Author: Xue Mo Editor: Jia Fangfang
Source: Journal of Marriage and Family
ID：hunyinyujiating99
Out of prison, out of prison, Zhou Bingkun is finally out of prison!
To say that the recent fire of "The World of Man", the recent episodes are really abusive.
Because of the unexpected death of his stepson Zhou Nan, under the provocation of his biological father Luo Shibin, Zhou Bingkun and the other party wrestled together, which accidentally caused the other party to be seriously injured, and finally died, and was sentenced to 9 years.
For 9 years, for Yu Bingkun and Zheng Juan, every second is an ordeal.
Now, our "Burrito CP" is finally reunited.
Watching Bingkun and Juan'er hugging together, netizens couldn't help but shed tears, because Lei Jiayin and Yin Tao's immersive acting skills were too empathetic.
I still remember the last time this pair made people cry bitterly, or the sentence that Bingkun said to Zhou Nan: "Your mother is my daughter-in-law, your mother's happiness is my happiness, no one can hurt my daughter-in-law, you can't." ”
How many netizens said that this is the most beautiful confession they have ever heard, and said that Bingkun is his ideal type.
After reading an evaluation about Lei Jiayin, I felt that it was particularly vivid: looking at his big head shrugging at his wife, he inexplicably had a solid sense of "living with him".
Haha, not to mention, I think that Lei Jiayin once had such a simple wish: "Standing on the stage, let the female audience sigh, how good this man should be if it is my husband!" ”
Whoever thought, such a nonsensical wish really made him come true.
Perhaps many people wonder: Lei Jiayin does not belong to the model of worldly handsomeness, and even looks a little "instigated", but how can he be so "desired"?
I think that in addition to acting as a school of its own, Lei Jiayin must have his magic weapon.
01
Pleasing is luck, but also an ability
I don't know if you have such a feeling:
Lei Jiayin was like a contradiction, and through his eyes he could see a hint of sadness, but he always wanted to laugh.
And he also contributed a lot of wonderful clips that people can't help but laugh at.
What impressed people the most was his attachment to his "big head".
Yes, Lei Jiayin has always been affectionately called "big head" because of his big head. I remember once in an interview, Lei Jiayin was also blatantly measured head circumference, and when the staff said 61cm, he couldn't sit still.
58cm, 58cm, don't believe me, you find me a 58cm hat to see...
Let's say that this desperately debunking rumors (angry and corrupt) looks like we who have been walking on the road to weight loss?
Who said I had 120 pounds, obviously 118.
Also, when someone said that he was not recognizable and difficult to fire, he immediately said with grievance and straightness:
Can I say dirty words?
However, then again, not only do netizens like the "magic head" with their own laughter, but the pleasing side of his bones is also a booster for his career.
To say that Lei Jiayin is widely known, we have to mention the fire of "The First Half of My Life".
The reason why Lei Jiayin was able to star in this drama was recommended by Ma Yili. But before that, Ma Yili had not cooperated with him, and the other party had identified him with only one photo of him.
Because he is festive, sad when he does not laugh, and brilliant when he laughs.
Lei Jiayin once said: "If you are capable enough, you will definitely be able to grasp the luck." ”
However, the pleasing side of the personality is luck, but also ability.
You know, in "The First Half of My Life", Chen Junsheng, played by Lei Jiayin, is a scumbag who abandoned his wife and son. What is unexpected is that Lei Jiayin's version of "Scumbag" did not let him be nailed to the column of shame, but gained some sympathy from the audience and was nominated for "Best Actor".
Why? Because Lei Jiayin let everyone see the contradictory side of the role.
As a husband with a wife, Chen Junsheng openly cheated, which naturally has nothing to wash. However, Lei Jiayin not only performed slag, but also performed helplessness, making people begin to reflect on marriage.
And to achieve such an effect, there is no doubt that Lei Jiayin is interpreting it with heart.
In the play, there is such a scene: after the showdown with Luo Zijun, Chen Junsheng sat on the chair in the community for a long time, and played his self-blame and helplessness to the fullest.
And this scene is actually designed by Lei Jiayin himself.
On set, he likes to follow the situation, and who knows, his opinion is adopted, which makes him feel particularly accomplished.
In fact, a good actor is not only an actor, but also a little director's thinking, immersed in it, in order to make people empathetic.
And this time Zhou Bingkun is the same. In the interview, Lei Jiayin said: "I want to live in this work. ”
That's what he said and that's what he did. As fellow northeasterners, Lei Jiayin and Zhou Bingkun hit it off. Straight, righteous and full of hope, Lei Jiayin performed Zhou Bingkun's bitterness and optimism.
As Lei Jiayin said, he has been preparing for this role for 38 years.
It's not pretentiousness, but to some extent, it's also his life.
02
From "being merciful everywhere" to being single-minded, it is to see through loneliness
In 1983, Lei Jiayin was born in Anshan, Liaoning Province.
His family was modest, his parents were workers and he lived in a house of only 14 square meters.
But his mother was extraordinarily strong. When Lei Jiayin was in elementary school, her mother was laid off and had to work as a cleaner in order to make a living. Such a gap in the heart of a child who is only a teenager is like a thunderbolt on a sunny day.
Little Lei Jiayin did not want to be known to her classmates that her mother was a cleaner, and every time she saw her mother cleaning the window, she would look down and run away.
However, the more inferior the more obedient.
On the surface, Lei Jiayin often laughs and can always become the focus of the crowd, but in adolescence, his rebellion begins to prevail.
In the second year of junior high school, there was a southern girl in the class who was different from the northeast girl, who looked particularly good, and Lei Jiayin immediately ran to the podium and said: This girl is mine, and no one should rob me.
Later, the two little farts really talked about love. Although under the joint efforts of teachers and parents, this relationship ended without success, but Lei Jiayin's results were still in the bottom few.
And he simply let go of himself completely. The whole combination with a few buddies who often skip class is called "King of the love", which is the emperor of love, while Lei Jiayin, who is the fourth oldest, is called "staying merciful everywhere".
At that time, he was rebellious, in his words, "I will mix."
The reason is common in reality, that is, life from childhood to adulthood is too peaceful. His parents have good feelings and are good to him, and he feels "tired" when he goes to school step by step.
He thought that rebellion was hilarity, but he did not know that it was just the loneliness in his heart.
What made Lei Jiayin really feel lonely was in the years of art school.
At that time, he was surrounded by many children from laid-off families, and the adults were worried about life, could not take care of their children, and suddenly left discipline, and many babies fell into confusion.
Maybe he had seen too much, or maybe he had experienced the desolation after the rebellion, lei Jiayin woke up. And Liu Yong's "Wandering Because Of Youth" is even more precious to Lei Jiayin.
He began to understand that all he had asked for before was a sense of identity, and when he wanted to understand, he began to enjoy loneliness.
Cross-talk, sketches, improvisations... After really working hard, his results jumped to the first.
Moreover, looking at life out of his misery, he found that many things became beautiful. Even if on the way out to practice his lines, the ground is full of bird droppings, he can see the romance.
In this way, from rebellion and bitterness, he walked out with his own strength and realized a romantic and heavy taste, which can be said to benefit Lei Jiayin for life.
And this may also be his sad side, a brilliant background color.
In 2002, Lei Jiayin was admitted to the Shanghai Theater Academy with the second place in the country.
This not only made him the pride of his parents, but also met the love of his life.
That person was his classmate Zhai Xufei.
Who is Zhai Xufei? This girl was awarded the title of "Childhood Goddess" in the first live-action version of "Golden Armor Warrior" in China, because she starred as the vice captain of the Yumart rescue team, Arctic Snow.
However, she was more Buddhist and valued her family more, and later chose to be a shadow.
In fact, Zhai Xufei and Lei Jiayin had a general relationship at first, until the second semester of the sophomore year, the two were arranged by the class teacher to play a sketch together, so that a fate began.
In the sketches, they cooperate tacitly; in life, they are also a perfect match.
During the meal, Zhai Xufei would pick the meat to Lei Jiayin, and Lei Jiayin would give the dish to Zhai Xufei, and joked in his mouth: "You are responsible for slim and beautiful, and I am responsible for Kong Wuli." ”
Later, with the help of the teacher and the gods of the classmates, the two fell in love. And what makes Lei Jiayin transform from a prodigal son who "stays everywhere" into a single-minded good man is this love that fits from the inside out.
I remember once, the two were in the performance, and the performance was not right. Lei Jiayin suddenly became angry, Zhai Xufei handed him a can of drink, asked him to lower the fire, who knows, Lei Jiayin knocked the drink to the ground.
This should be put on others, it is estimated that there has been a quarrel earlier, but Zhai Xufei is not angry at all, but said: Is there something good to say? What can't be solved? Take it easy.
It was this sentence that not only made Lei Jiayin extinguish the fire at once, but also completely identified Zhai Xufei.
An acute child, a chronic child, people often say, soft energy ke gang, in the final analysis, it must be two people willing to accept each other, and willing to be influenced by each other.
03
What makes life blossom is what nourishes love
Take "The World of Man", Zhou Bingkun and Zheng Juan are most enjoyable is that no matter whether life is bitter or sweet, they can make love blossom into a flower.
I remember such a scene, which made people particularly moved.
When Zhou's mother was sick, Zheng Juan had to give her mother-in-law a massage every day, and when the weather was hot, she had to keep fanning, and Bingkun didn't want her wife to work hard, so she wanted to buy an electric fan.
In that era, how expensive the electric fan was, and the thrifty Zheng Juan was naturally reluctant to do so. Later, Bingkun's words were too hot to stand outside, and after Zheng Juan listened, she immediately agreed to buy one.
Watching the daughter-in-law walk out of the house, Bingkun said "Not for your own good", which made people cry out sweet every minute.
In reality, Lei Jiayin and his wife are also like this. It is not so vigorous, but let love flow naturally in the long stream of thin water.
In fact, in terms of family background, Zhai Xufei is much better than Lei Jiayin.
In 2010, when Lei Jiayin and Zhai Xufei got married naked, even the 10-square-meter wedding room was rented, but Zhai Xufei always cleaned up the home very warmly. For her husband's apology, he also comforted him: "I think it's very good now, the days are not for others to see, I don't compare with others, you don't have pressure." ”
KeLei Jiayin is like Bingkun, even if his wife does not care, he must let his family live a good life as a source of motivation.
After a long dormancy, in 2011, Lei Jiayin finally waited for "The Great Gold Robbery".
After trying two scenes, director Ning Hao clapped on the spot: "Xiao Dongbei is you!" ”
The good thing is that Zhai Xufei happened to be pregnant at this time.
Lei Jiayin immediately decided that after the birth of the child, both men and women would be called "North North".
And the birth of her daughter really brought about Lei Jiayin's career. Because of the role of "Little Northeast", Lei Jiayin won the Best Actor Award at the 11th China Changchun Film Festival.
When receiving the award, he said: "I was flattered to get this award, and some people on the Internet said that "The Great Golden Robbery" was played by an eight-line actor, which made me think that the eight-line actor also has a spring." ”
Spring is coming, and nature means that grass and trees grow.
After the red, Lei Jia's sound film continued, the name was there, and the money was also there.
In order to give his wife a sense of security, Lei Jiayin specially named his wife a "family CEO", handed over the film remuneration to her management, and bought a big house to fulfill his previous promise.
However, with fame and fortune comes controversy.
In those years, on the one hand, because there was no heat before, no one paid attention to it, and on the other hand, because of its low profile, few people in the outside world knew that Lei Jiayin was married and had a daughter, and there were some oolongs.
Later, in order to avoid the harm of his wife and daughter, Lei Jiayin withstood the risk of depowdering and chose to disclose it. What is surprising is that this move not only did not let the fans off the powder, but also shouted "real masters".
Yes, an actor can make people like it from the bottom of their hearts, at least dare to be bold.
A reporter once asked Lei Jiayin: "What is the most romantic thing I have ever done to my wife?" ”
Lei Jiayin said: "I can be with her for more than ten years is the most romantic thing." ”
He also said that the most important thing about married life is "fun".
If you think about it, it's true. Interesting souls are the preserves of trivial life, as is marriage, and so is the parent-child relationship.
Many years ago, Lei Jiayin wrote on Weibo: If I had a daughter, I would put black nail polish on her and teach her to say dirty words in order to confront the rogue uncles.
Who knows, Lei Jiayin saw her daughter's first glance and lamented: "It's over, the child is like me!" ”
However, what made him lament even more was obviously still to come.
His daughter is exactly the same as his funny style, in the words of Lei Jiayin, "vanity monster": "Can lie down and never stand, with a window absolutely do not walk through the door." 」 Everywhere you go, you say to others: Do you know Lei Jiayin? That's my dad. "Haha!
A good marriage is the best nourishment for children, and conversely, how can a child with aura not be the best display of parental love?
04
What really "wants" a person is fireworks
In the interview, Lei Jiayin once said something like this:
As an actor, there are two kinds of moments of happiness.
One is obtained in the process of filming. Your life is made up of many different things, and that's very happy.
Another is the result, the performance is good, the feedback given by the big guys is good, and it is very happy.
However, lei Jiayin's transparency lies in the fact that he is hard enough and Buddhist enough.
For red is not red, how long it is red, he sees it very clearly:
Even if I forget about it one day, I will live well.
I would rent a small yard by myself, grow some vegetables, make friends with three or five people, travel every day, visit local markets, drive China around — that's what I want to do the most, and of course I might write articles, open a dog farm, and have a lot of things to do.
I think about retirement every day.
Hey, I have to say that our similarity with "Big Head" is one more point.
Thinking that it is also magical, Lei Jiayin does not like to set up people, but it has become synonymous with "grounded gas".
Perhaps, he really responded to his words: "I think it is good for me to be an ordinary person, but no one can stop me from having my own charm." ”
And his charm lies in his loyalty to his family and loyalty to himself.
Resources:
Lei Jiayin: My youth, "staying merciful everywhere"
Tanxinshe: Lei Jiayin finally stopped "instigating"
Talk: Lei Jiayin is what is the dog husband ceiling
Today's headlines: Zhai Xufei: Low-key accompaniment to her husband for 20 years, lei Jiayin's acting skills exploded behind the "nobleman"
Lu Yu has an appointment: An interview with Lei Jiayin