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A parent-child relationship that suffers from gain and loss

author:Confused water is impermanent

Many times, I can "become good friends with my child", such as sitting face to face and talking, doing experiments, reading, writing, etc., or I can patiently wait for him to finish speaking, get dressed, and carry his school bag. Sometimes, I can't avoid "becoming the child's fear and dislike", such as lack of patience, loud rebukes, ignoring and so on, and sometimes it is inevitable to collapse in an instant, sending a large number of Wolverine palms and Wolverine feet. At the same time, often after irrational behavior, seeing his helpless eyes, the heart began to condemn himself. After all, he is a child, facing a complex society with his own nature.

A parent-child relationship that suffers from gain and loss

However, what to do? He was already a six-year-old, about to enter elementary school, and some habits had to be formed as soon as possible, and some pains had to begin to be experienced. Growing up is to leave the familiar comfort zone and experience the strange life of Baiwei, and children are no exception.

A parent-child relationship that suffers from gain and loss

Besides, people are not sages, how many people can do everything calmly? Moderate reproach from parents is also a kind of love, and having a perception of mistakes is a compulsory course for children, and learning to take responsibility can make children more powerful. Parents punish with a degree of punishment, which is a blessing in the child's life, and it is always a hundred times stronger than the child being bullied by all kinds of people in society in the future, right?

A parent-child relationship that suffers from gain and loss

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