If you reunite with an old classmate you haven't seen for many years, and when you reminisce about the past, she suddenly mentions to you the goddess who rejected you and tells you that she married a rich boss and lived a rich life, how do you feel in your heart? Speechless, embarrassed, and even a little complaining: what is the purpose of revealing people's old scars well...
Which pot does not open which pot, in reality, there are still many people who lack heart and eyes, in Yan Geling's novel "Fanghua", Hao Shuwen is even one. After Liu Feng "touched" Lin Dingding, he was sent to the logging company and began the second half of his poor life, while the other female soldiers of the literary troupe also experienced various twists and turns in marriage and career, Lin Dingding married and divorced, Xiao Suizi became a writer, and Hao Shuwen followed her husband to the south, made a fortune with her husband's entrepreneurship, and became a rich wife.
Many years later, Hao Shuwen met Liu Feng again on the street, the two reminisced in the restaurant, after talking about some of their recent situation, Hao Shuwen suddenly mentioned Lin Dingding to Liu Feng, Hao Shuwen told Liu Feng that Lin Dingding had been married for the second time, and married to Australia, bought a new Honda car, and showed him the photo of Lin Dingding and The Honda car. You know, Liu Feng was really very miserable after leaving the cultural and labor troupe, and even the tricycle that he was making a living was detained by the city management and had no money to redeem. Therefore, Liu Feng's embarrassment at that time could be imagined.
Hao Shuwen did not have much ink in "Fanghua", but what impressed me was not only the scene of exposing Liu Feng's scars, but also that she personally admitted her betrayal to Xiao Suizi, hao Shuwen not only slept with Xiao Suizi's boyfriend, but also encouraged him to hand over the love letter written by Xiao Suizi to the leader. Because of this report, Xiao Suizi could not lift her head in the literary troupe for a long time.
Such a selfish, hypocritical, and emotional intelligence is not high, should be very annoying, but it is very surprising that both Xiao Suizi and Lin Dingding like to interact with Hao Shuwen and are willing to talk to her about their recent situation, such as how Lin Dingding's life abroad is, when to divorce, Hao Shuwen is the first to know. Also, the small party organized by Hao Shuwen, Xiao Suizi and Lin Dingding are very face-saving. Although Hao Shuwen has done things that harm others and harm herself, why is she still worthy of everyone's interaction? We often say that flaws are not hidden, if you know these shining points of Hao Shuwen's personality, you will find that she is not only unsavory, but even somewhat cute.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="11" > strong inner character</h1>
Hao Shuwen's family situation is very good, her father is the head of the air force, so girls from such families are generally independent and have a strong heart. Hao Shuwen is no exception, she is plump and tall, hot and straightforward, dares to fight with male soldiers, and also protects her friends, especially for the weak Lin Dingding has a strong desire to protect.
Once, because Lin Dingding accidentally kicked out the toilet paper with menstrual blood when kicking his legs, he felt ashamed and embarrassed, hid in the toilet and cried incessantly, and the male soldiers in the regiment could not help but inquire and discuss, and were reprimanded by Hao Shuwen: "What is the matter of the female doll's family, what do you ask!" "For girls, the big aunt itself is a very private thing, usually buy a tampon to wrap it in a dark bag, not to mention naked in front of everyone, no wonder Lin Ding Ding is so ashamed that he only wants to cry, to change to me, can't help but want to find a seam to drill into."
But Hao Shuwen's attitude was very generous, she said, "What's the shame? Whoever thinks dirty is disgraced! This sentence really made me admire her, and her attitude towards women's physiology and men and women in that era was really very avant-garde, even more open-minded than some people now.
Hao Shuwen, who has a hot personality, also has a powerful aura that will not be bullied. Once Hao Shuwen sat in the viola player's piano box, the viola player asked her to let go, she did not listen, people hurriedly spat out a very ugly sentence, The box contains Lao Tzu's piano, Xiao Hao you don't eat to make the numb. Hao Shuwen was not angry or annoyed, learning his Sichuan dialect, "Lao Tzu will numb you." "The male soldiers have no way to do anything about Hao Shuwen, and if they don't give her sweetness, she will rob her."
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="45" > to try to make up for the mistake</h1>
In the literary troupe, Liu Feng is different, he is helpful, even the cotton to find needles will help, so Hao Shuwen never rolled her eyes at Liu Feng. After Liu Feng "touched" Lin Dingding, Lin Dingding cried to Hao Shuwen and Xiao Suizi that Hao Shuwen was uneven for Liu Feng, and she felt that Liu Feng was completely worthy of Lin Dingding, so why touch it so sensitive and exaggerated.
Hao Shuwen also warned Lin Dingding that no matter whether Lin Dingding accepted Liu Feng's confession or not, he could not betray Liu Feng. Here is a detail very interesting, Hao Shuwen mentioned when advising Lin Dingding that she had betrayed others and knew how miserable the people who were betrayed were, she did not say who it was, but from the later text, the person Hao Shuwen betrayed was actually Xiao Suizi. At this time, Hao Shuwen was already regretting and feeling guilty about the mistakes she had made. Many years later, Hao Shuwen couldn't help but confide the truth to Xiao Suizi through the strength of wine, but time had passed, and the parties had long been relieved, and she could really let go.
"You don't love him, it's your right, he loves you, it's his right. But you have no right to betray him. This is the end of this matter in our house, did you hear that? I have betrayed others and later seen how miserable it is for those who have been betrayed. ”
Hao Shuwen has always been a person who actively inquires and looks for Liu Feng, when Liu Feng was in trouble in Hainan, Hao Shuwen did not hesitate to borrow 10,000 yuan to help Liu Feng, and she even thought of finding a stable position for Liu Feng in her husband's company. After Liu Feng fell ill, he hid from everyone, and hao Shuwen inquired about Liu Feng's residence and asked Xiao Suizi to visit him.
To Liu Feng, Hao Shuwen was full of guilt, she felt that she had scolded Liu Feng and betrayed him, and she even said to Xiao Suizi, "Do you know what I wanted to say at that time? I want to say, Liu Feng, you are really stupid, touched the wrong person, if you touch me at that time, make sure that I will not call for help. This passage made me very touched, I think, if Liu Feng liked not Lin Dingding, but Hao Shuwen, even if he could not confess his success, Liu Feng would never end up with such consequences.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="47" > emotionally single-minded but can afford to put it down</h1>
In the original work, compared with Lin Dingding's rich love history, Hao Shuwen's emotional experience is more from the beginning to the end, and her final destination is the second-rate son of the army she met during the literary and labor troupe. After getting married, the second-rate military man took off his military uniform and went to Shenzhen to do business, and he grew up in a year.
After the second-rate military became a businessman, Hao Shuwen's life began to become less good, he was very careful when he was young, and after he had money, he was even more bullying, often spending days and drinking, not going home for many years, Hao Shuwen often guarded the empty mansion to eat instant noodles.
After many times of separation and merger, Hao Shuwen finally divorced him. In fact, looking at Hao Shuwen's emotional experience, I still have some heartache for this girl, she has a relationship from one end to the end, not hesitating to get pregnant before marriage, but this relationship is still in the end.
After experiencing a scarred marriage, Hao Shuwen did not collapse because of this, but calmly faced it, and Fought hard to fight for it, won two houses, and lived the rest of her life. This is worth learning from many girls, and the feelings they choose, even if there is no result, do not cry and cry, do not talk about regrets, but cherish themselves more.
In "Fanghua", Hao Shuwen is not the female number one, not even the female number two, but her life is also worth a taste. She is like every real us living in this world, who will make mistakes, will reflect, and more importantly, will make up for it with guilt.