All along, I often hear people talk about "nibbling on the old people".
It means that young people who do not work hard and rely on their parents to support themselves.
But have you ever heard of the "Nibblers"?
The so-called "nibbling baby family" refers to the parents themselves do not want to struggle, they use the child's eyeballs, become child stars or small Internet celebrities to make money.
Qin Peiran's mother is obviously the representative of the "Nibble Baby Clan".
01 A video caused a storm
On February 20, Ming Dao suddenly became a hot search, and the initiator was Qin Peiran's mother.
She uploaded a video online, this video is a recording tidbit, there are several people in the video, Qin Peiran smiled and sat on Huang Yi's lap, sitting next to Ming Dao.
This tidbit is originally very simple, just need everyone to face the camera, hold the red envelope together, and say 2 lines.
But such simple content has been recorded many times.
The reason was that Qin Peiran was not very cooperative, she either moved around and did not speak lines well, or blocked Huang Yi.
And it was hard not to block Huang Yi's sight, Qin Peiran took the red envelope backwards again, and Huang Yi could only correct her again.
After a few times, Mingdao couldn't hold his breath and said, "Don't waste my time," and brought an uncivilized spoken word.
Then Mingdao stood up and said, "Wait until you obediently cooperate with me to shoot again." ”
Qin Peiran's mother gave this video a copy of "Ming Dao thinks that a waste of time will lead to a black-faced little actor".
After the release of this video, it triggered a hot discussion among everyone, and Mingdao was also quickly on the hot search.
Some netizens feel that after all, it is a child, it is natural to be lively and active, and it is indeed inappropriate to say dirty words.
However, the vast majority of netizens have stood in line and said: "The bear child delays everyone's time, it should be said." ”
"If it's me, it's two slaps straight up."
"Just because she is a child, she should understand the sense of rules, and it is wrong to waste other people's time."
"It's mainly the bear's parents who don't discipline her well."
02 Yin Yang Weird Apology Letter
Seeing the hot discussion on the Internet, Qin Peiran's mother quickly deleted the video she posted.
A long apology was sent that afternoon, but it was written with some meaning.
First, she explained that the reason she apologized was that she couldn't bear to see her love of acting ruined.
How to look at this sentence makes people feel strange, a person who says that he wants to apologize, but does not obviously say what is wrong with his child and what to do.
Instead, he apologized only because he couldn't bear to ruin Mingdao's acting career because of this incident.
Then, she recounted the events of the day, saying that because everyone had posted the tidbits on the set, she also dried it herself, and it wasn't until she was later on the hot search that she found that something was not quite right.
She explained that Qin Peiran was not yet 6 years old, was a lively and active girl, and did not have a seated portrait when shooting, did not cooperate with everyone's shooting, and usually Qin Peiran got along well with everyone.
Especially with Huang Yi and Ming Dao, the title between them has always been quite "no big, no small".
For Qin Peiran's non-cooperation at that time, her words were: "I didn't expect it."
Then, she said that usually in the crew, Ming Dao and Huang Yi would buy things for the people in the crew, and she would also ask who bought it, so that Qin Peiran could remember everyone's kindness to her.
This incident is just a video she sent by hand, I hope that everyone will not over-interpret the Ming Dao.
This article is very long and explains many things in detail, but after reading it, netizens not only did not forgive her previous practices, but caused greater disgust.
A closer look at this long article reveals many problems:
1. She said that her children often joked with Huang Yi and Ming Dao on the set, even calling them "Lao Huang" or "Lao Dao", and also indicated that Huang Yi made her do this.
The implication is that Qin Peiran got along with everyone in the crew, Huang Yi didn't mind, only Ming Dao minded.
2. She pointed out that Qin Peiran is usually a lively and active child, and it is normal for Mingdao to "hate" her.
In fact, this sentence is over-interpreting Ming Dao, Qin Peiran did not cooperate on the spot, Ming Dao accused her of nothing wrong, does not mean that Ming Dao will hate her, rising height has become another meaning.
3. She explained that she had severely stopped it and asked the child to "stop making trouble", but she did not expect it to be like this.
This is to say that she has already educated her children, but I didn't expect the whole thing to be like this, and the reason why it is like this is because she sent a small video?
Many crews will have various problems during the filming process, but they have not caused this, it is entirely because others will choose to discuss and solve them privately, rather than deliberately releasing tidbits to smear others.
If the child is disobedient, it can be said that she is just a child, but the child's parents are unreasonable, and some cannot be said.
While apologizing on the pretext of saying that he had done something wrong, while using the child's lively and active nature to leave his child clean, it can be said that Qin Peiran's mother's ability to confuse the public is extraordinary.
After the long article was sent, many netizens directly scolded, saying that Qin Peiran's mother "tea talk tea language", at this time, found that the wind direction is not right, the situation is not good Qin Peiran's mother immediately closed the social platform comments.
Soon Mingdao's agent also issued a statement on behalf of Mingdao, saying that even if the children did not cooperate at that time, they should not use emotional words, and he would pay more attention to his words and deeds in the future, who had just been promoted to a novice father.
This is the attitude that an apology should have, and there is no need for a long essay, just a clear statement of your mistakes.
In fact, in the whole incident, Qin Peiran and Ming Dao were both wrong.
One as a "child star" with four years of experience in the industry lacks discipline, and one as a public figure, he does not do a good job of emotional management.
After all, whatever the reason, it is definitely not right to say dirty.
And I believe that with this lesson, Ming Dao will certainly be more cautious before he speaks in the future.
But is this serious? Not serious.
There is a lot of friction in life, and if everyone tolerates a little more and tolerates a little more, you can turn big things into small things.
Therefore, it is reasonable to say that Ming Dao and Qin Peiran are both "victims" in this matter.
However, it was obvious that Qin Peiran was a little more miserable.
Looking at Qin Peiran's growth history of less than 6 years, you will see a utilitarian mother who is "very well-intentioned".
03 The terrible Nibblers
Qin Peiran, formerly known as Qin Guanlin, was born in Beijing on February 29, 2016.
At the age of 1, she participated in the recording of the public service film Reject passive smoking.
At the age of 2, she began to participate in the fashion catwalk, and at the age of 3, she became one of the top ten of the Ruili Children's Model Contest, and in the same year, she also participated in the recording of many health pots and bedding advertisements.
At the age of 4, he filmed KFC advertisements and high-speed rail promotional films and participated in the recording of the variety show "Very 6+1 Small No Little Bit Of Power".
At the age of 5, he began to participate in the filming of many TV series such as "Wulin Has Squeamishness", "Snake Plague", "The Law of the World", "Early Summer", "Good Morning, Forbidden City", "I Am Very Good in Other Places" and so on.
Look at this tight and terrifying schedule, this is no longer the "children's version of 996", this is simply "children's version of 007".
In addition, in Qin Peiran's social account, you can also see a lot of photos of Qin Peiran on English and guzheng, piano and other cram schools.
The girl, who was less than 6 years old, had been dragged forward by her parents since she was 1 year old, without any respite.
When other children were still in the arms of their parents, she had been immersed in the entertainment industry for several years.
Alas, alas.
However, what is even more tragic is that even if he runs so hard, Qin Peiran still has not been able to become a popular little star.
This may be the reason why Qin Peiran's mother wants to rub traffic.
In addition, she probably felt unhappy, thinking that Mingdao had blackened his own children and should be condemned.
It's just that she never dreamed that today's netizens are more rational and sober than before.
People don't just see a middle-aged man who is exhausted to the point of collapse and then loses control of his emotions.
I also saw a "bear child" who lacked the minimum cooperation, lacked a sense of rules, and constantly disrupted the scene shooting.
And, of course, there's the "bear parents" who caused all of this to happen.
At the scene, she not only did not stop the child's behavior at the first time, but also deliberately exaggerated the problem of Mingdao and released a video on the Internet in an attempt to occupy the "moral high ground" first.
Clear-eyed people understand that her approach is to broaden her eyeballs, rub traffic, and let more people remember Qin Peiran through such a method.
But she had clearly forgotten that the cause of the incident was entirely due to the actions of her bear children.
This kind of single-mindedness only wants children to rub traffic to increase exposure, completely disregarding the right and wrong of things, and it is really ugly to eat.
No wonder it will lead to groups of netizens to attack it.
In addition, in the long apology letter she later sent, the whole article did not make people feel a trace of sincerity, but was bent on shirking responsibility for herself and her children.
And when someone pointed out that there was something wrong with her child's behavior, she dismissively thought:
She's still young, what are you an adult doing with a child?
I have to say that Qin Peiran's mother's idea also has a little truth, after all, the traditional virtue of our Chinese nation is to respect the old and love the young.
Respectable old people and young people should also be divided into situations, not all old people should be respected, nor should all young children be loved.
Moreover, if you are a parent, you will only blindly spoil your child, do not lead by example, and discipline your child well.
When the child grows up, the cruel and realistic teacher of "society" will educate her well for you.
Therefore, the "Mingdao black-faced little girl" is not a simple problem that a star's emotional management is out of control, or a "bear child" is not good at cooperating with the shooting.
But as long as there are "bear children", there must be "bear parents".
This "bear parent" is the root of the problem.
Before, everyone only knew that nibbling on the old people was terrible.
Those unmotivated young people, all day long slogan "lie flat", be the parents of rice worms to make their gray hair, worry about them for a lifetime.
But now it seems that the emerging Nibblers are even more terrifying.
Those children do not have a normal childhood from birth, they are thrown into the big dye vat of the entertainment industry by their parents, they are forced to mature, forced to become a tool for their parents to make money.
Qin Peiran is not the first baby to be nibbled by her parents, and I believe that she will not be the last.