Author: Zhou Woodman
Deep emotional cultivation, heart-warming words
Fate is like a piece of warmth in a dream.
In the age of love, it makes people's hearts and minds, and makes people pursue at any cost.
However, in the middle of the roundabout, I can never meet people who are related.
For many friends, everyone can only continue to look forward to it alone in the time of hesitation. Many times, love warms a person's dream, but at the moment of waking up, it disappears without a trace.
Even so, everyone still has expectations for love.
I hope that in the passage of time, we can meet the person who is destined to meet as soon as possible. Each other only needs a chance to meet, can produce a sense of ten thousand years, under the witness of time, to achieve an emotional story.
Love makes people become measured.
It is not easy to fall in love, and it is even more difficult to get along.
If you just have a playful mentality, you naturally don't have a lot of worries.
In such a fate, each takes what they need. If one day, both parties are tired, there is no freshness in getting along, this fate can not meet their respective needs, two people can shoot twice.
But to love someone, he must have it for the rest of his life, and friends will have different psychological states.
Under the influence of the subconscious, everyone can't help but put the lover in the most important position. When we encounter differences, we can also use an inclusive attitude to achieve understanding and concessions.
Paying the true feelings will make people look forward to happiness for a long time, and will make people strive to be inseparable.
Of course, two people with different personalities come together, how to protect the fate? For all friends, it is indeed a great test. In order to complete love, everyone carefully probes, and gradually becomes a "measured" person in their interactions with each other.
If you love, you must "do three things.".
What does it mean to be in love?
Half poetic, half fireworks.
After the two people open the world of two people as lovers, everyone not only needs to find romantic feelings, but also needs to face many realistic topics, and in order to grasp the direction of happiness in the down-to-earth.
Both men and women need to understand one fact:
In the process of love between the two parties, in addition to embellishing love and pursuing a sense of solidity in material aspects, two people must also learn to understand and respect, and in this way, realize the true sense of affection.
Happy feelings are not deduced, let alone pretended.
It is necessary for both couples to grasp the details of love and meet each other's needs. This need is not only material, nor is it a romantic illusion, but also a kind of trust and respect.
So, for friends, how to do these aspects? Everyone should know that if you care about a person, you must "do not do three", and if you don't understand it, you will miss it.
Trust him and don't test the bottom line.
Everyone's personality is different.
Some people are grinning widely, and some people are careful and sharp.
When everyone has the opportunity to fall in love and get along as a couple, how to avoid the harm caused by personality differences?
For straightforward people, a careless sentence can make sensitive people suspicious. Over time, the doubts accumulated more, and the misunderstanding between the two people became more and more.
If you want to complete love, you can't test the bottom line of your lover at will.
In the process of love, we should choose to trust each other and guard the loved ones in the details. Instead of using a skeptical attitude, let the other party become restless day by day.
If that person is really the person you love.
And you are also ready, with each other to stay together, the rest of the life to love the ready, everyone should stop at the right time, do not in the temptation, let the other party lose the determination to love.
Hurt him and don't uncover the scars.
Growing up, we tried to find out all the way.
For many friends, the reason why they have become firm is precisely because they have walked countless roads and suffered a lot of hardships to find their own position and understand the meaning of life.
Everyone has a past, but also a terrible emotional experience, or some other secret.
When we encounter love, while we strive to love, we will also be cautious in guarding the scars in our hearts. In fact, in our lives, there is no shortage of people who try to love while repairing their wounds.
In the world of love, if you meet such a lover, are you willing to uncover his scars?
If you really care about each other, understand that love is mutual. In addition to accepting each other and giving each other love, everyone must also know how to feel sorry for that person and learn the wisdom of managing love.
Give the other person enough space and time when necessary to allow him to have his own secrets. In this way, you can not only give your lover enough protection, but also prove your sincere love.
Respect him and don't embarrass him.
In everyone's heart, there are things they care about.
Even if we meet love, we may not be able to do it in the face of our beloved.
At this time, what friends are looking forward to is not the exhaustive investigation of the lover, nor is it to let themselves fall into an embarrassing situation at a critical time. We hope that the people we love can choose to respect ourselves and fulfill ourselves.
For example, if a man loves face, does the girl embarrass him, or does he give him a step down? Smart women will fully consider the occasion and satisfy the man's face. When encountering such a girl, men are bound to cherish her more.
Similarly, men need to understand women's emotional expressions.
Many times, when girls have needs, they will express them in a subtle way. As a man, you must understand the girl's heart and meet her needs; being able to take care of her face is also a way to respect the girl.
If a man can do this, it will make the girl realize that this is a person who really understands himself. Obviously, girls will cherish each other more and more.
After holding hands, how to keep loving?
For many couples, this is a great test.
Everyone spends a period of hot love in happiness, and when love ushers in a new stage, many people's enthusiasm for fate will fade day by day. At the same time, love will also usher in new challenges.
Everyone needs to understand that happy and long-term feelings need a "sense of proportion".
Don't because the love is flat, you can be unscrupulous to criticize the other party, or ask the lover to do something. Everyone should maintain a measure, guard the original intention of love, and be a person who knows how to advance and retreat.
Everyone should know that hurting each other will also affect the feelings of two people. If you really love him, don't test the bottom line of your lover, don't uncover each other's scars, and don't embarrass your loved ones.
The "three don'ts" in love is precisely a manifestation of caring.
Write the warmth of the world, read the heart-warming story, and thank you for your company along the way. I only hope that the years are quiet, the clouds are light and the wind is light, and you and I can pour out our heartfelt feelings when we meet in a piece of text.