For most Chinese students, the biggest goal in the first eighteen years is the college entrance examination, and parents will absolutely intervene in the face of their children in these eighteen years, but after the college entrance examination, everyone must begin to grasp their own destiny, what kind of place to go, what kind of life to start, can be decided by themselves.
It's just that everyone's education from childhood is different, and the thinking mode and vision are also different, so standing at the fork in the road of life, the vision has determined the height that everyone can reach to a certain extent. Mei Aiwei's experience tells us that the college entrance examination is the best ladder for progress, but it is not the only exit of life, and it does not matter if you fail, but you must have the courage to go up against the current.
Mei Aikai was born in a working family in Hebei, his family is not poor, but it is definitely not rich, the children of rich families may have been arranged clearly in their lives, he is still like other classmates, living under the pressure of the word "college entrance examination" every day.
However, learning requires hard work and talent, unfortunately, although Mei Aikai's mind is very flexible, she does not like to learn at all, and various formulas and theorems make him feel extremely boring, compared to the world in online games. Everyone else is trying to learn, he is trying to play by all means, the college entrance examination will never be kind to people who have not worked hard, so in 2001, he naturally got a college entrance examination score of 320 points.
Hebei is a big province of education, 320 points in the province can not be ranked at all, he can go to a junior college at most, originally indifferent to the results of Mei Aikai at this time a little panicked, after all, he is still young, he is not willing to go to the factory to work, so he is also anxious to find a way for himself.
A friend wanted to study in Ukraine, so he also discussed with his parents to go to Ukraine. Visas to Ukraine were easy to get, tuition fees were not high, and with the full support of his parents, he embarked on a journey to Ukraine.
"Study abroad" sounds high-level and atmospheric, but his life in a foreign country is not good, the language is not the same, the living habits are not the same, not to mention Ukrainian and Russian, he can't even speak English, the language with the tongue is more difficult, at that time he had regrets, but to be a person is to hold his breath, he learned to play the tongue hard, after a long period of practice and getting along with his classmates, he can finally barely communicate with people.
"Work-study" seems to have been something that all college students do, and after adjusting to life in Ukraine, he began to look for part-time work. Life is not a dog blood drama, and will not be like a young man played on TV when he goes abroad to become a bully, Mei Aiwei's professional courses are still not very good, but it is more than enough to find a job.
This job brought him a certain income, after graduation he and several other Chinese friends studying in Ukraine together to open a restaurant, a wide variety of Chinese food, wonderful taste, but after all, one side of the water and soil to raise a party, the local customers do have to come, but they are also just for the taste, and Mei Ai Kai They do not have a particularly good taste, so this Chinese restaurant did not open for long, nor did it bring profits.
After failing, she started all over again, and this time Mei Aikai set her sights on the export trade business. "Trade" sounds like a very profitable business, but everything is difficult at the beginning, at the beginning he lost a lot of money, but he became more and more courageous, did not give up the love of life, and also met his love in a chance.
Love at first sight is used to describe his feelings for Tasha, and almost in a few moments, Mei Aiwei is sure that tasha must be chased.
Although Mei Aiwei is not outstanding in appearance, but he is very intimate and gentle, he is very assertive in doing things and will fully respect Tasha's opinion, perhaps the romance of Chinese is engraved in the bones, Tasha has no resistance to his sincere and eager gaze, and the charm he shows cannot resist, so after she nodded slightly, Mei Aikai harvested a perfect love.
With the nourishment of love, Mei Aikai's morale has been high again and again, and as a result, this time his career has carried out very smoothly, Tasha, although young, is also a good sage, Mei Aikai regards him as a "lucky star", and Tasha regards him as his "hero".
When Mei Aiwei was 32 years old and Tasha was 18 years old, the two of them were married. On the mainland, marriage is prohibited in any of the following circumstances: (i) direct blood relatives and collateral blood relatives within three generations; (ii) suffering from a disease that is medically considered unworthy of marriage.
A marriage is invalid in any of the following circumstances: (i) bigamy; (ii) kinship that prohibits marriage; (iii) a medically ill that does not warrant marriage before marriage and has not been cured after marriage; (iv) a person who has not reached the legal age for marriage.
As we all know, the legal age of marriage in the mainland is 20 years old, so many people think that Tasha cannot get married, but do not forget that she is a Ukrainian girl, and the legal age of marriage in their country is 17 years old, so Tasha should reach the marriageable age, and the marriage between the two of them is completely allowed.
Career love double harvest, Mei Aikai purchased 3,000 square meters of land, built a villa, Tasha and her family live in this beautiful big house, Mei Aiwei's friends will often come to meet with them, life is comfortable and beautiful.
When Mei Aiwei's happy life was spread to the Internet, many people expressed great envy for his life, but when envying him, we should also see that he paid a lot of things behind these happiness. He went to Ukraine alone as a teenager and owned his own family and house in his thirties, and the hardships in between he rarely talked about, did not mean that this time was not uncomfortable.
Some people say that his success mainly comes from his family, because if the family is not rich, it is impossible to send him to study abroad, as mentioned above, his family is not poor, but it is definitely not rich, in contrast, many people with better family conditions than him may end up less than him. Therefore, what we have to learn is his tenacity, acknowledging the excellence of others, acknowledging our own shortcomings, and we will move towards a broader life.