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In 1976, Ma Yili was born in Shanghai, her parents were ordinary workers, and the family was crammed into the 8-square-meter Shikumen, and the days were hard.
When she was a child, Ma Yili's biggest dream was to have a room of her own.
Even so, Ma Yili had a happy childhood, thanks to the fact that she had a good father.
From a young age, her father taught her that if she had 10 yuan in her hand, she would have to save 9 yuan, and when the difficulties came, she did not have to ask for others.
His father never felt inferior because he was poor, he knew that Ma Yili liked literature and art, and always tried to find opportunities for her to perform on stage, exercise her courage, and support her in pursuing her dreams even if she smashed pots and sold iron.
In Ma Yili's memory, her father rode a bicycle countless times and took her to various art exams.
Once, Ma Yili got 180 yuan for the performance, the family was particularly happy, since then, she has not asked for money from the family, even the tuition is earned by herself. According to Ma Yili' recollection, the happiest moment in the family was that every time she took the performance fee, the family counted the money behind closed doors.
When he was in high school, Ma Yili had good grades in all kinds, but he got a "poor" in ideological character.
When her father found out, he was very unconvinced, so he took her straight to the teacher's office. The teacher said: "Ma Yili and several male classmates fell in love early. Dad solemnly asked the teacher to write down the names of the boys.
As a result, the teacher thought about it for half a day before writing a name.
The father asked, "What else?" The teacher was speechless. The father said, "My daughter I know!" After saying that, he took Ma Yili with him and left.
This incident left a deep impression on Ma Yili, and she was very grateful to her father for his unconditional trust in her, and also let her understand what it means not to be humble.
After graduating from high school, Ma Yili was admitted to the Shanghai Theater Academy.
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In her freshman year, Ma Yili showed a different side.
Once, she and her classmates took a play, about the girl went to the restaurant to order 20 yuan of dishes, but the boss had to charge 2,000 yuan, so the two girls were helpless and cried loudly. But Ma Yili just couldn't cry, and she asked with a puzzled face: "What is the use of crying?" Shouldn't you call the police? ”
In Ma Yili's view, tears are the most useless thing, instead of crying, it is better to find a way to solve the problem. Weak in appearance, she never shed tears easily.
In 1997, when director Guan Hu was casting for "Night walker", he glanced at Ma Yili, who was still in college, and the two people fell in love and quickly came together.
In order to please Ma Yili, Guan Hu specially tailored the movie "Xi Shi Eye" for her. As the protagonist, Ma Yili's performance in the film is remarkable, and Guan Hu is also shortlisted for the most popular film of the Golden Rooster and Hundred Flowers Film Festival with this film, which can be described as fame and fortune.
After falling in love with Guan Hu, Ma Yili saw the capital operation behind it, and also learned the screening, revision and promotion of the behind-the-scenes work of the script, which accumulated a lot of contacts and resources for her. During the relationship, she also became friends with Teng Huatao, Liu Zi and others.
These people have all provided great help in her future life.
In 2001, Guan Hu directed the annual drama "Black Hole", in order to save money, Guan Hu invited three important women: his ex-girlfriend Kong Lin, the current Ma Yili, and his future wife Liang Jing.
When Ma Yili and Liang Jing cooperated, the scene was not finished, and the two became good girlfriends. But before long, the friendship between the two people lit up with a red light.
It turned out that during that time, Ma Yili and Guan Hu often quarreled over small things, and Liang Jing always patiently comforted both sides. As she came and went, Liang Jing and Guan Hu became more and more acquainted, and she secretly agreed with Guan Hu, and Guan Hu was also attracted by her gentleness and virtuousness.
Not long after, Guan Hu and Ma Yili ended their 5-year relationship and turned around to be with Liang Jing.
In this regard, Ma Yili was very uncomfortable in his heart, and he and Liang Jing died from then on. But for Guan Hu, she chose to swallow her anger.
Perhaps, it is because Guan Hu has a lot of resources. It is worth mentioning that at that time, Ma Yili and Liu Zi had become good girlfriends, and Liu Zi and Teng Huatao were a couple, but after Liu Zi relied on Teng Huatao to take the throne, even if Teng Huatao derailed Gao Yuanyuan, Liu Zi did not quarrel, but became good friends with Teng Huatao, and relied on his predecessor to obtain a lot of film and television resources.
These things happened before Ma Yili and Guan Hu broke up, and they were of great enlightenment to Ma Yili.
In 2003, Ma Yili relied on the help of Guan Hu and Teng Huatao to play the role of Ziwei in "Huan Zhu Ge Ge 3", which was finally a little famous.
Since then, Ma Yili no longer relies on Guan Hu to give resources, but relies on herself to cut through thorns and thorns all the way, and gradually becomes loved by many viewers and becomes a first-line actress.
Guan Hu and Liang Jing turned around and entered the marriage hall. After that, Liang Jing almost became Guan Hu's "royal heroine".
03
In 2006, the article and Ma Yili collaborated on "Struggle", because of the drama.
At that time, many people were not optimistic about this relationship, after all, Ma Yili was extremely popular, and the article was still an unknown little transparent. Moreover, Ma Yili is still 8 years older than the article.
Even her girlfriend Liu Zi strongly opposed this relationship, and introduced her boyfriend to Ma Yili during their hot love. But Ma Yili loves is love, and in 2008, Ma Yili married an article with nothing. Now it seems like the plot of "The Naked Marriage Era".
In September of the same year, Ma Yili gave birth to a daughter, and the article took this opportunity to show her love and named her daughter Wen Aima. For a time, the article successfully became a good husband with deep feelings and a good father with a warm heart.
After becoming a mother, Ma Yili focused her life on the family, and at the same time began to fully support the career development of the article.
With the help of Ma Yili's friend Teng Huatao, the article has continuously starred in many popular TV series such as "Snail Residence", "Snow Leopard", "Naked Marriage Era" and so on, and has almost become a screen bully.
Of course, this road is inseparable from the solid acting skills of the article itself, and it is also inseparable from the woman behind Ma Yili.
However, Ma Yili, who has greatly helped the article in her career, is a woman with a strong desire to control in her marriage. At first, the article enjoyed this kind of life that was covered by Ma Yili.
Once, Ma Yili asked the article to learn English, and the article said not to learn.
Ma Yili said: "You have learned English, and it will be convenient to go abroad in the future." ”
The article said: "If you don't go out, I won't go abroad alone." ”
Ma Yili had a spoiled face.
However, as the article developed better and better, and Ma Yili rarely took over the role, the balance between them changed from a strong woman to a strong man and a weak woman, and this balance was broken.
After becoming famous, the article was repeatedly exposed as playing a big name and being difficult to get along with, and once swelled up very badly.
In 2014, the article was exposed to cheating on Yao Di, when Ma Yili was pregnant with her second child. For a time, public opinion was in an uproar, and the good man design created by the article over the years collapsed in an instant.
Ma Yili, who has always been strong, lightly used "marriage is not easy, and it is good and cherished." In response, this sentence became the best marriage chicken soup of the year, and Ma Yili was also ridiculed by the crowd as "forgive the sect leader".
During that time, Ma Yili was undoubtedly in great pain, and she was busy repairing her body after giving birth to her second child, while also having to clean up the mess for the article.
However, it is a fact that bearing the burden of humiliation can only be a helpless choice at that time, which is only the first step she took in her future planning.
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Several years after the article derailed, he almost became a street rat, and he may be the most miserable male star after the derailment.
Why is that? It may be that he has always been a good man, and when he cheated, netizens simply could not accept it. There are many men in the entertainment industry who can still thrive after cheating, such as Chen Sicheng and Xu Zheng, but they did not have a good man at the beginning, so they cheated and were not so greatly affected.
And Ma Yili, who experienced cheating, on the one hand, began to make a comeback to shoot, on the other hand, she still supported the article, and at the award ceremony after she filmed "The First Half of My Life", she still said the words of thanks to the article, without a word of complaint.
It is worth mentioning that Ma Yili mentioned in a later interview that if she was 20 years old, she would not take the role of Luo Zijun, and now that she is over 40 years old, she understands Luo Zijun's compassion and desolation.
Ma Yili, 40, has begun to change, and it seems that it has never changed.
Remember, when Ma Yili played Ziwei, she made it clear: "I hate Ziwei, she is too traditional, she only knows how to revolve around a man." So I want to play Ziwei more personality, play a person who actively pursues happiness. “
When filming "Qiao Family Compound", the female second she played was originally a person who was stoic and silently dedicated, but she was vividly played by her as a person who loved and retaliated at the same time.
In playing "Struggle", she played Charlene, who loved to hate, was decisive and brave, just like Ma Yili herself.
These early works of hers are undoubtedly not a portrayal of her true character.
After experiencing derailment, her dramas such as "Beishang Guangdong Don't Believe in Tears", "Chinese-style Relationship", and "The First Half of My Life" are remarkable, and each drama is a manifestation of her own strength.
She also tried many different roles, from "Find You", "Cheongsam Beauty Detective" and many other dramas, so that the audience knew a different Ma Yili.
Of course, in recent years, her works have continued, and she has won awards. She proved with practical actions that women can only live beautifully on their own.
In 2019, when Yao Di broke the news of marriage, Ma Yili quickly divorced the article, she spent 5 years, making the article and Yao Di impossible, and at the same time, she also ushered in the second spring of her career.
In the past 2 years, Ma Yili is still a masterpiece, the whole person is radiant, and the confidence is so confident that people always forget her age. On the other hand, after being nailed to the column of shame of cheating, the article almost disappeared into the entertainment industry.
Everything has long been human.
Gu Cheng has a poem that reads:
Because you are a flower, you will feel that spring has left you.
If you are spring.
If there is no departure, there will always be flowers.
If you bloom, the breeze will come!
In the relationship between Ma Yili and the article, the two finally returned to the strong woman and the weak man. Today, Ma Yili has become spring, and the article seems to have nothing overnight.
Feelings are like this, reconciliation is easy, as in the beginning it is difficult.
From Ma Yili's two love histories of being split legs, it can be seen that she is by no means a simple person who never lives on the nest.
As Ma Yili said: In the first half of a person's life, there is no right or wrong, just growth. In a relationship, only by constantly cultivating and becoming a better self can a woman truly stand in an invincible position.
Finally, in a sentence from Long Yingtai, I would like to send it to everyone: Thousands of mountains and rivers come to the end, and there is only the word "myself".