Literature | ancient and modern ode to history
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preface
A young woman said very resolutely:
"I don't have a mother, my grandmother is my mother."
Her eyes were full of hatred, and she tearfully accused her mother of her mother's behavior for many years, what was the reason that made the mother turn against each other?
My grandmother was my mother
Things still have to go back to twenty years ago, the girl's mother Zhang Hongqin reached the marriageable age, in the introduction of relatives to know the father Li Zhicheng, out of trust in relatives, the two soon began to fall in love, originally wanted to know more about and then talk about marriage, but Li Zhicheng's age is not small, Li Zhicheng's mother also hopes to hold the grandson early, while still young, you can help with the child.
Therefore, the two were hastily married at such urging, and the two who were originally in love had undergone earth-shaking changes after marriage.
Scenario simulation
After Zhang Hongqin married Li Zhicheng, she found that the Li family was different from what she imagined, and Li Zhicheng was not the kind of honest and generous man.
She also found that her father-in-law is Li Zhicheng's stepfather, and the two in-laws have not yet received a marriage license, which makes Zhang Hongqin, who has just married into the Li family, a little guilty in her heart, carefully calculated, the two in-laws have been living together for decades, so many years, how come they have not received a license?
Li Zhicheng and relatives
This made Zhang Hongqin have different thoughts in her heart, and she began to ask questions about her husband. This question is a question. It turned out that the mother-in-law had taken Li Zhicheng to remarry four times, and the four marriages had never had any good results, and the current father-in-law was also a small quarrel for three days and a big quarrel for two days, and the family was very unstable every day.
Zhang Hongqin's husband grew up in such an environment since he was a child, and he did not feel that there was anything wrong with this. Zhang Hongqin, on the other hand, grew up in a happy family, never seen such a battle, felt that the life of this family was incompatible with herself, and the contradictions between newlyweds began to arise.
Zhang Hongqin always felt that the style of the elders in the family was not good, the family style was not good, and Li Zhicheng, who grew up in such an environment, would not have any good style, so he provoked thorns everywhere in the family, often provoking dissension with the matter of his mother-in-law remarrying four times, and also wrote big characters in the village to slander his mother-in-law; smashing the machete and hoe used by the father-in-law all over the yard, you must know that the father-in-law is a pig-killing master, these things are the tools he uses to work, if you can't kill pigs, this family doesn't even have an entry.
Li Zhicheng is also not accustomed to Zhang Hongqin, the backhand is a big ear melon seed, the two fought like this, for a while, the family is chicken flying dog jump.
This incident has also become a thorn in Zhang Hongqin's heart, and it is impossible to forgive Li Zhicheng's behavior. The mother-in-law saw this situation and gave her son an idea.
mother-in-law
The mother-in-law always feels that her son is not young, it is difficult to find a daughter-in-law, always can not divorce it in just a few days, not to mention that in such a short period of time to get married and divorced, face how to say can not go, really divorced, there may be an impact on the son's reputation, the conditions in their own home are not good, in the future can not find a daughter-in-law again also said another. So I gave my son an idea, let the two children hurry up and have a child, and with a child, they can live a stable life.
The emperor did not pay off, it was not long before Zhang Hongqin became pregnant, and the hardships of pregnancy also made her have no energy to take care of other things, and the family was also considered to have lived a year in peace. Pregnant in October, once she gave birth, Xiaoling was born in such an environment.
XiaoLing
But Xiaoling's birth has not changed anything, but made the contradictions in the family more intense, the mother-in-law looked at the granddaughter who had just been born, and her heart was inevitably a little lost, the old man always wanted a grandson in his heart, and this granddaughter was not the hope of the old man, and the relationship between Zhang Hongqin and Li Zhicheng did not improve at all. Zhang Hongqin felt the loss of the old man, and even intensified her quarrel with Li Zhicheng, making it more difficult to maintain the already disharmonious family.
Zhang Hongqin looked at herself that had changed greatly after becoming pregnant, and gradually became unconfident, always feeling that Li Zhicheng had someone outside, and thinking carefully about the Li family's family style, it was even more realistic to do such an idea. At this time, Zhang Hongqin was almost mad, not only provoking Li Zhicheng everywhere, but even wanting to drive Li Zhicheng's stepfather out of the house, just like this, Li Zhicheng finally couldn't stand it and proposed a divorce to his wife.
Zhang Hongqin
This marriage of only two years came to an end, and Xiaoling, who had just turned one year old at the time, was left by Zhang Hongqin in the Li family.
And li Zhicheng, who has just been divorced, does not know how to take the child, the young Xiaoling is gradually growing up under the care of her grandmother, during this period, Xiaoling has never seen her biological mother, and in the eyes of the elderly, Xiaoling's biological mother Zhang Hongqin is simply a cruel woman who abandons her family and does not deserve to be mentioned.
A few years later, the husband and wife got married separately, both formed a new family, the two sides also had children again during this period, the relationship was harmonious, the family was happy, looking at the children around, Zhang Hongqin's thoughts about the eldest daughter could no longer be held back, and the elder ran back to his hometown to visit the children.
Zhang Hongqin and Xiaoling
Zhang Hongqin, who returned to her hometown, found her ex-husband and wanted to see the child, but Li Zhicheng's family was angry about the fact that Zhang Hongqin was making a big fuss at home, and they did not want to see her at all, let alone let her see the child. The old man was even more emotional after seeing Zhang Hongqin, scolding Zhang Hongqin, and even almost had a heart attack, Zhang Hongqin did not dare to stay in the Li family when he saw such a situation, and left in a hurry.
There was a quarrel
Zhang Hongqin, who did not see her daughter at home, began to inquire around the village, hoping to find the whereabouts of her daughter, and the emperor paid off, and finally learned the address of her daughter's primary school in the mouth of a villager, and also inquired about her daughter's favorite snack.
Zhang Hongqin bought a lot of food for her daughter, and happily went to see her daughter, seeing her daughter for the first time, that strange look made Zhang Hongqin's heart like a knife, but watching her daughter take over what she bought, her heart was still very happy. I thought that I would come to see my daughter more in the future, after all, blood is thicker than water, and if mother and daughter have an overnight feud, they will always find the feeling of mother and daughter.
After returning home, Zhang Hongqin began to open up and buy a lot of small gifts for the child, when suddenly, she received an unexpected phone call.
This phone call was from Zhang Hongqin's relatives in her hometown, and she hurriedly told Zhang Hongqin that what she brought to her daughter was thrown away in the middle of the road and did not take home at all, and such a result was simply a thunderbolt on a sunny day for Zhang Hongqin. The next day, she bought a bunch of things to visit her daughter, but at this time, her daughter looked at her like an enemy, did not pick up her things, and even wanted to beat her, and threatened that she did not have such a mother at all, and the cold eyes suddenly made Zhang Hongqin feel cold.
At this time, Zhang Hongqin is also pregnant again, there is no time to see this eldest daughter again, for more than ten years, Zhang Hongqin's current family has opened a shop, life is good, she bought a new house, a new car, worth millions, looking at the three children who grew up around her, Zhang Hongqin is even more missing the daughter who was left behind since childhood.
Car
At this time, Zhang Hongqin heard that her daughter had been married and gave birth to a son, so she wanted to take this opportunity to see her daughter and grandson, but she did not expect that her daughter was not in her in-laws' house at all. The family gave her an address, saying that Xiaoling and his wife lived in this place.
Zhang Hongqin rushed to this place in a hurry, who knew that in this place to find a circle, did not see the place said by the relatives, to the surrounding neighbors to inquire, this building does not have the eighth floor, this is a false address. Zhang Hongqin had no way to do anything at this time, but she was anxious, and Zhang Hongqin went to a place again.
Neighbors
This place is the grocery store opened by Li Zhicheng, this grocery store was opened after the ex-husband remarried, with the help of his wife's mother's family, and his daughter and son-in-law also helped here, but Zhang Hongqin did not see her daughter here, only Li Zhicheng's later daughter was in the store.
The other party was not very surprised to see Zhang Hongqin coming, just looked at the other party with an indifferent face, when Zhang Hongqin asked the other party about the whereabouts of Xiaoling, he also said plainly that Xiaoling did not want to see her at all, and Zhang Hongqin went to find her would only make Xiaoling more angry, and then she was unwilling to open her mouth again.
Grocery store
Back to his own home Zhang Hongqin is like losing his soul, taking out the belongings of his daughter who was left behind, looking at it can't help but cry, the thought of his daughter is even more difficult to control, when he first bought a house, he also left a room for his daughter, and now looking at this room, only full of helplessness and guilt.
Zhang Hongqin was cornered, had to return to her hometown again, and put on the small clothes carefully selected for her grandson, who knew that before entering the door, there was a fierce conflict with her former mother-in-law, the old man saw this daughter-in-law who had left eighteen years ago, it was simply hated to tickle her teeth, counting the various evil things that her daughter-in-law did at home many years ago, saying and talking, the tears could not help but flow down, and her heart was full of grievances.
Seeing her grandmother like this, Xiao Ling, who was hiding in the house, couldn't help but rush out and looked at her biological mother very strangely. It is simply impossible to understand the other person's approach. She has lived peacefully with her father for so many years, during which time her mother has never come to see her, what does it mean to come to the door now? Now that she is married and has children and lives a plain and happy life, why should her mother come to destroy her life?
Mother-in-law and daughter
Xiao Ling looked at Zhang Hongqin and couldn't help yelling at her mother anymore:
"You haven't come to see me for so many years, and now you're back to ruin my life for what?"
After that, he picked up the broom by the wall and wanted to drive Zhang Hongqin out of the house, but there was no joy in his heart to see his biological mother, only a strong resentment, and his face was very obvious, looking at Zhang Hongqin like an enemy, not even a stranger.
Xiaoling and Zhang Hongqin
Zhang Hongqin finally saw her eldest daughter, her heart was very happy, no matter what, to meet the three points, at least to be able to sit down and talk about it, originally came to find her daughter there was no other thought, is to see if her daughter is doing well, tell her daughter that she still has a biological mother.
But seeing her daughter's attitude towards herself, Zhang Hongqin was stunned in the same place, which was completely different from what she thought, originally thought that her daughter would not let her see herself at her grandmother's house, and now it seems that the daughter herself does not want to see, Zhang Hongqin collapsed, looking at her daughter's strange face, she cried uncontrollably.
Xiao Ling was even more impatient to see her biological mother crying, thinking that Zhang Hongqin was a shrew, who came to the house to make trouble, and there was an ulterior motive at all, and she scolded her biological mother. The surrounding neighbors also advised Zhang Hongqin to leave first, at least until her daughter was calm and calm.
But Zhang Hongqin thought that it was so difficult to see her daughter this time, she was afraid that she would not be able to see her after today's departure, she did not care about the eyes of the people around her, she knelt down to her daughter, crying and begging her daughter to listen to her pain for so many years, eighteen years ago it was not that she abandoned her daughter to leave, not that she had to divorce, she also missed her daughter very much in recent years, and hoped that she could often come to see her daughter in the future.
Zhang Hongqin knelt down
In the face of her mother who is kneeling, Xiaoling has a cold face, does not want to listen to her mother's complaints, and is still arguing with her mother, always thinking that Zhang Hongqin is here to destroy her family, she has not been kind at all, there is nothing to say, and do not meet in the future, you take your Yangguan Road, I cross my canoe bridge.
Zhang Hongqin heard such a statement can not be accepted at all, the mother and daughter just got up, Zhang Hongqin said to find a TV station to send things out, to let Xiaoling's stepmother come out to confront, is she provoking in the middle, dividing the relationship between mother and daughter, but also want everyone to judge, she has the right to visit her grandson.
Xiao Ling was even more angry when she heard such words, shouting for her to call the TV station, even if she called, she would not recognize this mother, looking at the two people with swords, the neighbors also came up to persuade, and finally separated the two.
Zhang Hongqin and Xiaoling
Under the persuasion of neighbors, the two still decided to separate and calm down, Zhang Hongqin's departure allowed Xiaoling to slowly calm down, and the grievances in her heart could no longer bear it, and sat down to tell her pain. She has lived with her father since she was a child, her stepmother has been very good to herself after entering the door, life is plain and happy, she has also been married peacefully and steadily, her stepmother has never treated herself badly, and now Zhang Hongqin said that she would find herself, not only to find things in her mother's house, but also to say that she did not recognize her mother as a stepmother provoking in the middle, but also found her in-laws to "boo cold and ask for warmth", only to say that she was wronged in her in-laws' family, so that now her mother-in-law does not want to see her.
In fact, for so many years, Xiaoling did not realize that she still had her own mother, Zhang Hongqin made a mess of her life as soon as she came back, this is to recognize herself or to find her own trouble, if you recognize this biological mother, how will the stepmother treat herself, and how sad will the grandmother be? After so many years, why bother with your life?
In the end, Xiaoling was not willing to come out to see her biological mother again, and Zhang Hongqin had no choice but to leave the small clothes bought for her grandson under the root of the wall outside the door and leave with a lonely face.
Zhang Hongqin returned home to open the cabinet, which also has a photo of her daughter when she was a child, and also a small quilt made by her grandmother to her daughter, a needle and a thread are her grandmother's heart, but the daughter has not yet used it, the family has been broken, Zhang Hongqin looked at the injured small quilt, silently cried out, she clearly knows that her daughter will never return to her side.
Zhang Hongqin now has a new family, but also pregnant with two children, daughter Xiaoling has also been married and have children, the two generations of people's grievances, after eighteen years of time, has long been unclear, but the life of daughter Xiaoling is the most important thing, now both sides have a happy family, the future life is more important, I hope Zhang Hongqin can slowly let go of this obsession, but also hope that Xiaoling's life can slowly return to the right track.
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