01. Cai Shaofen & Zhang Jin
If you want to talk about several model couples in the entertainment industry, then the pair of Zhang Jin and Cai Shaofen must be listed. Whether it is the sweet interaction on the show or the support of two people in life, it is a performance that should be there as a husband and wife. But everyone may not think that Zhang Jin, who is famous for "martial arts", was actually put on the wedding agenda under the "coercion" of "Niangniang" at the beginning.
In a variety show, Zhang Jin, a "suit thug", once revealed to the audience the experience of being "forced to marry" by "Niangniang" Cai Shaofen. When they were in love for four or five years, Cai Shaofen took the initiative to put forward the idea of entering marriage to Zhang Jin, and Zhang Jin at that time was actually a little hesitant.
So, what is the reason why Zhang Jin hesitated?
At that time, Zhang Jin did not have such a big reputation as he is now, so at that time, he was preoccupied with his career, and he was not so urgent about getting married. However, Cai Shaofen has always been fierce and speaks happily. She told Zhang Jin that she didn't want to waste any more time and that she was getting old. Get married or break up.
As soon as these words came out, Zhang Jinli panicked. He and Cai Shaofen have been in love for five years, although he does not want to rush to get married and wants to make a career first, but after all, they are really in love with each other, and he does not want to miss it. Therefore, under Cai Shaofen's "forced marriage", Zhang Jin finally put marriage on the agenda.
Speaking of Zhang Jin's marriage proposal experience, Cai Shaofen smiled and closed her mouth, but she could also glimpse the touch and happiness from it. After that, Zhang Jin was preparing for the marriage proposal, and as a result, he originally wanted to let his friend help him, but he did not expect that the friend's family accidentally leaked to Cai Shaofen, so the first battle ended in failure. Later, Zhang Jin placed a heart-shaped candle at home, bringing Cai Shaofen a surprise and romantic marriage proposal.
This couple of "strong women and weak men" was initially not favored by everyone. But they use practical actions to tell everyone that in the face of true love, "age" is not a problem, and who is strong and who is weak is not a problem. Today, they are not only still as sweet as their first love, but also have three cute children, the family is happy and happy, who can say "forced marriage", can not get happiness.
02. Zhang Liangying & Feng Ke
When it comes to the scene of "forced marriage" of large female stars, people will always think of Zhang Liangying and admire her original bravery and domineering, but their final ending is lamentable.
In 2005, "SuperGirl" was super popular, and Zhang Liangying, the former resident singer of the bar, also seized the opportunity, and with her own strength to sing, she debuted in a high position, becoming a hot popular singer and the "dolphin princess" in everyone's mind. Later, after years of hard work, she became a remarkable "queen of songs".
However, none of this can change her regrettable relationship.
Once upon a time, Zhang Liangying had a deep affection for Feng Ke, and at her own concert scene, in front of tens of thousands of people, she "forced marriage" on Feng Ke: I stood here and waited, I think I think clearly now, I think well, I don't want to be alone, if you think about it now, please come up.
However, after waiting for a long time, I did not see Feng Ke's figure, perhaps in order not to let Zhang Liangying lose her dignity. After waiting for a while, he reluctantly walked onto the stage. At the time when everyone thought that Feng Ke asked for marriage, Feng Ke's words were not painful or itchy, and he was extremely down: Thank you, this is really quite sudden, because this thing should be done by me, and thank you Liangying!
In this way, perhaps under the coercion of public opinion caused by "forced marriage", Feng Ke later formally proposed to Zhang Liangying, and the two entered the palace of marriage and received many blessings. But Zhang Liangying would not have thought that this man, who insisted on marrying despite her mother's opposition, would only bring her harm in the end.
However, after more than ten years of entanglement and marriage in less than two years, the relationship between the two fell apart. And Zhang Liangying, who "went out of the house", also ended up with the fate of "people and money". Perhaps, this failed marriage is also a wake-up call to listen to your mother. Because various phenomena show that in this marriage, Zhang Liangying is only a "love brain", and Feng Ke only thinks that she is her own "cash cow".
Zhang Liangying's singing has accompanied many people's youth, and her moving love songs also contain her best interpretation of feelings. "If that's love, it wouldn't be fair." She mistakenly paid for ten years of youth, and finally ended up with an empty basket of water, no wonder others. Perhaps this ending, as early as that concert, Feng Ke's hesitation was doomed in his mother's strong opposition.
03. Bao Wenjing & Bao Bell
In recent years, Bao Bell, who has hair, has finally reversed his "path" in his acting career with the role of "Zhao Gongzi" and has been loved by everyone. However, his marriage has always been due to the incident of "Liu Yan" at the wedding scene at the beginning, and from time to time he was pulled out by everyone to "walk a walk". But today we don't mention this, let's talk about Bao Wenjing's ten-year "forced marriage" journey.
It is reported that when they were together at the beginning, Bao Bell always did not give Bao Wenjing a happy word, which made Bao Wenjing finally break out once, and said to Bao Bell, "Let's be together", and Bao Bell replied: "Don't joke!" Then Bao Wenjing took out a cigarette and lit it, looked into Bao Bell's eyes and said, "If you don't want to be with me, I will burn myself with a cigarette butt!" Unexpectedly, Bao Bell directly said: "You are sick." Bao Wenjing directly took the cigarette butt and burned herself, and the two were together.
Together, it is nothing more than talking about marriage and marriage, but Bao Bell is not, and it took more than ten years for Hard And Bao Wenjing. Once in the show, Bao Wenjing mentioned that when they were in love, she could give Bao Bell three or five marriages every year, but Bao Bell has not been moved.
Maybe it was a long-term love affair, or maybe Bao Bell had the idea of starting a family as he grew older, and later he married Bao Wenjing. But whenever they appear in public, we can always find that in this marriage, Bao Wenjing has obviously fallen behind, and the word "humble" seems to be written on her face.
In any case, the marriage between Bao Bell and Bao Wenjing has been maintained, and there is no obvious rift. Therefore, as an audience, we can't speculate about their lives after all, across the screen. Fortunately, it is not happy, sweet or not sweet, only they themselves understand, no matter how much we say, it will not help.
04. Shen Mengchen & Du Haitao
To say that the most obvious actress of "forced marriage" in recent years must be Shen Mengchen, it can be said that no one can stand out.
At the New Year this year, Shen Mengchen took Du Haitao back to his hometown in Xiangxi, which also indicated that the relationship between the two people was further consolidated. Sure enough, just two days ago, the two joyfully announced their marriage. This also means that Shen Mengchen's "forced marriage" has finally won a victory and deserves congratulations.
However, looking back at Shen Mengchen's "forced marriage" process in the past, it is not unreasonable to think, what kind of direction will such a unilateral "humble" marriage be in the end?
Shen Mengchen has mentioned more than once in the show that the label he most wants to tear off is "Du Haitao's girlfriend", and the label he most wants to put on is "Du Haitao's wife". But the fulfillment of this wish has lasted a long nine years.
Not only that, in a talk show last year, Shen Mengchen also publicly stated about Haitao's attitude toward marriage: Haitao can't move at all, and tornadoes can't move. This move undoubtedly put a lot of public pressure on Haitao, and just when everyone was not optimistic, not long after the end of the year, they actually directly obtained the certificate.
It's impossible for two people to be together for nine years, to say that there are no feelings, or the idea of marriage. So, why did Haitao drag on for so long? This involves the different attitudes of men and women towards marriage. In life, the reason why girls often urge boys to get married, and boys tend to adopt a negative attitude, that is, we often refer to "fear of marriage".
And netizens' unforgettable speculation about Haitao's old love (Wu Xin), the author thinks it is not very reliable. The reasons for this phenomenon are actually nothing more than the following points, one of which may be that boys want to start a business first and then start a family because they are more enterprising; the second is largely due to the fact that boys have not yet received their hearts, do not want to grow up, and are unwilling to bear the burden of the family prematurely.
All in all, congratulations on their final cultivation. But there is a big difference between love and marriage, not as simple as shopping and playing poker. Therefore, in the days to come, it is also necessary for the two to trust each other and support each other. In this way, we can accompany each other to grow old, happy and happy, come on!
Regarding "forced marriage" and not "forced marriage", in fact, director Zhang Yimou's emotional experience can be explained very clearly.
In the early years, the love affair between director Zhang Yimou and Gong Li was boiling over. And Gong Li's heart that wants to marry Zhang Yimou is also clear, but Zhang Yimou has been pushing away and has not agreed to it. Later, this incident made Zhang Yimou and his ex-wife's daughter Zhang Mo unable to see it anymore, and wrote "My Father and Mother", which put Gong Li's interference in her parents' marriage on the surface.
Although Zhang Yimou later divorced his ex-wife, he did not enter the palace of marriage with Gong Li. Instead, he married the obedient Chen Ting, the current wife of director Zhang Yimou. The two have been together for many years, have had several children, and have not been licensed to marry, and Chen Ting has always been patient and has not said too much.
Later, after the marriage facts were announced, the family was happy and happy together, and Zhang Mo did not treat Chen Ting like Gong Li. On the contrary, this "Chen Ting", who knows how to be patient, defeated Gong Li, who has been "forced to marry", and became the woman who accompanied Zhang Yimou to the end.
All in all, "forced marriage" is actually a common phenomenon in the entertainment industry and even in life. But the reasons, the final result, are not all the same. The author thinks that whether it is because of happiness after the success of "forced marriage", or because of the success of "forced marriage". The main reason is not "forced marriage", but in love or no love. Marriage is like a siege of the city, people in the city want to come out, people outside the city want to go in, but there are also people who dare not take this step easily, so in this matter boys and girls are not wrong, perhaps, it is just the only way to grow.