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Zhang Guoqiang
After the famous actor Zhang Guoqiang broke up his first marriage, he went to Beijing alone to work hard. His father, Zhang Haifeng, helped Zhang Guoqiang raise his son for 11 years, led him step by step to the peak of his career, and encouraged him to enter the city again. The old man and his son agreed to wait until the age of 75 to officially announce their "retirement" and raise themselves by their son's side. On April 7, 2010, the old father who had worked all his life was unfortunate to complete the 74-year-old life journey due to lung cancer. In the vicissitudes of the years, Zhang Guoqiang, who left regrets in vain, could not kneel in front of his father's portrait, and Xie En's father loved...
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="4" > marriage broken and left Beijing, the son's tears of a fallen loving father</h1>
On January 17, 2000, the northern city of Jiamusi, Heilongjiang, was ravaged by white hair winds. This morning, Zhang Guoqiang ended a 5-year marriage with his ex-wife, who is also an actor in jiamusi repertory theatre. Personality differences, life tests, and the gap in each other's values have stabbed their marriage to pieces, and the breakup has become an irreversible ending. Zhang Guoqiang left the 82-square-meter two-bedroom apartment and 30,000 yuan deposit to his ex-wife, and he took his 1-year-old and 3-month-old son Zhang Yujing out of the house.
Walking out of the Civil Affairs Bureau, Zhang Guoqiang leaned against the birch tree on the side of the street to cover his face and wept, and the surging tears drowned out all the hopes and dreams of a man for family marriage, and he did not know where to go when he was homeless.
Zhang Guoqiang with his father
At this moment, Zhang Haifeng braved the wind and snow, staggered to his son's side, and the old man took the suitcase in Zhang Guoqiang's hand, choked up and said: "Erqing (Zhang Guoqiang's nickname), go home with your father!" He also took Zhang Guoqiang's hand and returned home like his son did when he was a child.
The 63-year-old Zhang Haifeng was a famous actor in the Jiamusijing Theater before retiring, and his two-year-old wife Ni Jinghuan mainly attacked Lao Dan and was known as the "Queen of Drama Criticism" in the local area. After acting for a lifetime, the old couple originally wanted to raise the elderly, and now the son's marriage is broken, the grandson of more than 1 year old is waiting to be fed, and Zhang Haifeng and his wife have to be busy every day.
The mellow and long family affection gradually soothed the divorce pain in Zhang Guoqiang's heart, and he began to think about planning his life: the drama was sluggish, and there was no drama to play in the troupe all year round, so it was better to concentrate on entering the film and television industry. Over the years, he has participated in 4 film and television dramas such as "After the Smoke Dissipates", "Blood Years", and "Town Judge", and has accumulated certain performance experience. On March 4, Zhang Guoqiang told his father: "Dad, I want to go to Beijing to shoot film and television dramas. Zhang Haifeng fell into contemplation: since his son graduated from Jiamusi Art School in 1989 and entered the drama troupe as an actor, he has only rehearsed 6 plays for 10 years; his son's monthly salary is 184 yuan, and his meager income cannot support his family at all; forced by helplessness, his son has 5 years to sing in the song hall, gags as a host, and there is no future at all. Thinking of this, Zhang Haifeng solemnly replied to his son: "Erqing, you can go to Beijing to change the environment." ”
Zhang Guoqiang (left) with his parents brother and sister
On the day he left home, Zhang Guoqiang picked up his sleeping son from the cradle and handed it to his father, his voice was choked and wet: "Dad, Zhang Yu will all rely on you and your mother from now on." In order to ease the rich parting, Zhang Haifeng pretended to kiss his grandson's forehead easily: "Your father is going to Beijing, and your grandparents will be your full-time nanny in the future. Zhang Guoqiang knew that his father pretended to be humorous to make himself happy, but he couldn't be happy. He did not dare to look at his parents and son, picked up a simple bag, and embarked on the journey of "North Drift" to find his dreams...
Once, Zhang Guoqiang thought that Beijing was full of opportunities, he was a professional actor, and the drama sketch "Encounter" performed by him also won the special award of the sketch contest in the three northeastern provinces, and the opportunity to shoot in Beijing should be at his fingertips. But a full 3 months have passed, and he Zhang Guoqiang has not even won a role in running a dragon suit, which is difficult to win, and he painfully realizes that in the starry Beijing, he is just a drop in the ocean. Every day, he carried a map in his hand and a canvas bag full of steamed buns and boiled water, and he was tired of running from crew to crew. He had no money to rent a house, so he had to take turns to go to his fellow countrymen's friends' house to rub food, and sleep in their attic or living room at night. The embarrassment of life and the confusion of the future surged towards him like a sea of mountains.
The Spring Festival of 2001 arrived quickly, and for most of the year, Zhang Guoqiang only earned a pitiful 3,000 yuan film remuneration, barely enough to maintain expenses. He did not face home for the New Year, on the pretext that the crew only had two days off and could not leave. Chinese New Year's Eve night, Zhang Guoqiang dialed his father's phone in the basement: "Dad, I'm sorry! For such a long time, I have not sent living expenses to Zhang Yu, please forgive me. You and your mother are getting old day by day, and you have to raise a son for me, I am really not filial piety! Zhang Haifeng knew that his son had a filial heart, and if he was not cornered, he would not throw the burden of raising Zhang Yu to himself. Zhang Haifeng told his son: "Your mother and I have a monthly retirement salary, which is enough to maintain the family's expenses. It's just that I haven't seen you for such a long time, and your mother and I can't sleep because you think about it, and often nagged until most of the night. Zhang Yu grew tall and fat, and often cried to find his father. Zhang Guoqiang bit his lip and did not speak, and the tears of missing his relatives rolled down...
Zhang Haifeng and his wife have two sons and two daughters, the eldest son and two daughters have become a family and another family, only the youngest Zhang Guoqiang has become a pain in their hearts. By December 2002, Zhang Guoqiang had not returned home for more than two years. On December 22, Zhang Haifeng took a special train to Beijing to visit Zhang Guoqiang.
Father and son meet in an 8-square-meter rental house in Beijing's western suburb of Haidian District. The walls of the bungalows peeled off and covered with cobwebs; the cement floor was cratered; and there were a few yellowed newspapers on the window panes, even if they were curtains, and the cold wind blew and rattled. Because there was no heating, the house was as cold as an ice cellar. His son's downfall far exceeded Zhang Haifeng's imagination, and he said to his son sadly: "Haifeng, go back to your hometown, so that the family is warm and has food and housing." The stubborn Zhang Guoqiang told his father: "Dad, I have been in Beijing for more than two years, so I went back in a gray and slippery way, I am not willing." ”
Seeing that the quilt on his son's bed was thin, Zhang Haifeng bought a thick duck down quilt from the supermarket, and while making a bed for his son, he nagged and nagged: "You are in your 30s, and you still can't take care of yourself, how can I and your mother be at ease?" At night, the father and son squeezed into a bed, Zhang Haifeng touched his father's dry and thin body, really felt that his father was old, thinking of the old man and worrying about himself, irrepressible tears filled his eyes...
In those days in Beijing, Zhang Haifeng witnessed his son's hardships: every morning when he opened his eyes, Zhang Guoqiang humbly called the director and producer one by one: "Teacher, is there a role suitable for me?" As long as I can play, I don't care how much the film is paid. "As long as there is a glimmer of hope, he rushes out the door and squeezes the bus over, but he is always disappointed.
Stills of Zhang Guoqiang and Wang Baoqiang
At 11:00 p.m. on the 27th, Zhang Guoqiang, who was drunk and drunk, was carried back to his residence by his friends Wu Liansheng and Wang Baoqiang. A friend told Zhang Haifeng: "Guo Qiang took a 3-hour car to huairou film and television base today to meet the director, and the other party sent him off without giving him the opportunity to audition." In order to win the opportunity, he invited the director to dinner at night and poured more than 1 kilogram of high liquor. In the evening, after Wu Liansheng and Wang Baoqiang left, Zhang Guoqiang vomited a mess, and Zhang Haifeng wiped his son's face with a hot towel while crying and complaining: "Son, the body is your own, who do you not cherish?" Zhang Haifeng watched by his son's side all night.
At noon the next day, Zhang Guoqiang woke up from his drunkenness and slammed the wall with his fist: "I am really incompetent, I am useless!" In the days that followed, he became withered and decadent, shutting himself in his room, sighing heavily. Zhang Haifeng saw it in his eyes and felt pain in his heart, he knew that his son's spiritual edifice was already crumbling, and once it collapsed, it would be completely destroyed. On January 4, 2003, Zhang Haifeng made a bowl of fragrant pork stew noodles for his son, and Zhang Guoqiang did not eat a bite. Zhang Haifeng sat down next to his son and enlightened him in a serious tone: "Guo Qiang, we are all ordinary people, don't set too high life goals. As long as you are down-to-earth, your career will always improve. There is no fixed measure of success, you have shot so many scenes, me and your mother and your brother and sister feel amazing. ”
Seeing his son thoughtful, Zhang Haifeng told his son a secret to tell him: "Your eldest sister and brother-in-law were laid off two years ago and the family conditions were not good, they did not collapse, but happily worked everywhere to earn money for your nephew to go to college." We don't have a single breed in the Zhang family, and Dad hopes that you can be as happy and confident as before. A few words touched Zhang Guoqiang's heart: as the son of the Zhang family, he could not shame his parents and family, and Zhang Yu grew up day by day, and he had to set an example for his son. Suddenly, Zhang Guoqiang's sleepy state of mind suddenly opened up, and he took a big bite of noodles and ate them. Zhang Haifeng has mixed feelings...
Seeing his son completely standing up mentally, on January 10, Zhang Haifeng returned to Jiamusi. Along the way, in the face of the scenery that swung by the car window, his heart surged with tens of millions of peaks and valleys: his son was in a difficult situation, divorced and with a child, and he did not even have a stable residence of his own, what should he do in the future? Thinking like this, Zhang Haifeng's old tears spilled all the way...
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="58" > late into fear of marriage, the father encouraged his son to re-enter the "siege"</h1>
Back in Jiamusi, Zhang Haifeng told his wife about his son's situation, and he said to his wife worriedly: "Erqing is 34 years old, he can't always live alone like this, and he will have to become a family in the future." He doesn't even have a house, which woman would follow him? "The husband's words are like a thousand pounds of boulders, pressing on Ni Jinghuan's heart, but how easy is it to buy a suite for his son? Although Zhang Haifeng and his wife are local celebrities, their income is very low, they have pulled up their 4 children and helped them start a family, and they have no savings in their hands. After the old couple retired, the monthly pension added up to only 3,000 yuan, and it almost cost more than half to raise the grandson Zhang Yu. Where to raise money to buy a house for my son? Zhang Haifeng was sad about this.
On April 2, Zhang Haifeng excitedly told his wife: "The old king who sang the flower face in the group, after retirement, immersed himself in stock speculation, started with 100,000 principal, and made a net profit of 130,000 in just over a year." Jinghuan, I also want to speculate in stocks, do not take shortcuts, rely solely on thrift, and never want to buy a house for my son in my life. Ni Jinghuan couldn't think of a better way, so she had to nod her head in agreement.
Zhang Guoqiang played Fang Lianxi in "Breaking the Sky"
After some consultation, the old couple raised a total of 100,000 yuan from their brothers and sisters, plus the family's 20,000 yuan savings, and Zhang Haifeng put all of the 120,000 yuan into the stock market. Previously, Zhang Haifeng had never been in contact with stocks, and even the K-line chart of the broad market could not be understood, coupled with the rapid decline of the stock market into a bear market, in just half a year, the principal of 120,000 yuan shrank to 40,000 yuan. Zhang Haifeng's heart was shocked, and Ni Jinghuan was even more anxious to increase his blood pressure, crying and saying: "If we lose everything, how can we pay back the money of our relatives?" This stock can no longer be speculated, otherwise it will be ruined! Zhang Haifeng realized that he was old and could no longer afford to lose, so he had to endure the pain of "cutting meat", which was enough to lose 80,000 yuan. Holding only the remaining 40,000 yuan, Zhang Haifeng and his wife were heartbroken...
Speaking of Zhang Guoqiang, after many years of "North Drift", the cause finally began to show its dawn. His simple and humble personality, outstanding acting talent, and years of artistic precipitation and tempering have made him stand out among a large group of dragon set actors. In 2004, he played important roles in several film and television dramas such as "Breaking the Sky", "Chang Longji", "To the Point" and so on, and his remuneration rose to 3,000 yuan per episode. In November of that year, Zhang Guoqiang returned home with 50,000 yuan of savings to visit his parents and son. Walking into the house, the parents were not there, and only the 5-year-old son was squatting on the ground and building up the wood. Xiao Zhang Yu looked at him with timid eyes, and after a while, he threw himself into Zhang Guoqiang's arms and called him "Daddy". Zhang Guoqiang asked his son, "Why are you alone at home?" What did the grandparents do? Zhang Yu said milkily: "Grandma went to the supermarket, and Grandpa sang to people." ”
My father is retired, what drama is he singing? Zhang Guoqiang was puzzled. Half an hour later, Ni Jinghuan returned from the supermarket, Zhang Guoqiang learned from his mother's mouth that his father had borrowed money to sell him a house and lost money in stocks, and in the past 1 year, in order to pay off the debts of relatives, the old father frequently sang to people on red and white happy events.
Under the guidance of his mother, Zhang Guoqiang came to the home of a funeral family. A few wooden planks are placed in the courtyard even if it is a stage, in the cold wind, the elderly father is standing on the stage and singing "The Case of Beauty" in an old, sad voice. Father's cheeks were frozen red, his eyebrows were frosted, and his body was shaking... This is the old father who hurts himself and loves himself! For the sake of his young son, he actually put down the self-esteem of a generation of celebrities and became an entertainer who sold songs at red and white weddings! Zhang Guoqiang was embarrassed by himself, and the hot tears poured down...
Zhang Guoqiang greeted him with a deep mood and choked up: "Dad, let's stop singing, go home!" The father and son stepped on the snow and walked back shoulder to shoulder, zhang Guoqiang told his father: "Dad, now I not only have a scene, but also a protagonist, the salary has also risen, don't worry about buying a house." I'll bring back 40,000 yuan for you and your mother, and don't suffer yourself anymore. When he finished, he handed his bank card to his father. Zhang Haifeng stretched out his hand to block back: "Child, it is not easy for you to earn some money, you will have to get married and start a family in the future, there are still more places to spend money, you can save this money." Your mother and I's biggest wish now is to see you make a family. Zhang Guoqiang interrupted his father: "Dad, I am very good alone." Zhang Haifeng burst into tears: "Don't say stupid words, after I leave with your mother, your brothers and sisters have their own small families, who will take care of you at that time?" He made a hard rule for Zhang Guoqiang: "Before I turn 70, you have to complete personal events." ”
After that, every time the father and son met, Zhang Haifeng had to urge Zhang Guoqiang: "Do you remember your father's words?" When to bring my girlfriend home? Since he made an agreement with his father, Zhang Guoqiang has taken finding a girlfriend and filming as two major events in adult life, and began to seriously consider personal issues. In October 2006, on Zhang Haifeng's 66th birthday, Zhang Guoqiang returned to his hometown to wish his father a happy birthday. During the meal, he happily told his father, "Dad, I have a girlfriend." Zhang Haifeng's cloudy eyes suddenly flashed brightly: "Great, Dad is so happy!" Erqing, you take her home as soon as possible, so that my mother and I are happy. Zhang Guoqiang nodded, "Okay, I will definitely take her into the house when appropriate." Since then, Zhang Haifeng and his wife have begun to break their fingers to live a life.
On the eve of the Spring Festival in February 2007, Zhang Guoqiang took his girlfriend Wang Xiaonan back to Jiamusi to meet his parents. Wang Xiaonan, also a native of Jiamusi, is 7 years younger than Zhang Guoqiang, graduated from the Acting Department of Shanghai Theater Academy, and is an actor in Shanghai Television Art Center. Wang Xiaonan, who is talented and knowledgeable, made Zhang Haifeng and his wife happy to close their mouths, and privately the old two told their son over and over again: "Erqing, Xiaonan is a good girl, you should get married as soon as possible." Zhang Guoqiang vaguely agreed.
Stills from Zhang Guoqiang's "Soldier Assault"
Poster of "Misty Willow Town"
In 2008, Zhang Guoqiang starred in popular film and television dramas such as "Soldier Assault", "Wuliu Town", "My Regiment Leader My Regiment", "My Brother Is Called Shunshun" and other popular film and television dramas, and his career was as good as day and day, and he successfully stepped into the ranks of first-line actors, and his salary rose to 120,000 yuan per episode. He and Wang Xiaonan bought a spacious and bright duplex building in Shanghai. Although Zhang Haifeng was surprised and excited, he still had a heart disease in his chest: his son was 39 years old, Wang Xiaonan was also over 30 years old, and both of them were older, so why did they delay getting married?
Ni Jinghuan could no longer sit still: "Old man, we can't wait any longer for this matter, you go to Shanghai and ask them, what is going on?" On May 8, Zhang Haifengfeng rushed to Shanghai, and he carefully asked Wang Xiaonan: "Daughter-in-law, do you hate that Guo qiang is married for the second time and has a child, do you have any ideas about this?" A sentence asked Wang Xiaonan's tears: "Uncle, I can accept everything about Haifeng, and I have long wanted to start a family with him." But I have hinted many times that he either pretends to be stupid or resigns, and I don't know what medicine he has in his gourd? ”
It turned out that the problem was with the son! Zhang Haifeng pulled Zhang Guoqiang to the park in front of the community, pointed to his son's nose and said to his son: "XiaoNan is such a good girl, why are you delaying in getting married to her?" Have you ever thought about how I feel about your mother? I don't trust your mother. Zhang Guoqiang then expressed his concerns in his heart: "Dad, I am worried that after getting married, Xiaonan and Zhang Yu will not handle the relationship well, which will cause family conflicts; besides, the first marriage will hurt me too deeply, and I am worried that remarriage will repeat the same mistakes..."
Zhang Haifeng patted his son's shoulder and said in a serious tone: "Erqing, you are a man who stands tall in the sky, you must dare to take responsibility and dare to face!" Not all cucumbers in the world are bitter. As long as you have a man's ocean-like broad mind, you and Wang Xiaonan will definitely live in harmony and happiness! As for Zhang Yu, your mother and I will continue to take care of and raise him, and when Xiaonan has enough psychological preparation, you will pick him up again. ”
In his father's sentences, what is revealed is the deep father's love, and it is the father's intimate enlightenment that resolves Zhang Guoqiang's deep concerns. Fatherly love gave him the confidence and strength to re-enter the marriage. In May 2009, Zhang Guoqiang and Wang Xiaonan held a simple and grand wedding in Jiamusi. Zhang Haifeng and his wife were full of joy and tears in their wrinkles...
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="62" > kneeling to thank father: Deep fatherly love leads me to grow</h1>
After marriage, Zhang Guoqiang and Wang Xiaonan settled their homes in Shanghai, because Zhang Guoqiang signed a contract with Beijing Huayi Film and Television Culture Company, and Wang Xiaonan also shifted the focus of his career to Beijing with her husband. And Zhang Haifeng did what he said, he and his wife still raised and cared for the young Zhang Yu for Zhang Guoqiang. In order to harmonize the relationship between Zhang Yu and his father and stepmother, this summer, Zhang Haifeng brought 10-year-old Zhang Yu to Beijing to reunite with his son and daughter-in-law.
After 10 days of family together, Zhang Guoqiang wanted to go to Huaihua County, Hunan Province, to shoot the TV series "My Team to the Sun", and Wang Xiaonan also wanted to go to Shanxi to shoot a drama. Zhang Haifeng, who had planned to live in Beijing for a month, decided to return to Jiamusi with his grandson in advance. Zhang Guoqiang sincerely kept his father fruitless, so he said: "Dad, then you will fly back, and in two days I will book tickets for you." ”
Zhang Haifeng knows that it is not easy for his son to make money from filming, and when filming "My Regiment Leader My Regiment" in Yunnan, he was injured by an explosion while filming war scenes, and there are still many stubborn old wounds on his body. Zhang Haifeng did not want his son to waste this money, so he quietly bought two train tickets that afternoon. After Zhang Guoqiang learned about it, his heart was very uncomfortable: "Dad, you have never taken a plane in your life, I just want you to feel it, I hope you can understand your son's filial piety." Despite his father's objections, he exchanged the train ticket for a plane ticket. His parents are old, and they all suffer from diabetes, coronary heart disease and other elderly diseases, Zhang Guoqiang can feel the hardships of taking care of Zhang Yu, originally planned to give his father 5,000 yuan. But thinking that their parents had been frugal all their lives, they were reluctant to spend money, so they bought high-end tonics such as bird's nest and wild ginseng for their parents.
On July 28, Zhang Guoqiang drove his father and son to the Capital International Airport. When they were separated at the security checkpoint, they watched their father holding his grandson while leaning forward, carrying heavy luggage, looking at the old father's back and going away little by little, and the sour tears flowed all over Zhang Guoqiang's face: My father is really old! His once straight body was bent, his broad shoulders had become thin, and the white hair on his head was so glaring...
Stills of Zhang Guoqiang and Li Yue
In Zhang Haifeng's view, his son has a happy family again, his career is in the sky, and he has no worries and regrets in his life, but worry will soon come again. At this time, Zhang Guoqiang was already a well-known big star, and he had won many awards for the best actor in the Starlight Ceremony TV series for many times, and had tens of millions of hardcore fans. Not only that, he also served as the image ambassador of Fujin City, Heilongjiang, and posters of him were posted everywhere in the streets and alleys of Jiamusi, and even urea bags were printed with his art photos. In just a few years, Zhang Guoqiang quickly soared from a poor boy who fell into a red and purple star, and wherever he went, he was greeted by flowers, applause and smiling faces. Gradually, Zhang Guoqiang became a little fluttery, lost in the joy of success.
On New Year's Day 2010, Zhang Guoqiang returned to Jiamusi to visit his father and son, and his heart was full of pride in returning home. After the news of his return to china spread, neighbors and fans poured into the Zhang family, asking for autographs and asking him to drink; some even rushed from Changchun and Harbin and wanted to see him, but Zhang Guoqiang tried to shirk it as much as possible. Several small and medium-sized enterprises such as local wood companies and chemical factories sent people to the door to negotiate with Zhang Guoqiang about advertising endorsements. Zhang Guoqiang either felt that the enterprise grade was low, or felt that the endorsement fee offered by the other party did not meet his psychological expectations, and the result was that one did not negotiate.
The "transformation" of the son hurt the father's heart. Zhang Haifeng pulled his son to the balcony, pointed to a pot of phalaenopsis orchids and asked: "You see that this pot of flowers was still in full bloom the day before yesterday, why did it wither away in just two days?" Zhang Guoqiang scratched his head, unable to find the reason. Zhang Haifeng plucked the leaves at the root of the phalaenopsis orchid and said calmly: "Because Dad hollowed out the soil of the pot, there is no soil for survival, and even the most beautiful flowers will wither." Zhang Guoqiang thought thoughtfully.
Zhang Haifeng solemnly enlightened his son: "Erqing, dad is also an actor, for an actor, the audience is the soil for our survival, without the support of the audience, no matter how big the wrist will fall." You have achieved certain achievements, but you must maintain a normal heart, only in this way, you will go farther and farther on the road of art. The plain words contain the most simple philosophy of life, and Zhang Guoqiang is ashamed of his loss: "Dad, thank you, I understand, from now on I will not let you down." ”
Zhang Guoqiang remembered his father's teachings, and truly regarded the audience as a god, and the fans would reply to him; there were "fans" who went to Beijing to find him, and he not only managed to eat and live, but also sent money when he left. A 20-year-old girl in Houma, Shanxi, who had no money to treat leukemia, tentatively wrote a letter to Zhang Guoqiang for help. Zhang Guoqiang not only wrote a letter to encourage her to be strong, but also donated 10,000 yuan to her. In April of that year, a 7.1-magnitude earthquake occurred in Yushu, Qinghai, and Zhang Guoqiang donated a one-time donation of 200,000 yuan to the victims... The change of his son, Zhang Haifeng looked at it one by one, and the old man's heart rose up with heartfelt relief and pride!
After discussing with Wang Xiaonan, Zhang Guoqiang agreed with his father: "When Zhang Yu graduated from primary school in 2011, I would take him to Beijing with you to live." Zhang Haifeng said happily: "Well, when I go to Beijing, I and your mother will take care of Zhang Yu for half a year, and at the age of 75, I will announce my official retirement and raise my family for a long time!" ”
Zhang Guoqiang and Niu Li
On the afternoon of October 11, 2010, Zhang Haifeng pedaled his bicycle to pick up Zhang Yu from school. As soon as he entered the house, the old man collapsed on the sofa, chest tightness and shortness of breath, and after a violent cough, the sputum spit out was stained with blood. Zhang Yu asked with tears, "Grandpa, what's wrong with you?" Zhang Haifeng completely underestimated the danger of the disease, thinking it was a common cold, he waved his hand to his grandson: "Nothing, Grandpa is not feeling well, don't tell your father, he is too busy." At night, the sensible Zhang Yu secretly told his father about his grandfather's condition on the phone.
At that time, Zhang Guoqiang was filming the TV series "Wang Haitao 41 This Year" at the Huairou Film and Television Base in Beijing, and the next morning, he flew to Jiamusi in a hurry. After 3 months of not seeing, my father's hair was all white, and the man was emaciated and haggard. Zhang Guoqiang asked with tears: "Dad, where are you uncomfortable?" Zhang Haifeng grinned: "People are seventy years old, I am 73 years old, how can I not be a little sick?" After saying that, he went into the kitchen to cook for his son as usual. Seeing that his father did not come out for half a day, Zhang Guoqiang walked into the kitchen unassuredly. The father was sitting on a stool and cutting vegetables hard, and when he saw his son, he quickly tried to stand up, afraid that his son would feel that he was not in good health. Suddenly, the old man's body was crooked, and he collapsed on the ground, and a trace of blood oozed from his mouth. Zhang Guoqiang quickly sent his father to Jiamusi Hospital for emergency rescue. After diagnosis, Zhang Haifeng suffered from lung cancer, advanced.
Zhang Guoqiang did not sleep all night. The next morning, he consulted with his mother and brother and sister with red eyes: "I want to take my father to Beijing for treatment, where the medical conditions are good." The family felt that this was the best way to prolong Zhang Haifeng's life. At 10 a.m., Zhang Haifeng, along with his mother, brother and second sister, flew to escort his father to Beijing.
Zhang Haifeng was admitted to Peking Union Medical College Cancer Hospital. Zhang Guoqiang let his father live in a single ward, hired the best experts in China to consult with his father, and gave his father the best drugs. When the doctor told him that his father's cancer cells had begun to spread and the survival period was not more than half a year, Zhang Guoqiang cried out to the doctor with tears: "I am willing to donate my lungs for my father, and you will do lung transplants for him!" The doctor calmly told him: "The patient has complications such as hypertension and coronary heart disease and cannot perform lung transplant surgery." "My father's life was compressed into half a year, and Zhang Guoqiang was immersed in great grief...
Zhang Guoqiang and Wang Yuanke stills of "Wang Haitao 41 This Year"
At that time, Zhang Guoqiang took turns filming in the two crews of "Wang Haitao 41 This Year" and "Shen Hao" during the day, and drove 3 hours of car to the ward at night to accompany his father. Seeing more and more tubes inserted in his father's body, Zhang Guoqiang was embarrassed by himself: for decades, his father used his thick and thick father's love to warm him, care for him, and lead him to mature and forge ahead; not only that, his father also raised Zhang Yu for himself with hard work, and assumed the responsibilities and obligations that he should have borne. And his return to his father is less than one in ten thousand, when he realized that he should feed his father, but his father's life has entered the countdown, thinking back on all this, how not to let Zhang Guoqiang's liver and intestines be broken?
As long as his father lives for one day, he will be the best filial piety under the heavens. Zhang Guoqiang brought water and medicine to his father, wiped his face and feet, and fulfilled his father's every wish. At night, he insisted on staying in the hospital with him, and when he was really sleepy, he lay down next to his father's bedside for a while. Zhang Haifeng knew that the time for himself was running out, in order not to let his son grieve, the old man behaved particularly strongly: "Erqing, you can rest assured, your father will be at ease, and your father will help you take care of Zhang Yu, and you will not officially retire until the age of 75 to enjoy your happiness!" ”
However, this has become a wish that the old man can never fulfill. On April 3, 2011, the cancer cells in the elderly's body have spread to lymphatic, urinary and other systems, and their lives are in danger. According to his father's wishes, Zhang Guoqiang and his mother, brother and second sister took the 120 ambulance and sent his father back to Jiamusi.
In early spring, the Jiamusi willows spit green, the magnolia flowers are budding, and the bright sunlight shines through the windows. The old man Zhang Haifeng's mood was much better, and he said to Zhang Guoqiang: "Erqing, you love to eat the open river cod in the Songhua River, and dad stewed you again with sauerkraut." With the support of his wife, Zhang Haifeng struggled into the kitchen and sat by the fire to stew cod with sauerkraut. The strong aroma of cod, accompanied by mellow fatherly love, pervades every inch of space in the home, and also precipitates in the heart of the son, which will never be forgotten...
At 6:44 on April 7, the elderly Zhang Haifeng completed his 74-year-old life journey with infinite attachment to life and relatives. Zhang Guoqiang knelt in front of his father's body and bowed to his father to thank him: "Daddy, thank you for your father's love!" Thank you for leading me to maturity and growth! Now that I am also a father and have my own son, I will raise Zhang Yu like you taught me, and pass on your deep fatherly love! Dad, rest in peace in heaven, if there is an afterlife, we will still be father and son! At that time, I will definitely be filial to you and no longer leave regrets for myself! ”
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