and as a result, I ate, and my father asked: 'What about this month's money?'" I should have given it to me!" He also kept saying in a reproachful tone, "Why don't you have money?" Aren't you working? Where do you spend all your money?"
Hu Gua broke the news that Xiao Zhen had poor grades when he was a child. (Photo/ Courtesy of ETTV)
Let Zhou Yipei, who always likes to report good news and not worry, burst out in emotion, angrily choking: "Do you think I am a printing machine?" I just don't have any money! If you want money, do you want to arrest me and sell me? All the organs are sold!" After listening to the annoyed and angry father directly rewarded her with a slap, the father-daughter relationship directly broke up. Later, Zhou Yipei's mother explained to her that her father actually did not want to take money, but hoped to go home through her money, by the way, to see if she was doing well, but she would not express it with words of concern, and then because of her father's illness, the relationship between the two was slowly repaired.
Obstetrician and gynecologist Zheng Chengjie said that many parents and children take money and do not take it to spend, usually afraid of children spending randomly, help save, and most of the fathers are not good at expression, resulting in parent-child relationships always have misunderstandings. Courgette shared, "The red envelopes that children gave me are all old to this day, and I still keep them." He believes that these have its commemorative value, and there will be words written by children on the red envelopes, like Xiaozhen who wrote "daughter's hard-earned money", which made the audience laugh. The program was broadcast at 10:00 p.m. on the 20th.