"The beginning of a relationship requires five hundred meals and five hundred drinks, five hundred days and nights of pushing the heart, but it only takes a moment to separate."
We smiled and said hello, but the relationship that began with self-introduction was finally doomed to fall apart.
Later, we never appeared in each other's circle of friends again, everything changed, but everything changed again. ”
There is a hot topic about #Because of what blacked out like people #.
Many netizens commented: "I want to let you go, but also let go of myself." ”
"There are too many disappointments, there is no way not to give up, and it is too tiring to live."
All the comments are actually a summary of self-rescue after disappointment.
Because I know that there is no hope, I choose to pull black, and I am not bothered by the eyes.
Because of knowing that there is no hope, expectations turn into despair in the end.
Only then did I know that it was really time to leave.
In WeChat, there is a kind of love called: "I am seconds to you, you are reincarnation to me." ”
The person who has made you quickly return time and again must be someone you love very much, right?
But when all the enthusiasm of the second return is poured out by the ice water of "reincarnation", you find that he does not love you.
No matter how hard you work, how persistent you are.
In exchange, it is still a disappointment after a lot of joy.
Disappointed a lot, finally understood:
Pulling black is the best explanation I can give myself.
The gaze that had once so fervently wanted his attention.
In the end, it is preferable to be left with "not disturbing".
A relationship that cannot be obtained, instead of endlessly holding on.
It is better to concede defeat generously and choose to quit.
We all had a person who chatted with ourselves all night, and at that time we were reluctant to say goodnight, and we wanted to talk back and forth until dawn.
We thought the man would be able to talk to him for the rest of his life, but we didn't expect him to leave the scene early after only a while, and then we were left waiting in the dark of the night with our shiny mobile phones, but we never waited for a message from him.
There is a saying that you always have to accept the sudden loss in this world, such as: spilled milk, lost wallet, broken friendship, separated lover.
I kept telling myself that you came to pick you up in my storm, and if you were leaving, I would treat you as if you hadn't been there. However, I am still easily trapped in the emotion of losing you, and I can't extricate myself.
I have also blacked out a person, and I look dashing and calm, but in the dark of night, I keep opening the blacklist to see what he has recently posted.
He laughs and I'll be sad because I find that he can live well without me; he cries, and I'll be sad too, because if I'm so sad, why can't I continue to be together.
I have wondered more than once whether he has lamented the ending between us, whether he has ever said a lot to me in a flash, but I have not received it.
That's when I realized that in the days after I separated, I never forgot.
But what else can be done, the hand that has been loosened can no longer be clenched.
Sometimes think about it, love is really unfair, the beginning of a relationship requires the consent of two people, but separating this matter, one person is enough.
Some people say that when you love someone, everything you and he is is experienced.
When separated, those experiences become memories.
Throwing away the memories will hurt, it will be sad, it will not give up, but it will not do much to keep it, it will only respond to itself.
When the feelings come to the point of nostalgia, the people on the blacklist do not have to add friends back, and those who have deleted once do not have to add a second time.
It's so hard to give up on someone you like, especially when you think of the time you've been together in the past, and you're even more sorry for the separation you are having now. How beautiful it was once, how much it will be missed now.
But sometimes think about it, in fact, blackout is also very good, because I can finally no longer send only his visible circle of friends, do not have to struggle with whether to take the initiative to contact him, do not feel sorry that he did not return to me in seconds;
Don't be sad because of his perfunctory, don't have to rack your brains to think about many topics, and don't have to spy on his circle of friends like reading comprehension.
Maybe I will think of you in the future, but I won't mention it again, you know, it doesn't matter if you don't know, anyway, the love I mention in my mouth is less than one percent of my heart.
Finally, I would like to thank us for those good night days.
After all, the people who are now lying on the blacklist are also the people they once loved the most.