Self-reliance applies to anyone, being their own master, and living with dignity in order not to waste this life. Continue watching "The Little Window" today.
Original text: Fly attached to Ji, Jie Ze Jie, difficult to get rid of the shame of the back; Zi Luo Yi Song, the high one is high, it is inevitable to look up to the shame. Therefore, Junzi would rather threaten himself with wind and frost than be a relative of fish and birds.
Translation: The fly clings to the horse's tail, and although it is fast, it cannot get rid of the shame stuck to the horse's ass. The rose grows around the pine tree, although it can climb very high, but it is also inevitable to climb the shame of dependence, the gentleman would rather take the wind and frost to encourage himself, rather than like the fish in the tank, the caged bird like the kiss to the person.
This period looks very inspirational, we can borrow power in the process of growing up but can not let ourselves rely too much, and even become a vassal of others, can not lose themselves, become the pet of others, that is indeed very labor-saving, but you have to live as others want to live, to live according to the requirements of others, others shape you into a circle flat, but others interested in it, your joys and sorrows are never considered by others, and gradually you have no soul, so do you have a happy life?
Regardless of men and women, if you can't be your own master, relying on the sniffles of others to live, it will be a very sad thing, for example; full-time wife, regardless of domestic and foreign housewives, as long as there is no economic strength, completely rely on the husband to support the family, plain will be a lot less confidence, if you are allowing yourself to be disconnected from society, then you are not far from the tragedy, just like Luo Zijun played by Ma Yili in "The First Half of My Life", although she works very hard to take care of her family, she also maintains herself very fashionable and beautiful, Speaking of being a full-time wife, it is very successful inside, doing a good job of the husband's xiannei help, but also can take it out, will not let the husband feel that it is a yellow-faced woman who can't get his hands on it, but she still lost to time, because the circle she is in contact with has a gap with her husband, they have no common language other than family chores, in fact, she is not defeated to Ling Ling, but to herself, she spends her husband's money and feels justified, because when she married her, he asked her not to work, he raised her, and then she believed, and she lived to become Chen Junsheng's wife. And not Luo Zijun, so she failed. Her husband was snatched away by an ordinary woman who didn't look as good as her. Why she would become dazzling later, would make He Han can't help himself, that is, she lived as Luo Zijun again. From this TV series, we can see that only living as yourself is the most attractive and dazzling existence, because of self-confidence, tenacity, deep into the bone marrow, the beauty emitted has nothing to do with age, even if you are gorgeous with gold and jade when attached to others, and you are held in the palm of your hand, but there is a prerequisite that will kill you, that is, others are 'willing', everything about you is between the thoughts of others, just like the villain characters often say, 'I can give you everything, I can take back everything, how high you are, how high you are, It can fall you how miserable, can achieve you, and can easily destroy you. Obviously these are not meant to threaten people, but facts.
We have been emphasizing self-reliance for thousands of years, but we all know that it is very hard, some people just don't want to work so hard, otherwise there would be no 'would rather sit in a BMW car and cry, rather than sit in the back seat of the bicycle and laugh', some people regard pleasure as more important than themselves, anyway, people can have a lot of faces, as long as they are willing to let others see that side is bright and beautiful, as for other faces that others can't see, don't care too much, it doesn't matter if you want it or not.
Despite this, there are still many people who are willing to rely on themselves for everything, and feel that such a life is solid, and they have nothing else to ask for but peace of mind.