Hello everyone, I'm Guo Mom.
Have you ever had this experience? In the supermarket, before it is time to pay, the child is thirsty, hungry, hungry, and then can't wait to eat and drink the food in the supermarket.
As a parent, when you take an empty bag and a drinking water bottle to pay, have you ever been asked for compensation?
The child supermarket eats first and then pays, and is asked for 3 times the compensation, and baoma's approach shows high emotional intelligence
Last week, Guo Mama went to the supermarket to buy something and encountered an argument.
A bao mother with two children to the supermarket, Dabao is a girl, about 8 or 9 years old, Erbao is a boy, sitting in the shopping cart, visually no more than 2 years old.
Bao Ma was walking around the snack area, when a staff member came, picked up a bag in the shopping cart and said: "Before you pay, you will eat the things in the supermarket, according to the regulations of our supermarket, you need 3 times compensation." ”
Bao Mom was a little stunned and looked at her daughter. Then the daughter said that she saw that her brother was hungry and wanted to eat bread, so she took the bread apart and ate half of it with her brother. Looking at the bread crumbs left in the corners of her son's mouth, Bao Mom knew that her daughter was not lying.
Therefore, Bao Mama explained to the staff: "We did not lose the bag, we just want to pay when we check out." However, the staff member still did not spare, saying that if he let it go, everyone would do so, and the boss would only deduct her salary.
Bao Ma was not angry, after all, the staff also had their own difficulties, and then Bao Ma used her high emotional intelligence to solve this problem.
First of all, Bao Mom first asked her daughter to apologize to the staff, and then apologized herself, because she did not restrain the child.
Then, Bao Ma pointed to the point, 3 times the compensation of this matter, not to mention whether the supermarket has made a reminder, just say whether this compensation method is reasonable, I am not clear, but the price bureau will give the answer.
After saying that, Bao Ma was going to call the relevant departments to "consult", and the staff was frightened and immediately held Bao Ma's hand and told Bao Ma to hurry up and pay first.
Guo Mama also really admires this Bao Mom, in the face of accusations, Bao Ma did not shirk responsibility, nor did she embarrass the other party, nor did she quarrel, so she solved the problem, this emotional intelligence, really high.
Children go to the supermarket, 5 rules, parents must educate in advance
Although it is said that this mother solved this matter with her own high emotional intelligence, but on weekdays, we take our children to the supermarket, can we really do this?
Taking children to the supermarket is very daily, as a parent, about the "supermarket rules" must be educated in advance for children, not related to the rules of the supermarket itself, but related to a child's character cultivation, rule awareness.
Rule one: Everything, after paying, can be used
The shopping rule of supermarkets is to pick first and then pay last. However, it is not said that it can be used first and then paid. Even if you pay yourself after using it, if everyone is like this, then it will be very difficult to manage the supermarket, after all, not everyone is so conscious.
Therefore, parents must educate their children, no matter how much they want to eat and play, they must pay for it.
If the child is anxious to drink water and is too hungry, then parents can choose a relatively small convenience store instead of a large supermarket.
Rule 2: Do not take anything in fragile utensils such as glass, and you need to stay away
An adult, when buying something in the supermarket, may also accidentally overturn the glass jars of wine, vinegar and other things, not to mention a child.
Whether it is the strength of the hand, or the degree of care, proficiency, etc., children are worse than adults, in front of these dangerous goods, we must let the child stay away.
Rule three: Every time you go to the supermarket, the child can only buy one thing (specific number) by himself
Ever seen a child rolling around in a supermarket?
Maybe for a toy, maybe for a bite to eat.
The most direct and fast way for parents to avoid such embarrassment is to "make rules" for their children. Parents are not asking their children to buy less and buy something useful, which is too conceptual.
Parents can directly tell their children: Every time you go to the supermarket, you can only buy one thing yourself.
After quantification, children can better understand and comply.
Rule 4: If you use a children's shopping cart, let the child be sure to "hold on tightly"
The last time we went to the supermarket, our elevator was up and the elevator next door was down. I saw a little boy pulling a children's shopping cart on the elevator, and Bao Mom was playing with her mobile phone.
Suddenly, the little boy's hand was released, and the shopping cart slid down at a very fast speed, almost hitting an old man.
Some supermarket shopping carts, children's shopping carts, the security is not so high, parents must "follow" the shopping cart, in case of danger!
Rule Five: Chases and runs are not allowed in supermarkets
This situation occurs mostly in two-child families.
Supermarkets are relatively large, with rows of shelves, so that children have a feeling of wanting to chase and hide. However, there are many people in the supermarket, and there will be people on the goods, various goods, shelves, etc., and children are prone to danger in the process of chasing and fighting.
So make good rules for your child, go out, either don't go out, or go out and obediently follow the parents!
Pistachio Mom message
The child has not paid in the supermarket, and then begins to eat, this matter, in fact, can be big or small.
Small, may be small children.
When you are older, this is directly related to the growth of your child!
As a parent, it is really important to set rules for your children and establish a sense of rules!
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