"Is her affairs all arranged?" I didn't mean to kill her. ”
The winter in Nanyang is always full of romance, but in the romantic winter, a bizarre murder has occurred.
On December 20, 2019, the old couple who had walked hand in hand for more than 60 years fell apart, and after embarking on the road of separation, Deng AhGong actually killed his wife Ah Xiu.
So what kind of deep hatred can make an old man over eighty years old raise a butcher's knife to kill people?
Couples centrifugal, unfair marriages
In 1960, Deng Xiaojun, who was born in the countryside, reached the age of marriage, when men were old and did not marry, they were pointed out behind their backs, and bad gossip came out.
So Deng Xiaojun reached an age when his family began to introduce him to the matchmaker.
Coincidentally, Ah Xiu of the neighboring village was of the right age and the family situation was also quite comparable, and under the mediation of the matchmaker, the two families agreed to this marriage, so the young Deng Xiaojun and Ah Xiu entered the palace of marriage.
Although Deng Xiaojun and Ah Xiu were born in the countryside, they have always worked in the city, Deng Xiaojun joined the work in 1958, and Ah Xiu joined the work in 1960, and both of them have formal jobs.
Although it does not earn much, it is more than enough to cope with the life of a family of two.
As the length of service grew, the two people's wages also began to increase, but then there was a problem, and Ah Xiu did not give the salary to the family, but to his mother's family.
Ah Xiu is the eldest sister in her mother's family, and there are three younger sisters and a younger brother in the family, but in addition to her parents working in agriculture to earn money, there is no money in the family, and the poverty in the family can be imagined.
So in order for her mother's family to live better, Ah Xiu had to send her salary to her mother's house. But this gift is half a lifetime.
Even though Deng Xiaojun and Ah Xiu are both employees of the enterprise, their income is not bad, but only one person's salary to support the family is OK in peacetime, but with the five children falling to the ground, Deng Xiaojun's own salary alone is stretched.
What's more, with the changes of the times, work is becoming more and more difficult to do, the expenses of children and the expenses of human feelings have gradually become larger, and life has become increasingly difficult.
Even so, Ah Xiu looked at the lack of family expenses and did not offer to take out his own salary to supplement the family.
And Deng Xiaojun knew that his wife took the money home and in addition to the usual mention of a few words, he was silent, and could only be silently angry behind his back.
The rebuilding of the family house, the children's study, and everything else was supported by Deng Xiaojun alone, and in difficult times, he even borrowed money from the factory and borrowed grain to survive the family crisis without letting Ah Xiu take out a penny.
In addition to the problem of money, because Ah Xiu's legs had accidents when he was a child and was a little lame, Deng Xiaojun, as a manly husband, took the initiative to take on all the housework after marriage.
But Deng Xiaojun is not iron, he also hopes that his wife is a person who knows cold and knows heat, and he also hopes that his wife can understand his day's tiredness, but this is all his own imagination.
Whenever he comes back from work, what he is left with is not hot rice and hot dishes, but scraps of leftovers that the family has eaten.
He will also be tired, but no matter how tired he is, he will also finish the housework, because he knows that even if he does not do it, Ah Xiu will not reach out to do it.
Even if he works hard, he will tutor the five children's schoolwork, because he knows that in Ah Xiu's heart, she is only responsible for the birth of the child, not for raising the child.
In this way, the relationship between the two is getting thinner and thinner because of the whereabouts of the money and the child's education problems, making this already unsound feeling more and more fragile.
Because of the existence of contradictions, the two quarreled for many years, but for the sake of the children, Deng Xiaojun did not choose to divorce even if he was angry, he hoped to give the children a complete home, and also to do his best to maintain the family, so that the family looked harmonious on the surface.
However, the conflict between the two escalated because the brother-in-law's family built a house.
In 1982, Ah Xiu's younger brother's family wanted to build a house, but his brother did not have so much money in his hands, so he had to ask for his sister who worked in the factory, and his sister always took care of her mother's family.
When Ah Xiu saw his brother's pitiful appearance, he gave all the money he had accumulated to his brother.
Yes to give, not to borrow.
Ah Xiu's years of accumulation were enough for his brother's family to build a big house. However, Ah Xiu did not tell her husband Deng Xiaojun about giving money to her brother.
When Deng Xiaojun learned of this matter, he could no longer suppress the anger in his heart, and finally broke out his long-suppressed emotions and quarreled with Ah Xiu.
In the quarrel, Deng Xiaojun vented all his dissatisfaction, but this did not make Ah Xiu have the slightest change, and Ah Xiu still went his own way
For the sake of this family, Deng Xiaojun is still patient, but after this quarrel, the two have no feelings, only unlimited resentment towards each other.
Although the two are only husband and wife, the parents at home have always thought that they are very loving, so Deng Xiaojun's parents can also help the difficulties in their own family.
In their thinking, after all, the relationship between the two families gets along well, the child's marriage will be happy, so when Ah Xiu's mother's family wants the Deng family to help because of some things, the second elder of the Deng family does not hesitate to help.
Originally, the two families were still in a state of harmony, but the occurrence of an incident brought the relationship between the two families down to the freezing point.
Endure in silence
Because Ah Xiu is the eldest sister in her mother's family, the responsibility she bears after marriage is relatively large, but her way of taking responsibility is to make a "big gamble" with her and Deng Xiaojun's small family.
Although with the help of Ah Xiu, her mother's brother's life is getting better and better, and he also built a large tile house and married and had children.
However, the five children of Ah Xiu's younger brother have become the objects of Ah Xiu's help, after all, with his brother's ability, it is impossible for the five children to live a good life.
When Ah Xiu's brother's eldest son, the sixth son, was born, the younger brother's whole family was covered with a thick layer of clouds, after all, the eldest son was a disabled person, and the identity of the disabled in that era represented that there would be no formal work, and people in that era were also very ignorant, thinking that the child's disability was "heavenly punishment".
In order to eliminate this ridiculous rumor, the younger brother's family began to have children continuously, and finally the four children behind them were not disabled, which gradually calmed down the rumors in the village.
However, the five children born in succession made this already not rich family worse, and it was better to have the help of the eldest sister Ah Xiu.
But as the sixth son of a disabled person, his work problem has always been the heart disease of the eldest aunt Ah Xiu, and finally she thought of a way, that is, to work at the stall of her own public mother-in-law.
Deng Agong and Deng Abo (Deng Xiaojun's parents) had little culture when they were young, but fortunately they were always hardworking and hardworking, so they also saved a lot of family business in the town.
This is also the main reason why Deng Xiaojun's family is still able to support five children after "losing" a major source of finance.
Although Deng Agong and Deng Abo are in business, they are kind-hearted and deeply loved by the people nearby, so the stalls of their old two families will always be the hottest shops on the street.
The business in the shop is good, so the old two are often too busy to come, at this time the children of relatives come to help, this person is the sixth son.
Under the arrangement of his aunt, he began to deliberately get close to Deng Ahgong and his wife, and behaved very diligently in front of them.
The child came to help himself, Deng Agong and his wife naturally could not treat him badly, in addition to some ordinary pocket money, some other expenses were borne by the two old people for the child.
Such a good phenomenon was very gratifying in Ah Xiu's eyes, and once the two old men saw the diligence of the sixth son, she could proceed to the next step.
Deng Agong and his wife saw that the sixth son was so diligent, plus he was Ah Xiu's nephew, the two old men had more trust in the sixth son, and in this trust, the two old men informed the stalls such as opening food stalls and secrets.
The sixth son also learned everything needed to open the stall under the guidance of the two old men.
At this time, Ah Xiu felt that the time had come, so the grandmother of the sixth son, that is, Ah Xiu's mother and Deng Xiaojun's mother-in-law, proposed to Deng Ah Gong and his wife to temporarily borrow 30,000 yuan so that their grandson could also open a stall to do business.
In the face of the request of the mother, Deng Agong and his wife did not think too much, after all, in the eyes of the old couple, the sixth son of the grandchild has always been very intimate, so the old father began to be busy with the career of the sixth son.
The old couple deliberately selected a good location for the free stall in the mall and directly rented the stall with the 30,000 yuan.
According to the planning of the two old people, as long as the six sons are well managed, they will definitely make money, and they can earn a lot.
Deng Agong thought very thoughtfully, "Originally, the sixth son's family was poor, and even the money for renting the stall was borrowed from himself, so he might as well send the Buddha to the west and buy all the things in the stall for him." ”
Deng AhGong thought so, and so did so. The goods that Liuzi needed to do business were either taken by Deng Agong from his own stall and directly given to him on credit, or directly given to him.
These credit things, plus the money borrowed by the liuzi family, Deng Agong directly took out sixty thousand yuan.
Now it is not much to see sixty thousand yuan, but that year was 1989, so the painstaking help in addition to the six sons' industriousness, he is after all the nephew of the daughter-in-law, know the roots.
I didn't expect that such a child who knew the roots actually plunged their family into the water.
With the help of Mr. and Mrs. Deng Agong, the business of the six sons' stalls was getting better and better, and they also made a lot of money in a year, but at the end of the year, the six sons' family began to deny the account.
Since it had been stated at that time that the thirty thousand yuan was a loan, and other goods were given to the sixth son on credit, then the sixth son should return the money to Deng Agong and his wife when they earned money in a year.
However, the sixth son began not to recognize the account, not only did not buy goods from Deng Ahgong, but also did not repay the rest of the money except for the 30,000 yuan loan, which angered the old and strong Deng Ahgong.
In order to take care of the daughter-in-law as an intermediary, the old two endured and endured, but the sixth son had to make progress, and in the end he did not even take the stall money.
This stall was originally Deng Agong's, and later was subleased out by Deng Agong, this is a nephew and grandson doing business, which is left for him to come back, but the stall money is not paid, which makes Deng Agong angry.
The new hatred and the old hatred directly let Deng Agong take the stall back, which is also a lesson for the sixth son, if the sixth son can pay the money, then the two families can still get along well, but the sixth son's family actually made a fuss.
After the stall was taken back by Deng Agong, the grandmother and father of the sixth son began to come to Deng Agong's house to make a big fuss and loudly tell the unkindness of Deng Agong and his wife.
After this incident occurred, Deng Agong and Deng Xiaojun lost face in the township and unit.
At this time, the key figure Ah Xiu actually stood on the side of her mother's family without any reason, and even blindly scolded Deng Xiaojun: "Your family is not a good thing, you can't see others good." ”
Such insults made Deng Agong and his wife very angry, they saw the unreasonableness of their daughter-in-law, and they did not want their son to be angry on both sides.
The old couple had no choice but to retreat for the sake of their son, and said to Deng Xiaojun: "This matter should be when we eat a dumb loss, we are generous and do not have the same general knowledge as them, but our family will not give a penny for anything in their family." ”
After this, the Deng family and Ah Xiu's family had no contact.
After this incident, the feelings of the husband and wife were also worn out, if Deng Xiaojun did not think that divorce was humiliating, he would have chosen divorce long ago, rather than silently bearing it.
separate
The family is well aware of a problem, that is, Ah Xiu's mother's family is like a leech, sucking the blood of the Deng family all the time.
After the Deng family broke off relations with Ah Xiu's family, she originally thought that Ah Xiu's heart would slowly move closer to the Deng family, but she did not expect that her heart was directly biased towards the mother's family, and even did things that made Deng Xiaojun unforgivable.
With the passage of time, Deng Xiaojun and Ah Xiu's age slowly grew older, and the relationship between the two people began to slowly improve with the passage of time.
Deng Xiaojun also began to understand his wife's help to her mother's family, but this did not mean that he could forgive her.
Deng Xiaojun took this resentment and self-love unit to work hard, and worked hard for forty years.
In these forty years, everyone in the unit knew that although Deng Xiaojun's family situation was not good, his daughter-in-law married and did not marry.
Sometimes the children in the family need money to go to school, and Deng Xiaojun can only borrow money from colleagues in the unit, or pay wages in advance to tide over the difficulties.
Deng Xiaojun, who has always been an old and good man in the unit, has retired at the age of sixty, idle on weekdays, the children in the family are also older, and he is fighting for his career outside, and he has no worries now.
However, he had been busy all the time, and he suddenly felt all kinds of discomfort when he was idle, so Deng Xiaojun began to think about what to do.
Under Deng Xiaojun's thinking, he remembered the house left by his parents, which was facing the street and was a good place to do some small business.
So Deng Xiaojun began to clean up the house and clean it up, and at this time he had already thought about what business he wanted to do, that is, to open a breakfast shop.
Your own house, your own business, is definitely a sure profit. After thinking about it, Deng Xiaojun began to get busy, and within a few days, his breakfast restaurant opened.
Deng Xiaojun is honest, making breakfast is real material, never stealing a small amount, his breakfast business is very prosperous, gradually he can't be busy alone, he thinks about it and calls his wife Ah Xiu to help, but this is also a harbinger of all disasters.
Although Ah Xiu has a good relationship with her children and a good relationship with Deng Xiaojun over the years, her heart and her money have always been supplied to her brother.
But these Deng Xiaojun were already used to it, after all, they were their own wives, so they turned a blind eye.
The breakfast restaurant, with the help of Ah Xiu, suddenly relaxed a lot, but soon there was a problem, that is, the income had changed.
Deng Xiaojun's breakfast shop is very popular every day, but the income is getting less and less, which makes Deng Xiaojun, who has always been astute, find that something is wrong.
Deng Xiaojun thought that it might be that he and Ah Xiu did not take good care of the money box and let the thief go, but after a few days of observation, it was found that there was no theft, but the money still disappeared inexplicably.
This made Deng Xiaojun can't help but cast his doubtful eyes on his wife Ah Xiu.
Under Deng Xiaojun's careful observation, Ah Xiu would secretly take out hundreds of yuan every day, and deng Xiaojun originally thought that Ah Xiu took the money to ensure his future life.
And Deng Xiaojun was originally just a job to pass the leisure time after retirement, and did not want to make much money, so it was inappropriate for Ah Xiu to steal money.
Unexpectedly, Ah Xiu actually took all the more than 50,000 yuan he had saved in the past two years to his mother's brother again.
After this incident was known to Deng Xiaojun, he could not bear it, and the two began a decades-long separation cold war.
The bloody case caused by the 165 yuan utility bill
At that time, after the two families separated, although they lived in the same yard, they lived alone, even if it was rice, flour, grain and oil, they ate their own.
Both people's utility bills are half of one person's, and one person pays for a month, and then takes the bill to find another person to reimburse the other half of the money.
In September and October 2019, the two-month utility bill totaled 330 yuan.
The money for these two months was paid by Deng Xiaojun, who took the bill to ask Ah Xiu for money, but Ah Xiu did not give him 135 yuan.
At 2:30 p.m. on December 20, 2019, Deng Xiaojun walked out of the door after watching a TV show in his room, walked around the courtyard, and just saw Ah Xiu's door closed.
I thought that Ah Xiu was old and there might be some situation, but when I walked in and looked at the window, I actually saw that Ah Xiu was sleeping, it was already afternoon, and Ah Xiu was actually still sleeping.
This made Deng Xiaojun furious, and he woke up Ah Xiu in the courtyard and demanded water and electricity bills.
And Ah Xiu was taking a nap, did not expect to let Deng Xiaojun wake up, himself was not happy in his heart, watching Deng Xiaojun ask for money, so he scolded Deng Xiaojun.
Deng Xiaojun was not inferior, the two began to scold each other, and the more they scolded, the more angry they became, and the two eighty-year-old men began to fight.
Deng Xiaojun, who was extremely angry, remembered the various unpleasantnesses between him and Ah Xiu, and the anger he had suppressed in his heart for decades was suddenly ignited.
Deng Xiaojun turned around, returned to his room, took out a steel pipe he used to work in the factory, held it in his hand and walked angrily towards Ah Xiu's room, who was still in a rage, did not realize the arrival of danger.
Deng Xiaojun, who was back in Ah Xiu's room, saw Ah Xiu and began to wave the steel pipe in his hand and smash it hard towards Ah Xiu's head, stick after stick.
The tenacious Ah Xiu began to resist, grabbed the steel pipe and hit Deng Xiaojun on the back, and was snatched by Deng Xiaojun several times in a row, until Deng Xiaojun knocked Ah Xiu to the ground.
Deng Xiaojun felt that he had beaten Ah Xiu to death, so he locked Ah Xiu's door, put the steel pipe under his wardrobe, and locked himself in the room.
Deng Xiaojun, who had never drunk alcohol, took out a bottle of liquor, as if he had taken a few sips unconsciously, and slept in his bed in a daze.
In the evening, Deng Xiaojun's eldest daughter returned to the courtyard and suddenly smelled a smell of blood, but she did not expect that her mother was lying in a pool of blood, and at this time, Ah Xiu had lost her breath.
The eldest daughter found that her mother was dead, and she opened the scene environment, and the mother definitely did not die normally, so she immediately called the police.
After the police arrived, they quickly found the murder weapon and the murderer, and Deng Xiaojun, who was sleeping in the room, was quickly woken up by the police and taken to the police station.
Deng Xiaojun was already an eighty-year-old man, and when the police searched the room, they finally found the reason why Deng Xiaojun killed his wife, Ah Xiu.
On Deng Xiaojun's bedside table, the police found Deng Xiaojun's letter to Ah Xiu's brother, in which Deng Xiaojun wrote all the grievances he had suffered in his sixty years of marriage.
In the letter, Deng Xiaojun could not solve these things, which made Deng Xiaojun feel helpless and pessimistic. The letter was crumpled and had not yet been sent, and perhaps the letter would have been sent to avoid the murder.
After the case occurred, because this case was relatively special, it was a case of elderly people killing their wives.
Therefore, the police conducted a meticulous visit to the case, learned about Deng Xiaojun's personality from the community director, Deng Xiaojun's children and others, and judged Deng Xiaojun's wife murder case in conjunction with the unsent letter:
Sentenced to ten years' imprisonment for intentional homicide.
summary
The case of Deng Xiaojun's wife killing is not a case.
Deng Xiaojun's children are usually busy with work, and the number of times they go home to visit the second elder on weekdays is very small, so the children know the grievances of their parents.
However, they did not pay attention to this matter, so they neglected to communicate with their parents' problems, which led to a growing gap between parents, and even the phenomenon of wife killing.
In modern society, the population is seriously aging, children care less and less for their parents, and their parents' thinking is also seriously out of touch with society, and it is easy to go to extremes.
After the emergence of the Deng Xiaojun case, the procuratorial organs and others began to focus on rectifying and guiding the old-age service system in the Wollongong community, and assisted the community to establish a legal aid system to better help the elderly resolve civil disputes and contradictions.