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The movie "Hello, Li Huanying", I don't know how many people have cried, as a daughter who has lost her mother, but also a mother, I can't help but cry.
"Since I can remember, my mother is a middle-aged woman, so I always forget that my mother was once a flower season girl", people were hit in their hearts by Jia Ling's words, and they began to look for their mothers from the past years who were also flowers and girls.
It's like this —
"Spring Song"
Qindi Luoshi woman, picking mulberry green waterside.
Plain hands on green strips, red makeup white fresh.
Silkworms are hungry for concubines to go, and the five horses are still alive.
In the spring of life, they were once such green girls, as bright and beautiful as spring, as youthful and playful as Luo Shi.
This is Li Bai's "Midnight Wu Song" of the "Spring Song", also known as "Midnight Four Hours Song", here Midnight does not refer to the Midnight Hour, but the name of a Jin Dynasty woman, she originally created this song, so named the Midnight Tune, and later developed into a filler poem was collected into the Six Dynasties Music House, because it belongs to Wu Yin, it is called "Midnight Wu Song", and later there is a variant of "Midnight Four Hour Song", divided into spring, summer, autumn and winter, singing four hours of wind objects, lyrical four hours of love. The great poet Li Bai wrote four female figures according to spring, summer, autumn and winter, and now even looking at it, it is like the four seasons of a woman's life.
The image of the spring song woman comes from the Han Le Fu "Mo Shang Sang" in the Sang Maiden Qin Luoshi, this long Han Le Fu poem has appeared in modern middle school textbooks, the beautiful girl Qin Luoshi described in it, from hairstyle to zhucui, from the color of the clothes to the style, are carefully depicted the beauty of the Cai Sang Maiden, Li Bai is condensed pen and ink, the film lens is general, and just a stop-motion close-up is all perfectly presented: "Plain hands on green strips, red makeup white and fresh." ”
Green strips and white days, picking mulberry green water, plain hands red makeup, color contrasts are so bright, the light and shadow sway in the beautiful spring scenery, spring and girls are full of vitality, the beauty of beauty, the beauty of life, the beauty at a glance, the explanation is superfluous. The ending is a dynamic shot, the bright girl faces the flirtatious conversation of the admirers, lively, spontaneous, and resolutely said: "Silkworm baby is hungry, I want to go home, you who drive a luxury car must not follow me again!" "The implication is that what about being rich and powerful, in my heart, silkworm babies are more important than you, and what are you talking about?"
This scene, like Li Huanying in the movie when she was a girl, is so beautiful and generous and pure: whether you like a person or not has nothing to do with whether he is the son of the factory manager or not.
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The green girl grows up happily and walks into the summer of life, just like the lotus leaves and other warm lotus flowers——
"Summer Song"
Mirror Lake three hundred miles, lotus flowers.
In May, the west is collected, and the people look at the pass Ruoye.
Returning to the boat without the moon, he returned to the Yue King's house.
Jinghu, Ruoye, are all place names in Shaoxing, Zhejiang, and according to legend, Xishi was once a Huansha girl by Ruoye Creek, so Ruoye Creek is also called Huansha Creek.
After the spring grows, it is summer, Li Bai uses the image of the beautiful woman Xi Shi to write, he is singing the magnificent act of Xi Shi giving up his body to take righteousness, I come with the spring song, or can imagine, which daughter to be married at this moment Fanghua, is not Mei Ruo Xizi? Also like this Han Tingting, three hundred miles mirror lake, hula all bloom beautiful lotus flowers, how magnificent, like blooming youth.
"Return to the boat without the moon, return to the Yue Wang family", for Xi Shi, return to the Yue Wang family, that is to go to the mission of saving the country, for ordinary folk girls, out of the cabinet into marriage, married as a woman, from then on bid farewell to the unrestrained self, ended the beautiful and free girlhood, but also rushed to the unknown fate, and how not a little bit of grandeur, after that, she is no longer the delicate children of others, the bright and delicate Qin Luoshi, the beautiful and intelligent Yue Xi Shi, the tender shoulders will have to shoulder all kinds of heavy responsibilities of life.
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After marrying a woman, in the grind of life, the girl slowly grew into a woman who was independent and managed inside and outside.
Autumn Song
Chang'an is a month, and the sound of thousands of households pounding clothes.
The autumn wind blows endlessly, and it is always jade.
He Riping Hu Yu, the good people strike the expedition.
This is the most famous poem in Li Bai's "Midnight Wu Ge" group of poems, not only beautiful, but also very atmospheric, he is speaking for all the women of Chang'an Zhengren. In the poem, the woman's husband marched to a distant place, and in the autumn night, the lonely moon hung high, the shape was single, the night was cold, and the sound of thousands of households pounding clothes was more like the loneliness of beating.
The mashing here is not washing clothes, it is the coarse linen cloth on the stone anvil and pounding with a mallet, and the cloth is mashed and sewn well, which is the preparation for the production of winter clothes, and the meticulous housewives use it to do other delicate work during the day, using the moonlight at night to do such rough work without careful observation.
Li Bai wrote about picking mulberries in spring, picking lotuses in summer, and pounding clothes in autumn, all of which were typical female labor projects at that time. This woman, while tinkering with clothes, while looking at the moon hanging high, while thinking about her husband on the frontier, is more like our modern song: "The fifteenth moon shines in the hometown, shines on the border pass, the quiet night, you also miss, I miss ...", ancient and modern with this round of the moon, with this tenderness for thousands of years.
Heaven forbid, can they all be okay? From ancient times to the present, how many such women have supported the heavy responsibility of the family, respecting the elderly, raising children, cultivating, and working, only hoping that the country will be stable as soon as possible and realize the reunion of ten thousand families, they are simple and unpretentious, kind and diligent, pure and respectable, and have the shadow of their mothers, which is admirable.
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From the strange bride to the industrious housewife, in the long time, they have honed into a clever woman with flying needles and threads——
Winter Song
The Ming Dynasty envoys sent their hair and marched on robes overnight.
Plain hand draws a needle cold, that is like a pair of scissors.
The tailor sent a long way, how many days to Lintao?
Li Bai is a Tang Dynasty romantic poet, if he crosses over, he must also be a very good novelist, this winter song is still the perspective of recruiting women, but together it is a fascinating emergency: the emissary suddenly said that tomorrow morning to leave for the place where her husband shubian is, it is really unexpected and surprising, but the time is so short, what to do, what to bring to him in the distance? "One night silk robe", the woman picked the lamp night battle, the flying needle thread, layer by layer, for the husband's cotton clothes, "plain hand needle cold, that can be a pair of scissors", such a cold winter night, this small silver needle is to take a cold finger, not to mention the ice-like big scissors.
After a night of hard work, the skillful housewife hurriedly prepared the winter robe, handed it to the emissary at dawn, and asked "How many days to Lintao", hoping that she would immediately be able to let her husband wear the cold, and the image of a woman with sharp hands and feet and deep affection was about to come out.
At this point, a woman has grown into a family of Dinghai God Needle, she must already be a mother, a night of kung fu, must also be a day and night to work out of the divine skill, she and the sword drawing sword warrior, has become a warrior of life. Or imagine that the families of modern workers, couples who travel to two places in order to survive, how many women are also like this alone to pick the door and set up the house, inside and outside, carrying the whole family.
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Seeing the needle and thread, sewing clothes to warm, often can't help but think of the image of the mother, just like MengJiao's well-known "Wandering Son":
The mother's hand is threaded, and the wanderer's body is clothed.
The seams are tightly sewn, and I am afraid that I will be late.
Whoever says anything will be rewarded with three Chunhui.
This is a mother's heart, afraid of your cold, afraid of your heat, afraid of your thirst, afraid of your hunger, that needle and thread of the dense, are the mother's infinite concern.
In the movie, Jia Ling recalled that her mother would not do any needlework before marriage, and after having her naughty child who was stumbling and crawling, in order to sew her torn clothes and rotten pants, her mother slowly became a sewing master, and a patch could sew flowers. This is the growth epic of the girl to the mother, but also the warm image of the mother for thousands of years, "whoever says anything, repays the three Chunhui", the unrequited kindness deeply touches our hearts.
The two words mother are indeed like having a huge energy field, there is a saying that "for the mother is rigid", not only just, may also become a hundred changes in king kong, women from the beginning of childbirth, breastfeeding, with children, parenting ... At the same time, we must also consider our own sustainable development in the workplace, the acceptance of society, and take into account the various conditions of both parents... It is really a hundred variations of King Kong, but also an arbitrary brick, where you need to move, even if you don't know a certain skill before, as long as the child can use it, how difficult it is to stand up and take it, because you are a mother.
These women throughout the ages, under the refinement of life, are already a tenacious and tenacious warrior on the battlefield of life, from human daughter to wife to mother, sour, sweet and bitter, rain, snow and frost, they are all burdened, taking care of the old and young in the family, but also taking care of their husbands, perhaps, only forgetting themselves.
Such a result, so beautiful and so hurtful, touching I would like to say that female characters bear too much of an excessive burden, and now this society that is still dominated by men needs to truly appreciate the difficulty of women, and no longer use the label of so-called "traditional virtues" to kidnap modern women, please give sincere respect and plain care.
Regardless of men and women, the first thing is to become themselves, become an independent "person", and then men and women, on the basis of mutual respect, truly see and recognize each other's efforts, the ideal state of "equal rights" is possible to come.
In such a March, I only hope that the women of the world, spring has vitality and autumn has harvest, summer has strong and winter has leisure, in the four seasons of life, the seasons have a smile, always hug themselves, smile and beautiful you, life will be gentle.
-Author-
A lake, a simple woman who loves poetry.