Xu Min's most beloved is the grandson Qiqi, whenever Xu Min comes to the house, the first thing to hug is Qiqi, Qiqi also likes grandma, every time he has to hang on her, hold her face for half a day, Xu Min is not annoyed, and enjoys the feeling of being favored by his grandson.
But now for the sake of the third trial, Xu Min had to separate from his grandson and go to Kaifeng with Yao Shibing to discuss important matters, so that Qi Qi would have no one to take care of him, and during the New Year, Qi Qi opened his eyes every day, and the first person to call was Grandma, Xu Min helped Qi Qi get dressed, fed him, and took him for a walk.
Since Xu Min returned, there is no one in this family who hurts him like Xu Min, and His father Yao Wei knows to bully him every day, holding stinky socks and stinky feet on his face, and now he is still alone in the house staring at things on the wall, like a big baby who doesn't grow up, not as smart as Qiqi looks.
Mother Tian Jing has a busy job every day, and in her spare time, she also has to shoot videos to share the daily life of her family to reassure fans, of course, it is also for the heat of her live broadcast room and maintain daily fans.
But at the same time, he slackened the care of the child, and after Qiqi got up in the morning, his hair was not combed, like a fried hair, standing upright on his head, and he saw that he had just gotten up and did not take care of it, and he was free of a small lion. Generally, after such a big child gets up, the mother will first sort out the hair, not to mention that Tian Jing is still shooting a video, it is impossible not to see her son fried hair.
Qiqi sat alone on a chair with a spoon to eat, because of his young age, he could not eat very sharply, his mouth was full of slag, he did not let the adults do it, he took a piece of paper and wiped it, without Xu Min, Qiqi was independent a lot.
In fact, children at this age already have an autonomous consciousness, know the attitude of others to him, and will make different choices accordingly. Many people will think, why does my child have to fight against me, just like a bully, but other people's children are very obedient and independent?
From Tian Jing's education of Qiqi, it can be seen that Tian Jing is almost sheep-herding for Qiqi, Xu Min is spoiled by Qiqi, and everything depends on him, as long as Qiqi has needs, Xu Min will inevitably arrive. But Tian Jing is different, he will let the children do it themselves, eat their own food and do it themselves, the mother has the mother's things to do, and the mother is not for you to serve.
Of course, it seems that Qiqi is very pitiful, no one hurts or loves, so I put a bowl of porridge for you, and you eat it yourself when you are hungry, and no one will feed you if you don't eat it. But only by letting go in this way and not loving the child too much can the child be self-reliant, have self-awareness, and have a sense of ownership, and can we liberate the hands of adults.
Don't look at Qiqi no one loves, but netizens praise Tian Jing for teaching well and is a good mother. Children are never appendages of others, and their lives should not be handled by adults, do you agree with Tian Jing's education method?