"You just want to get revenge on me, right," Hao Qinglin yelled at Ning Yu before he was arrested.
Women are strong and men are weak
Hao Qinglin's career stagnated, but Ning You rose step by step, the salary was several times that of her husband, and what surged under the marriage of a strong woman and a weak man was not only the unwillingness of a husband, but also the mind of a man who cheated.
Ning Yu never asked Hao Qinglin to pay her salary, because she considered that her salary was higher and her husband would inevitably have socializing, and her husband's classmates and friends had better economic conditions, and it was inevitable that spending money together would require a lot of money, and she was afraid that her husband would be embarrassed.
But this kind of thoughtfulness in exchange for not the husband's gratitude, but a man's anger, Hao Qinglin mouth mouth accusation that this is a kind of contempt, for this reason he does not see his wife share to help him grow articles, he feels in his heart that since his wife looks down on him, he broke the jar and broke it, and did not go along with her wishes.
So Hao Qinglin, who could not find a sense of achievement in front of his excellent wife, used the form of an affair to fill the gap in his heart.
But he never felt guilty about cheating, because he felt that it was his wife's fault, that her wife looked down on him, that she forced him.
He never believed Ning You's explanation, ning You's thoughtfulness he never appreciated, in the final analysis it was probably an incompetent anger and narrow suspicion.
Because women are strong and men are weak, because of the sense of accomplishment that has nowhere to be placed, it has become an excuse for a man to complain, a reason for mixing. But after all, extramarital affairs need money to maintain, so Hao Qinglin, who never took a penny from his family, not only spent his income but also borrowed 200,000 yuan from his parents, and even embezzled and accepted bribes.
The lion opened its mouth wide
Hao Qinglin wanted to divorce Ning Yu before the accident.
He not only wants 500,000 in cash but also a house. And there is a premise here that he has not taken a penny from the family for more than two years, and the family's assets are basically earned by Ning Yu, and there is an indisputable fact that he has cheated in marriage.
It is such a man who has made a minimal contribution to the family, he deserves to share half of his wife's income and assets, he never thought that the money he took to raise Xiao San should also have half of his wife, and what is even more hateful is that when the handcuffs are on his hands, he is protecting Xiao San.
As Hao Qinglin's legal wife, Ning You's assets were also frozen, but when she thought of her children, she immediately had to get rid of her husband, she first took out a USB stick, which recorded every expense of the family in detail to prove that the family income had nothing to do with Hao Qinglin's corruption and bribery, and also gave the name of Hao Qinglin's affair Gu Weiwei.
At this time, Hao Qinglin, who never considered his wife and children, was furious in front of the case-handling personnel, angrily scolding Ning You for intending revenge (the original directly scolded Ning You as a wolf in sheep's clothing), and he scolded Ning You with all his voice, believing that he had come to this step today because of her.
Compared with Hao Qinglin's unsuccessful career, such a nest of non-responsibility is the most terrible, he never thinks that he is wrong, but you are better than me, you will look down on me, but I am weak, I am forgivable.
Between two fires
With Ning You's intelligence, it was a matter of minutes to kick Hao Qinglin away and let him out of the house, but she repeatedly endured for the sake of the child, and never said half a word in front of the child, carefully maintaining the image of a father in the child's heart.
The divorce that was originally agreed upon also had to press the pause button as Hao Qinglin was arrested, but this would also become Ning Yu's weakness and others' chips.
Husband and wife, Ning Yu's love has long disappeared, but the feelings are finally there, but with the progress of the matter, she is physically and mentally exhausted at the same time, she has already chilled her heart, but after the suspicion of her in-laws, there are children who are eager for father's love, and the excellent and decisive Ning You has also become a dilemma.
Because what she had to consider was that in any case, Hao Qinglin was the father of the child, and this blood thicker than water affection was unreasonable, but anyone who was too cruel and desperate would hurt a child's heart.
But life is always realistic, in the face of the husband's indifference and selfishness, the in-laws' suspicions, and the kind Ning You, how will you choose?
epilogue:
Marriage has always been a good match.
But when you were in love with me, in the end you walked into the marriage regardless of it, so when you can't accept that you are strong and I am weak, please make down-to-earth efforts, rather than blindly jealousy and accusations.
And when the relationship of marriage is unbalanced, the other party may not understand your affection, but with the existence of children, you will never be able to retreat from the whole body, and the sacrifice must be the person who loves the children the most.
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