Fear of love is fear of life.
Some people say: To fear love is to fear life.
If there are some nouns that humans are destined to be unable to define precisely, I would like to include love among them. Love is difficult to define, and it is probably easier for us to accept that love is an ability because love is always in our lives.
The ability to love is the ability to give. True love is not about what you want, but what you want to give. Love is an giving, not a simple acceptance.
Some people say that life should give four: to give people joy, to give people hope, to give people convenience, to give people confidence.
The old saying also says: Fu bu Tang donation. Giving is a way of pleasing others while also fulfilling one's own abilities. If Dacheng is lacking, its use is not harmful; if it is a big surplus, its use is not endless. This kind of paying seems to be a kind of loss, but I don't know that this kind of pleasure and perfection is stronger than the strong, and four or two thousand pounds.
As the saying goes, a loss is a blessing, and what is said is true. People's efforts are not the same as racing, love has been painfully experienced, and there is no win or loss. Compared to not having loved at all, or not having the courage to love, which is to lose and which is to win?
In the final analysis, a person's life is an experience, and the most important thing about this experience is to experience the process of love.
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People in life come and go, and it is commonplace. But if we don't pay attention to making friends, then the people in our lives will only go and go, not come and go, and end up alone. A person's decision to make friends with others will not be largely due to the "label" excellence of others, but more likely because each other can enter each other's hearts, which may be the reason behind those who either cross classes or cross age.
The only real word in the world is rare. If there is a secret to entering the human heart, it is sincerity. The person who is sincere with you may not leave a place for you in the gift list, or may not leave you a seat at the dinner, but will definitely leave a place for you in their hearts. After all, false deception cannot last long, and emptiness cannot last long. All things can be deceived, but the years are really fair.
Without others, it is difficult for a person to be himself freely, so a good relationship must contain concessions and compromises and mutual accommodation. People must not be too calculating about winning or losing, it must be known that life in the world is like a long river into the sea, and what determines victory or defeat is never the gain and loss of one pass and one pass and the loss of one time and one place, but the hongpei gathered by hundreds of rivers.
As the saying goes: give way for life, do not waste a hundred steps; lifelong give way, do not lose a paragraph. The way of the saints is not to argue; to know its advance, to keep its retreat, is the style of the world. Understanding the advance and retreat is a person's great love for himself, and this love can have nothing to do with others, but it is closely related.
People are often unsatisfactory, but they can be the same as people. In life, setbacks are mostly skills, and smoothness is mostly blessings.
Relying on the sky to illuminate the sea flowers innumerable, the mountain flowing water heart knows itself. Face yourself, be willing to be an ordinary person, enjoy ordinary happiness and happiness.
At any stage of life, we should insist that morality should be matched and wisdom should be matched. You can't give up everything, and if everything really belongs to you, it's precisely when you have to give it up.
The dragon has remorse, and it is even more necessary to know the retreat, which is the heavenly way and is more humane. In this era, we should be more content to be an ordinary person and understand the preciousness of the ordinary.
"Now" is never part of time, but the whole thing. Cherish the present, connect with the people you love, because no one will always belong to another person, and when you still have it, be content and cherish it with all your might.
Someone once said: time flies, life is short, don't waste time arguing, apologizing, sadness and blame.
Use time to love, even if it is only for a moment, do not live up to it.
Source: Xinhua News Agency
Editor: Yang Shufang
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