In 2006, walking out of the door of the Civil Affairs Bureau, Li Jia held a divorce certificate in her hand, looking at the sunshine outside, she felt a dizziness.
At this time, she remembered her career that had stagnated for nearly three years for the sake of marriage, remembered the feelings that she had given everything but no one recognized, and thought of her husband who used to love, and suddenly felt confused about the road ahead.
If someone told her at this time that she would marry a handsome and golden star in the future, she would definitely feel that the person was playing with herself.
But it is.
If Li Jia is mentioned alone, many people may feel strange, but she now has a very famous husband, that is, Jin Dong.
After the failure of the first marriage, she married Jin Dong in the second marriage, not only harvested emotional happiness, but also had two smart and clever children.
The gift of fate is sometimes so unthinkable.
Li Jia was born in Yunnan Province in 1977.
From an early age, she showed a strong artistic talent, she had a quiet personality, but she was very active when her father listened to Peking Opera, often imitating in front of the TV.
Seeing that his daughter was so talented, his father sent Li Jia to school to systematically study art.
Therefore, at the age of eleven, Li Jia became a North Drifter and studied at the Attached Middle School of the China Academy of Drama. At the Drama Academy, Li Jia studied Peking Opera Dao Ma Dan.
This period of learning not only allowed her to cultivate a good body and unique temperament, but also laid a solid foundation for her to become a powerful faction in the future.
In 1996, after graduating from high school, Li Jia was admitted to the Beijing Film Academy.
If Li Jia in high school was a flower with buds waiting to be released, then after studying in film school, she slowly bloomed her own brilliance.
As a member of Nortel's class of 96, Li Jia's classmates can be described as famous. There are not only Huang Xiaoming, He Lin and others, but also Chen Kun and Zhao Wei.
Among them, Zhao Wei was favored by Qiong Yao in her sophomore year, starring in "Huan Zhu GeGe", which was popular all over the country.
Chen Kun also became a well-known actor in his junior year.
Although Li Jia also starred in the TV series "Wind and Cloud Code" and "Homeland" in 1998 and 1999, she did not get much response.
The students around him have achieved success one after another, but Li Jia is not impatient.
She has a very weak view of fame and fortune, and she is more eager to improve herself in school than to pull up seedlings when she is immature.
In 2000, Li Jia, who graduated from film school, officially stepped into the show business circle.
With her high talent for interpretation and years of unremitting efforts, she quickly won the favor of director Huo Jianqi and starred in the movie "Blue Love" starring Pan Yueming and Yuan Quan.
Although the role is not a very main character, Li Jia still seriously portrays his own character, even if he plays with Pan Yueming, Yuan Quan and others at that time.
Li Jia's performance was praised by director Huo Jianqi, and two years later, he invited Li Jia as the heroine of his film.
The film is called "Warm" and is adapted from Mo Yan's novel, while the male protagonist is played by Li Jia's classmate Guo Xiaodong.
Li Jia starred in the movie as a beautiful and simple girl, and Guo Xiaodong performed a hazy and green emotional story.
Her performance in the film was widely acclaimed, not only receiving a nomination for best actress at the Beijing University Student Film Festival, but also winning the Tokyo Film Festival and the Golden Rooster Award, becoming the first international film queen in the class of 96.
Some people even described her as the "last acting actor to emerge" in the 96 star class.
After this, Li Jia also starred in more and more movies and TV series, although because many of the films she starred in were literary films, there was no fire in popularity. But in the industry, she is also a recognized powerhouse.
However, in the face of her rising career, Li Jia chose to enter the palace of marriage at this time.
In 2003, 26-year-old Li Jia married wealthy businessman Guo Shaohui.
Guo Shaohui and Li Jia are both from Yunnan, and when they first met, the two actually looked at each other unfavorably. But after in-depth contact, Li Jia and Guo Shaohui were both attracted by the shining points on each other.
As a husband, Guo Shaohui is undoubtedly a very sweet person.
Li Jia even affectionately called her husband "Grasshopper", and Guo Shaohui always touted and praised his wife in various ways, and was a full horse ass spirit.
In the early days of marriage, the sweetness of getting along between the two is far greater than the discomfort. Moreover, Guo Shaohui's financial resources are abundant, and there is no burden on the life of the husband and wife.
For this marriage, Li Jia even chose to gradually fade out of her acting career, focusing more on the family, and she even changed her name to Li Zhuke for her husband.
But over time, the discord between the two people's identities, experiences and personalities has become increasingly prominent.
Guo Shaohui is a very traditional man, he is very macho, he has to control his wife everywhere. After getting married, Li Jia even had little contact with her classmates.
This is the case in daily life, and filming is carried out under the supervision of her husband.
Once, Li Jia got her favorite script, but this play needed to be kissed with the male lead actor, so she was strongly protested by her husband.
At this time, Li Jia realized that for Guo Shaohui.
The actor industry is always inferior, he is like an old-fashioned, thinking that it is a very bad thing for women to go out to act and show their faces outside.
In the face of her husband's incomprehension, Li Jia's marriage is also difficult to maintain.
Although she is willing to fade out of the show business for the sake of her family, acting is her hobby, as her closest person, if her husband can't even understand this, then the future life and difficulties will only be more than today.
In 2006, Li Jia and her husband divorced.
The three-year marriage brought her more pain and the good time of being delayed for three years.
After the divorce, Li Jia returned to her acting career and starred in the TV series "Far Mountain" and "Meet After the Rain" in 2007.
And starred in the movie "Park", with her outstanding performance in the film, Li Jia once again won a series of awards, was nominated for the best actress at the University Student Film Festival, and won the film awards in Japan, Germany and Turkey.
In addition, she is actively involved in various social welfare undertakings, serving as a volunteer of the Red Cross and calling attention to deaf children.
In 2008, Li Jia even became the torchbearer of the Beijing Olympic Games, passing the Olympic torch in Xinjiang.
After the divorce, Li Jia seems to be in a better and better state, and people think that she has come out of the shadow of divorce.
But when she dreamed back in the middle of the night, Li Jia would still feel lonely and sad, and her failed marriage had left her with incurable scars.
In 2009, the man who cured her showed up.
In Yunnan, Li Jia attended a grand business event attended by many people from the same industry, including an actor named Jin Dong.
At this time, Li Jia did not notice this actor, but Jin Dong was already attracted to her.
Li Jia attended in full costume and had a unique temperament, because she sang Peking Opera since she was a child, and her eyes were very bright. Such a unique and beautiful Li Jia made Jin Dong almost fall in love at first sight.
Unexpectedly, fate came very suddenly.
Soon after, the two men met again in a Kunming bar.
Jin Dong took the initiative to introduce himself to Li Jia, and Li Jia also admired this polite and measured man.
But the pain of the past made her refuse to give up her heart easily.
Compared with Li Jia, who became famous at a young age, Jin Dong's acting career was not very smooth.
He left school very early, entered the society, and did a lot of work in the society, and suffered a lot. When he was a singer in a bar, Jin Dong liked the stage.
However, he had a difficult life and was not born in the class, and he had no way to realize his dreams.
It was at this time that his small hair brought him an opportunity. At that time, 17-year-old Jin Dong met Fa Xiao in a bar, and when Fa Xiao saw him, he felt that Jin Dong's appearance was very outstanding, and Fa Xiao, who was working in Beijing, made a clever move and proposed to let Jin Dong go to Beijing to act.
Jin Dong hesitated for half a second, but he could not control his desire for the stage, and still decided to follow Fa Xiao to the north drift.
And the starting point of his acting career is to run the dragon set.
Jin Dong ran the dragon suit for more than half a year, and finally played a more important role in the TV series directed by Wang Xinmin.
After that, he continued to explore and learn, and continued to improve, and at the age of 22, he played his first male protagonist.
It was also at this time that Jin Dong decided to be admitted to the Central Academy of Drama for systematic study and promotion.
Like Li Jia, Jin Dong attaches great importance to improving himself, and in school, he is the hardest student, and his classmates and teachers admire him very much.
After graduation, Jin Dong also ushered in more opportunities.
In 2006, Jin Dong starred in "Sad Mother and Child", and actress Jiang Shan played the mother and son in the play.
But outside the play, the two sparked love. At this time, Jiang Shan was a well-known actor, and although Jin Dong had acted in many plays, he was not famous.
Therefore, this relationship is not optimistic about outsiders, and Jin Dong is even criticized by the media as a man who eats soft rice.
Compared with the doubts of the outside world, Jin Dong insisted on his own heart, and his relationship with Jiang Shan became stronger and stronger, and he was even about to marry.
But Jiang Shan, who is many years older than Jin Dong, had a marriage before and even had a daughter with her husband.
In the face of Jiang Shan's new boyfriend Jin Dong, Jiang Shan's daughter could not accept her mother's new love and expressed strong resistance.
For the sake of her daughter, Jiang Shan could only break up with Jin Dong.
When he met Li Jia, Jin Dong was also a person who was hurt by love, and the two injured people met and met, but it was still a very difficult thing to really be together.
In 2010, Li Jia and Jin Dong co-starred in the TV series "Youth Does Not Say Defeat".
In the cooperation, the two people feel very comfortable, and the other person seems to have countless fits with themselves, as if they are the other half of the destiny.
Jin Dong often pays attention to Li Jia's every move, and he also finds that Li Jia will often be sullen and unhappy, and when he finishes work at night, he will go to a nearby tavern to sit.
One day, he also paid attention to Li Jia as usual, and found that the other party went to the tavern to dispel his worries, and he was very worried. So he also went to the tavern and drank with Li Jia.
Under the influence of alcohol, the two open their hearts, Li Jia confides in his past, and Jin Dong also cuts open his own scars.
Two injured people lick each other's wounds in each other's hearts, and they also become extremely important people in each other's hearts.
After that, Jin Dong became more and more concerned about Li Jia. After Li Jia fell off a horse and was injured because of filming, he sent chicken soup every day and cared for it every day.
He even performed a concert for Li Jia alone, taking out her instruments and musical accumulation over the years to sweep away her unhappiness for Li Jia.
Under the care and pursuit of Jin Dong, Li Jia finally released her former injuries and chose to enter love and marriage again.
At first, this marriage was opposed by Jin Dong's family, perhaps under the influence of Jiang Shan, who feared that Li Jia had also been married, and what if she was separated from Jin Dong for various reasons in the future.
However, Jin Dong himself bore the doubts and objections from his family, and he solemnly promised Li Jia and gave Li Jia a stable blessing.
After seeking the consent of their families, the two married in a low-key manner.
At that time, both of them were still working hard in the show business circle, and Jin Dong did not have the fame he has now, the two of them were married in a low-key manner, there was no grand wedding, and there was no luxurious honeymoon.
But there are two true hearts that cherish each other.
After marriage, Jin Dong still cares about Li Jia, he understands all of Li Jia's choices, and also respects all of Li Jia's efforts.
Li Jia was touched, and even Jin Dong would arrange various small surprises and small sweets in his daily life, and pet Li Jia into a little princess.
After getting married, Li Jia chose to focus on the family and be the woman behind her husband. Although I occasionally shoot scenes, I take care of my family and my family more often.
In 2012, Li Jia starred in the film "The Shadow That Surfaced", and won ten awards at international film festivals.
With such an achievement, Li Jia did not hype it, and she paid more attention to her husband.
In 2014, at the age of 34, Li Jia gave birth to his first son, Jin Dong, whose nickname was Jin Xiaoye.
After the birth of her son, Li Jia also chose to focus on the family, appearing less and less in front of the public.
In 2015, Jin Dong, who had been silent for a long time, finally shined with the TV series "The Pretender" and was welcomed by the audience.
After that, his TV series such as "Ode to Joy", "The First Half of My Life", and "Langya List" also became popular TV series of the year.
Jin Dong has also attracted many fans with his tough strength, handsome face and mature temperament.
After becoming popular, Jin Dong did not forget his original intention and still loved his wife Li Jia as always.
Jin Dong even publicly thanked his wife for her efforts in many interviews and programs, and he was also very sad about her suffering over the years.
In 2017, Li Jia still gave birth to a son at the age of forty, named Second Master Jin.
Jin Dong even customized the initials of a family of four for his luxury car to show his importance to his family.
Today, Li Jia occasionally shows her life, and she is still in a very happy state.
For her, she has suffered from feelings and has fallen over in marriage. But in the face of happiness, he is still willing to give up his sincerity and give his whole.
Jin Dong to Li Jia is the salvation of happiness; Li Jia is not a safe place for Jin Dong.
Marriage requires the common efforts of two people, the mutual respect and understanding of husband and wife, and it is an eternal science.