On August 8 and 18, 2005, He Qingkui's eldest son, He Shuchun, and his beloved partner Gao Xiumin passed away in just ten days, suffering no less heart-wrenching pain than Lin Shengbin, who lost his wife and daughter that year.
He Qingkui and Gao Xiumin have been together for 14 years, and the two have a lot of common property, but after Gao Xiumin's death, he gave all the real estate to Gao Xiumin's daughter, who said that even if he took a brick and a straw stick, it would hurt Gao Xiumin.
She died, taking care of her family is the first thing he has to do, even if there is any unpleasantness with her orphan daughter, He Qingkui feels sorry for Gao Xiumin, he loves her, so he gives full concessions to her family. When he was on the show, He Qingkui deliberately reminded the host that he must not let the program have a sensational and tragic atmosphere, and everyone should restrain their emotions.
When he missed her once loved, he carried the gourd silk to her tombstone alone and played it, without any media noise, and no longer consumed half a penny from Gao Xiumin's undead. Loving her and thinking that she is his own business does not involve any other people's emotions, does not win any senseless sympathy.
In 1989, the 41-year-old He Qingkui had passed the age of confusion and still achieved nothing.
In the eyes of his fellow villagers, he even did not do a good job, half a life and pen competition, always felt that he should be a big literary hero, can write Luoyang paper expensive works, but do not want to send the manuscript every time the stone sinks into the sea, not only did not live a decent life of using the manuscript fee to support the family, but also delayed the work and care of three children, the burden of the whole family is on the daughter-in-law Zhang Yanru.
However, He Qingkui has what life, others seem not to be doing the right thing, Zhang Yanru is supportive. Zhang Yanru is a zhiqing, she is from the city, also educated, and has great respect and cherish for knowledge and talent.
In the poor and remote countryside, she met He Qingkui, who was diligent and knowledgeable, almost a moth to the fire, fell in love with him, and he formed a family, not hesitating to give up the opportunity to return to the city, and did not hesitate to use half of his life's hard work to raise children for him to read and write and chase dreams, even if the people in the village looked at her with different eyes, even if this dream may never be realized, she has no regrets.
In 1986, Zhang Yanru had the second chance to return to the city. This time, He Qingkui's family moved to the city. Without a source of livelihood for land, Zhang Yanru and He Qingkui set up a vegetable stall to make a living, and occasionally He Qingkui also went to catch some fish to sell, but his main business was still writing.
In the winter of the third year, He Qingkui finally waited for the nobleman of his life and his muse, Gao Xiumin, at his vegetable stall.
On that day, Gao Xiumin, who was already the deputy head of the Buyeo County Folk Art Troupe, came to his vegetable stall to buy something, and saw that He Qingkui had been stomping his feet coldly, and his clothes could not withstand the cold wind in the northeast.
The kind Gao Xiumin wanted to help He Qingkui, so he told him that he could write a script and submit it to his troupe, and if it was adopted, he would have a 200 yuan fee, and if it was successfully rehearsed, there would be a premiere fee of 200 yuan.
He Qingkui, who had waited for half a lifetime, finally waited for the first dawn of his life, he was like seeing a lighthouse, closed the door for many days, wrote the script "Who Marries Whom", and then carefully voted the script to the Buyeo County Folk Art Troupe, hoping to get the approval of the relevant leaders. However, the replies given by people who have read the script are all rejections, and He Qingkui is also accustomed to this rejection.
Just when he was ready to return disappointed, someone suddenly said that he was willing to adopt the manuscript and personally choreograph and perform, she was Gao Xiumin.
A genius screenwriter meets a talented actor, and the characters in the script attract the eyes of the world as if they were lit up by the hand of God. Gao Xiumin's rehearsal of "Who Marries Whom", not only brought He Qingkui 200 yuan and 200 yuan premiere fee, but also won the first prize of the Jilin Provincial Literary and Art Show that year, as creative personnel and actors, Gao Xiumin and He Qingkui quickly opened up their popularity in the province.
He Qingkui, who has always been felt that he is not doing his job, also received a letter of appointment, was hired as a screenwriter by the Liaodong County Cultural Bureau, and had a formal job. Zhang Yanru was also overjoyed, and her half-life persistence and hard work were not in vain, and finally waited for the good news of her husband.
With an excellent creative environment and stable life security, He Qingkui is more fully involved in the creation of the script, Gao Xiumin is his royal heroine, he is also Gao Xiumin's exclusive screenwriter, the two often stay up all night to study the script, fine lines, good works one after another.
In 1992, He Qingkui wrote the screenplay and Gao Xiumin performed the sketch "Baggage", which was once again a blockbuster, and even won the first prize in the National Comedy Star Competition when he went out of the province. The seamless cooperation between Gao Xiumin and He Qingkui makes them full of expectations and confidence in the future.
It is difficult to have a long-term friendship between men and women, and due to the creation and work together for a long time, the relationship between He Qingkui and Gao Xiumin has gradually changed. Gao Xiumin gradually changed from the heroine in the script to the heroine in He Qingkui's personal feelings, and his creation was inseparable from Gao Xiumin, who brought him countless inspirations like his muse.
For Gao Xiumin, He Qingkui is also like the fountain of her artistic origin, only with him can she have her stage and the carrier of her superb acting skills. They extend from the indivisibility of their work to the inseparability of real life.
Gao Xiumin was outspoken and fast, and he also handled his feelings quickly, and when he returned, he divorced her husband at the time, bent on being with He Qingkui. He Qingkui also moved the idea of divorce, saying that he also wanted to be with Gao Xiumin.
But He Qingkui couldn't cut through the mess quickly, because he knew that he was in a bad position, his wife had been running for the family for half a lifetime, and his life was finally better, but he betrayed her. When He Qingkui expressed his desire to be with Gao Xiumin, he was categorically rejected by Zhang Yanru, and no woman could accept such a thing, paid half a life for her husband, endured half a lifetime of criticism, and finally "praised" him, but he wanted to abandon his wife and son.
Zhang Yanru was very angry and ran away from home with her child to a relative's house in Guangzhou.
He Qingkui is very embarrassed, he is sorry for his wife and children, but he is inseparable from Gao Xiumin, and the screenwriting work that he cherishes and likes.
After his wife left home, He Qingkui was with Gao Xiumin. With the nourishment of feelings, their careers are more like hanging up, from the province to the whole country, and have won many awards in national competitions, and have become the top pillar of the CCTV Spring Festival Gala in the past ten years from 1997 to 2004, plus the talented actors Zhao Benshan and Fan Wei who joined later, their works almost supported the golden period of the CCTV Spring Festival Gala for nearly ten years.
Sketches such as "Selling Abductions", "Selling Cars", "Heart Disease", "Water Delivery Worker", "Yesterday, Today and Tomorrow", "Hourly Worker", "Red Sorghum Model Team", TV series "Liu Laogen", "Holy Water Lakeside" and other works have become indelible wonderful memories in the hearts of a generation.
In an interview, He Qingkui said heartily: "I am actually the man behind Zhao Benshan's success!" Without He Qingkui, there would be no Gao Xiumin, Zhao Benshan and Fan Wei shining on the stage and pushing northeast culture to the whole country.
Zhang Yanru took the child to Guangzhou and constantly reflected on her marriage with He Qingkui, and had to say that Zhang Yanru was really a very wise woman, and her marriage suffered such betrayal, she did not become a complaining woman who nagged, but had Sun Yat-sen's original wife, Ms. Lu Muzhen: "Mr. Sun Yat-sen ran overseas for the revolution, since someone is willing to take care of his life, I am willing to fulfill the best of it..."
However, at this time, He Qingkui, who had already lived with Gao Xiumin and whose life had improved greatly, said that he did not leave anything, his wife had the grace to support him, he had let her lose her companionship, the family was separated, the reputation was discredited, and he could no longer deprive the last marriage, so He Qingkui has not divorced Zhang Yanru.
Gao Xiumin is also very clear-minded, and she also has the grace of knowing He Qingkui, but she also understands that her act of interfering in other people's families is really unavoidable, and she has already gained his people's hearts, so she should not force people too much and ask for that marriage certificate again.
In this way, Gao Xiumin and He Qingkui, who was already a husband, lived together for 14 years, and He Qingkui's wife waited for He Qingkui in the south for 14 years until Gao Xiumin suddenly died of illness in 2005.
On August 8, 2005, He Qingkui's eldest son, He Shuchun, unfortunately died in a car accident in Guangzhou, and the 57-year-old He Qingkui rushed from the northeast to Guangzhou to deal with his son's posthumous affairs.
Ten days later, He Qingkui returned to Songyuan full of heartache and exhaustion, and had not yet returned to his residence with Gao Xiumin, only to receive the bad news that Gao Xiumin had died of a heart attack the next day.
Because of this matter, He Qingkui blamed himself for many years, Gao Xiumin has always had the problem of apnea when sleeping, often because of snoring and inhaling a breath, the next breath can not hold the breath, usually at this time, He Qingkui only needs to pin her arm back to back with her arm, a hard effort to let her chest cavity open smooth breathing up. However, on that day, He Qingkui was not there, and Gao Xiumin, who was alone, suffered this disaster.
In just ten days, his son and partner died forever, and He Qingkui was like being skinned. After the funeral, regarding the handling of matters such as inheritance, He Qingkui only took away his own book manuscripts, and the rest of the several houses he bought with Gao Xiumin were handed over to Gao Xiumin's only daughter Li Na without moving, and exaggeratedly said that he did not even take away a set of clothes in the room.
He personally arranged Gao Xiumin's cemetery and designed a statue of Gao Xiumin, which is a smiling Gao Xiumin surrounded by flowers, and the tombstone has the date of birth and the day of no pawn, because in He Qingkui's heart, she will live forever.
Later, He Qingkui also appeared on several programs, each time he had to settle the host in advance and not take the tragic route, he did not need to rely on nostalgia and consumption of Gao Xiumin to earn living expenses, nor did he need to publish the details of his and Gao Xiumin's life to attract attention.
Sending Gao Xiumin away, He Qingkui naturally packed up his luggage and returned to Zhang Yanru's side, continuing to live a married life that had been interrupted for more than ten years. Zhang Yanru's vision and enlightenment are amazing, and even a little admirable, he not only accepted the dying frustrated He Qingkui, but also at Gao Xiumin's funeral, instructed his second son to wear Ma Dai Filial Piety for Gao Xiumin and send her soul back to bliss, the "third party" of this family let them live separately for many years, but also realized the dream of her husband for many years, and also greatly improved the material conditions of the whole family, she had resentment towards her, there was also gratitude, and all complicated emotions dissipated with Gao Xiumin's early death.
Ten years later, Zhang Yanru also died peacefully in He Qingkui's arms.
Nowadays, He Qingkui has been photographed by reporters many times in his old state, and his living conditions are not as good as before.
Aging is the inevitable end of everyone, and the so-called poor may only be the contrast between the past and the present that the media like to see, in fact, for He Qingkui, after walking through the peak of life, he is also trapped in the trough of life, his lover has died one after another, and the material is not exaggerated for him to be regarded as dung.
He spent 800,000 yuan on his bank card in a week to only 150,000, and people asked him why he was so generous as a rural man. He replied sharply: "Too much money is useless." "There is truth in the world. If you hurt your feelings for money, lose the bottom line of being a person, and bring about a situation that is difficult to harvest, it is also inevitable.
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