Only she dared to do this to Party A's father.
Sheep brushed onto a video by Kate Winslet about how to reject looks and body anxiety.
Delicate makeup is removed.
The theme of this short film is called "I deserve it" and it is said to be an advertisement.
"For all women, it's worth it to believe in yourself without makeup."
"I deserve it, out of my right to be myself and fight for myself!"
These words came from her mouth, a hundred believed.
Because, from the time she made "Titanic", she clearly stated that her weight was her own decision. At that time, some media said that if she lost five pounds, Jack could go on deck.
Over the years, fans have called her "fat and warm", also because she treats her weight very casually.
Last year's hit drama "East Side Nightmare" was launched, in which she played a middle-aged woman, without makeup the whole time, and all the traces of the years were not deliberately hidden.
The retoucher tried to fix her wrinkles on the poster, and she asked the other person to put it back.
"I know how many lines I have right now, please put them all back."
Another thing is that the director wanted to take off her little belly when he was doing post-production, and Kate directly said no.
Finally her little belly remained. But who care? Because of her acting skills her authenticity has earned everything.
She only delicately grooms herself when she is present at an event or when the character has requirements.
Over the years, many media outlets have ridiculed her weight and talked about her aging.
But she could see it all very clearly:
"A woman who can love herself wholeheartedly, without vanity, unconditionally, is beautiful."
"My definition of beauty is very traditional, a woman who does not wear heavy makeup, a woman who can enjoy the most natural state calmly and comfortably, is the most beautiful, is charming." 」
Perhaps, there is only one kind of person in this world who can not be defeated, and that is a person who is full of self-affirmation.
How insecurity affects your appearance
Everyone knows that lack of self-confidence is more manifested in psychological denial of self.
And those inner illnesses that accumulate can also affect our body language.
There is a term in psychology called the "turtle effect", which generally occurs when people feel inferior.
Whenever this happens, people will achieve the purpose of hiding themselves by limiting the exposure of their heads.
For example, put up the collar, shrug your shoulders, and lower your head.
When you are busy hiding yourself, the whole person's body language is impossible to stretch.
Patricia, a million-fan blogger on Tiktok, has personally demonstrated body language in both confident and unconfident states.
For example, walking when you are not confident is like an ostrich, appearing urgent and messy, as if you dare not exhale in one breath.
On the other hand, as long as the mind turns and the limbs open, the whole person becomes charming.
And, when you feel unsafe about the whole situation, you cover it up with a lot of small actions.
The right thing to do is to glance at the whole field naturally with your eyes, then determine the coordinates and walk generously.
Many people don't know how to place their hands when they talk to people.
In this way, the whole person seems very passive, and it will also make people mistakenly think that you are rejecting social interaction.
In fact, you can try to put your hands in your pockets and relax your shoulders, which is also a buffer for the mind.
I found that even the good-looking blogger Patricia, when making unconfident body language, the charm value of the whole person will be greatly reduced.
When a person is not confident, it is difficult to enjoy the current state.
Because when all the energy is used to fight against one's own inadequacies, it is more difficult to expand outward.
Excellent appearance in such a situation does not have any blessing effect, but will not be able to withstand the gaze as the focus, showing a feeling of "I am not worthy".
Bella, who debuted at that time, is like this, as Gigi's sister, she does not lack topicality, but because of her figure and the crotch of the step, she has been complained about.
In her early years, her steps gave the impression that she was doing "hard work", so much so that falling was said to be a difficult escape.
The same face, the different moods, the whole change is very different.
Lack of confidence will also affect our appearance.
Kei Yoshida, a Japanese plastic surgeon, said that the muscles of the face are connected to the muscles on the back of the head, neck and back.
If you hunch your back frequently, the muscles of the face will also relax, and it will also cause the metabolism to drop, accumulate fat, and grow a double chin.
Because of excessive concern for their own defects, it leads to the development of physical and mental indecency. For example, some people laugh unnaturally because their teeth are not good-looking, because they are tall and afraid of not fitting in, so they bend over and hunch over, because their legs are thick, and they desperately wear loose and shapeless pants to cover up.
Instead, he picked up sesame seeds and lost watermelon.
The aesthetic system under self-confidence is pleasing to oneself
When people do not approve of themselves, they will make judgments based on the values provided by the public.
The aesthetic system that we have at this stage is actually difficult to truly please ourselves.
Aesthetics is the sum of a person's experiences and a very egotistical thing.
In a patriarchal society, a set of aesthetic standards created for women itself has a strong "ornamentality", that is, limitations. When implemented on specific people, it is sometimes a kind of shackle.
Conforming to the crowd means cutting off more communication and recognition with oneself.
At this time, the aesthetic system is difficult to be sound, including random plastic surgery, wearing inappropriate clothes, always unconsciously scoring yourself and others, like to compare...
Those places that we think are very concerned about are actually because we are too harsh on ourselves.
Nowadays, under the influence of big data, data will only present more beautiful faces, beautiful things, but this is not the whole truth.
Historically, most of the people who lead the aesthetic trend are precisely those who dare to break the "perfect".
They are the ones standing in the gap.
People who like them think they are muses, headwinders who break stereotypes.
For example, Dai Wen Aoki, who opened the supermodel industry in the 90s like an inspiration.
At that time, the overall aesthetic camp was still very single, one was the big beauty with a full female beauty, and the other was the opposite slender beauty, such as Kate Moss.
And The overall charm of Dai Wen Aoki is more difficult to figure out, she is young but at the same time sharp and charming.
People who didn't like her said she was a "Down syndrome sufferer", the opener of the scandal channel.
For example, The Legendary Hong Kong figure of the 80s and 90s, Mui Yanfang, before her female singers, had strong female characteristics, but she broke out of a new track with a rebellious and neutral temperament.
But these headwinds have become the most difficult kings of the times to be ignored.
As we all know, congregation is a sense of stability and a lot less resistance.
But it is precisely because of this that there are so many "depressions" in this world.
After all, whether you are a person or dressed, you can only have a style if you approve from the bottom of your heart.
If we cannot truly recognize it, then we are at best the object of "materialization" by man.
Those who are confident are immortal because they never try to satisfy everyone's aesthetic.
And self-confidence can break through all the darkness, so that you always firmly embrace yourself when you feel shaky.