At the beijing winter olympics just past, Wu Dajing, Gao Tingyu, Ren Ziwei, Xu Mengtao, etc., a group of ice and snow athletes who grew up in the northeast, became the focus of public attention.
Wang Meng, who has a cheerful personality, has successfully fired out of the circle with his professional and humorous explanation.
In fact, the vast land of the northeast has not only produced excellent athletes, but also many literary and artistic talents have also come from here.
Not long ago, Yin Xiumei, a 66-year-old singer who appeared at the CCTV Spring Festival Gala, was one of them.
This woman with a strong voice showed great elegance on stage and had many friends in life, but she had also experienced ups and downs in marriage.
However, after escaping from adversity, she once again encountered love and experienced a beautiful cross-border love.
Can career, friendship, love all kinds of harvest, Yin Xiumei has what kind of charm? The answer lies in her life story.
01
On New Year's Day in 1956, Yin Xiumei was born in Hegang City, Heilongjiang.
Her father was a technical cadre in the coal mine, and the salary was very good. Her mother was also a very good housekeeper, so she always managed the family in an orderly manner.
If you use a word to describe Yin Xiumei's childhood, it is probably the most appropriate to have no worries about food and clothing.
When many people are worried because they can't eat enough, Yin Xiumei's family can have surplus grain every year. When some families buy back a dress, brothers and sisters can only take turns to wear, Yin Xiumei's sisters and brothers are still new clothes.
At that time, if Yin Xiumei's family went out en masse, they would immediately become the focus of the road, because compared to most people, their families were indeed much more glamorous.
Yin Xiumei, who grew up in such a privileged family, has lofty ambitions since she was a child, and initially she wanted to become a female soldier and a female pilot.
Later, seeing that the doctor saved lives and was respected, Yin Xiumei had the idea of studying medicine again. However, the child is a child, and after learning how hard the doctor's work is, she decisively dismissed this idea.
Although Yin Xiumei constantly envisioned a better future, in fact, fate had already made the best arrangements for her.
In her childhood, Yin Xiumei's voice was very unique, and she sang a different taste, and with this voice she became the artistic backbone of the campus.
At the age of 14, Yin Xiumei was selected by the Hegang Song and Dance Troupe and became one of them.
It was only then that she realized that she did have a musical talent and that it seemed nice to be a singer.
In those years, Yin Xiumei sang in the main business of the troupe, danced in the side business, and was very busy. Although she is the youngest in the troupe, she is involved in it no matter how difficult the conditions are.
At that time, Yin Xiumei originally thought that she would take singing as a career in this life, but she did not expect to dismiss many people in a reform group, and Yin Xiumei, who was not originally among the dismissed, was also taken out.
Then, whether to obey the arrangement to go to the countryside like everyone else, or to give up her years of work became a choice in front of her.
02
From the heart, Yin Xiumei was of course reluctant to go to the countryside. She is idle at home, with a semiconductor every day.
At that time, there were always some model plays on the radio, and she would do some chores while singing along, and after a while her singing skills were better than before.
After more than half a year, in the opposition of the crowd, Yin Xiumei, who was dismissed for no reason, and several others were able to return to the song and dance troupe.
Yin Xiumei once confessed that she was a very stubborn person. In fact, she is indeed not an ordinary stubbornness.
Soon after returning to the song and dance troupe, the troupe informed Yin Xiumei that the provincial song and dance troupe wanted to second her to attend the Canton Fair. And when she rushed to Harbin, she realized that this opportunity was not hers, but that many people had to compete again to decide who to give.
This small change made Yin Xiumei feel that she had been deceived, and she refused the game in a huff, turned around and went to her sister in Ha City.
The people of her provincial song and dance troupe panicked, and they began to inquire about her whereabouts, and found her sister's factory dormitory, shouting Yin Xiumei's name, so that they could say that they would ask her to go back.
Can't help the other party's soft and hard bubbles, in the end Yin Xiumei still went back, but also fortunately she went back, that time she stood out among the candidates selected by various cities by strength, and won the opportunity to go to the Canton Fair.
It is also because of this opportunity that many art troupes have seen this glowing gold, and the China Broadcasting Art Troupe is the first to be strong, sending Jiang Kun, who has been in the Northern Wilderness, to greet Yin Xiumei.
Interestingly, at that time, Jiang Kun was still 4 days away from getting married, but in order to complete the task, he had to rush to Hegang and plan to pick up Yin Xiumei and return to Beijing as soon as possible.
Who knows that Yin Xiumei, who is only in her early 20s, is full of reluctance to her relatives, and she has always been cheerful, she has become procrastinating, and her mouth is full of complaints.
Later, Jiang Kun was patient and broke his mouth, so he rushed to bring Yin Xiumei to the regiment leader the day before the wedding. Since then, she has not only stood on a bigger stage, but also appeared on the Spring Festival Gala several times and became a well-known singer for the public.
In addition, she has also gained many, many friends in the literary and art circles, and these friends have surprisingly consistent evaluations of her.
03
Yan Weiwen once commented that Yin Xiumei is a very righteous and atmospheric person, Dai Yuqiang believes that she has the characteristics of jealousy and hatred in her bones, Chen Peisi feels that Yin Xiumei is particularly frank, and Zhu Shimao said that there are few women with this kind of personality.
Judging from the evaluations of these friends, Yin Xiumei is a person who is partial to the boy's personality in life, and what does such a woman look like in love?
Unlike most women, in Yin Xiumei's world, love doesn't seem to matter much.
When she first entered the marriage, she was more like to complete a task, and Yin Xiumei did not like much for the man who joined hands with her, and she even had a less auspicious idea at the wedding.
That is, he is not a partner with whom I am in touch, and I will divorce this person sooner or later.
However, although the end of this marriage was expected, the wedding that had begun could not be stopped, and perhaps she also thought about giving each other some time to run in.
But contrary to wishes, Yin Xiumei once admitted that the two people are not at the same level, and no matter how hard they try, it will not help.
She also vividly used the analogy that when I wanted to enter and exit through the door, the other person insisted on jumping out the window, which was a very frustrating feeling.
In order not to waste each other's time, but also to solve the torment of coexistence, in 1988 Yin Xiumei divorced her first husband and returned to a pure life.
It is reported that Yin Xiumei's first husband was singer Cheng Zhi, but this statement has not been officially confirmed.
In fact, divorce in the 1980s required some courage, but Yin Xiumei was still in full swing after the divorce. She once confessed that she was a very independent person, so this matter did not affect her too much.
However, perhaps this awkward marriage left a psychological shadow on Yin Xiumei, so that she did not dare to choose her other half hastily, so it was not until 10 years later that she touched love again.
What is unexpected is that this time Yin Xiumei's love object is a man from France, Philippe.
04
Many people know that Venus and her husband met on a plane, in fact, Yin Xiumei and Philip were also related by planes.
That year, Philip, who had just arrived in China, boarded a plane to Lanzhou, and when he stood on the gangway, he suddenly heard a unique voice.
Philip followed the prestige, only to see two well-dressed ladies under the plane chatting, and the unique voice came from one of them, and that person was naturally Yin Xiumei.
Sometimes fate is really wonderful, and after getting on the plane, Philip found that the woman who had caught his eye happened to be sitting nearby.
Through close observation, he was even more fascinated by her. In Philip's eyes, this woman not only has a unique voice and an atmospheric appearance, but also her dress is also very different.
Many years ago, Yin Xiumei began to use the shawl as a coat, no matter what the season, she always wore a beautiful shawl, presumably that time she was the same.
And such Yin Xiumei was indeed maverick enough at the time, and Philip even regarded her as a foreign friend like himself.
He could not hide his excitement, and quietly communicated with his assistant, that is, under the introduction of the assistant, he learned that this lady was a native Chinese singer.
This made Philip more interested, he took the initiative to talk to Yin Xiumei, and put forward a request to see her perform, Yin Xiumei also gladly agreed.
It was in this opportunity that Philip and Yin Xiumei became friends.
In fact, from the very beginning, Philip had an unusual liking for Yin Xiumei, but Yin Xiumei never thought that she would find a foreign husband.
She thought to herself, two people with the same culture can't get along harmoniously in marriage, let alone foreigners who don't even know the language!
Coupled with the fact that both of them are busy at work and have very few opportunities to meet, it is not until two years later that the relationship between the two has a breakthrough, and yin Xiumei is moved because she saw Philip's efforts.
05
One day after more than two years of acquaintance, Yin Xiumei suddenly received a call from Philip.
What shocked her was that this time he was able to communicate with himself with Chinese, and the two people talked happily on the phone, and Yin Xiumei knew that the other party had been trying to learn Chinese.
Since then, the contact between them has been much more frequent, but the opportunity to meet is still not much, but despite this, it has not affected the development of the relationship between the two.
In 1998, Yin Xiumei finally decided to go to the city again and married Philippe in France.
In fact, Philippe's family is also a very prestigious aristocrat in France, and his father is engaged in diplomatic work and has served as a French ambassador to foreign countries for many years.
After Yin Xiumei and Philip married, the old man gave Yin Xiumei an ancestral ring from 1687, which was enough to see his affirmation of his daughter-in-law.
Although Yin Xiumei has a personality like a boy, she is very considerate when facing her father-in-law.
After marriage, the husband and wife went on a trip with their father-in-law, because the old man was not in good health, so Yin Xiumei took care of him in every detail, even if the old man went to the bathroom, she had to be sent to the door.
This made Philip's father very moved, and his relationship with the Chinese daughter-in-law became better and better, in order to let Yin Xiumei eat the taste of her hometown in France, he also personally studied the recipe and baked rice in the oven for her to eat.
The harmony between his wife and father makes Philip cherish this relationship even more, he is a gentle and cultivated man, and after falling in love with Yin Xiumei, he has shown a respectful and inclusive side.
Yin Xiumei once praised her husband and said that he pays great attention to my inner feelings, such as what he does that I don't like, and he will remember not to do that in the future.
Yin Xiumei's friend also broke the news that Philip let Yin Xiumei everywhere in life, and that kind of tolerance is very rare.
06
It can be seen that this time Yin Xiumei chose the right husband.
Today, she can be said to be a winner in many ways, and if there is any regret, it is probably that she did not give birth to a child of her own at the right age.
However, for this point, Yin Xiumei is not entangled. She said that God has given me a good voice, and I have gained too many things for it. I shouldn't be so greedy, I'm already satisfied.
Yin Xiumei is indeed a very attractive woman, it can be said that it is a moving singing voice, a straight personality, a style of daring to love and hate, and a contented attitude, which has created her unique charm.