Hello everyone, I am Anna, accompany everyone to the intellectual happiness [heart]
High bride price? Female reality? These predominantly male complaints are rife online, and on this issue, I would say that some men simply don't understand the nature of the problem.
The essence of the problem is:
One, the competition between men and men
Men with the same conditions, in order to obtain the resources of the opposite sex, in essence, the garage bride price is a competition between men and men!
Can't buy a house to marry a wife, blame what women do ~ either find a bride price, or improve their own ability, every day to scold people to sell their daughters, women realistic, as if this can have a wife! Can't marry because you're not strong enough, that's all. All you have to do is follow the rules of the game and work hard.
Second, the rules of inequality between men and women made by men
Since ancient times, the value of women is determined by men, men set the rules and regulations of male superiority and female inferiority, we have to admit that the rights and obligations of men and women to live in society are not equal, men have most of the wealth, rights, social status, although the current female consciousness awakens, but whether from the individual family relationship, or from the macro sense of the social level, the dominant direction of social development, the rules are stipulated by the patriarchal system.
If women want to live well, they must only be strong, hoping to find the strongest of men or the winner of the competition to marry, which will inevitably lead to some men can not find the object, or can not find their favorite object.
Poverty is the reason for poverty, those who complain about women, can not see that this itself is the rules of the game formulated by men, cocooning themselves is the man himself, if you do not have the ability to perceive the nature of things, and have the ability to go with the flow, or overturn the rules set by the original male ancestors, otherwise how to win in the cruel game of society? Just complaining!