Lately, Uncle Benshan has been a bit annoyed.
Jiaojiao, who was once a "beloved disciple", suddenly turned her eyes back and openly accused Zhao Benshan of various "crimes."
Although the truth or falsity of the matter has not yet been determined, it has stirred up a bloody storm in the field of public opinion.
Zhao Benshan seemed to be light and breezy, but this was a bad thing after all.
To say that after so many years, there are really not a few people who have had conflicts with Zhao Benshan.
Before there was Fan Wei, Gao Xiumin, then there was Xiao Shenyang, Wang Xiaoli, and now Zhang Yujiao, it seems that there are always people who can't get by because of "money" and Zhao Benshan.
However, all of the above are just conflicts of interest.
Whoever takes more money, who takes less money, who relies on whom to become popular...
If you really want to break down right and wrong, I'm afraid it will be difficult for the gods to clarify when they come.
Just one person, even if Zhao Benshan is hard-mouthed, he still has to say that he is ashamed, even if it is already the most generous time in his life.
She is the knotted wife who was abandoned by Zhao Benshan, Ge Shuzhen.
First, poor couples
Zhao Benshan's life was bitter, his mother died of illness at the age of 6, and not long after, his father was also assigned to the border desert for offending people.
It was only because Zhao Benshan was too young to travel far, so he left it to his grandfather to take care of.
Who thought that within two years, his grandfather had also died, and Zhao Benshan was begging for a living with his blind uncle.
Zhao Benshan's uncle is a folk artist, Erhu, Erhu, Miao, Sanxin, and the two are proficient in transmutation.
Unfortunately, in those years and months, the landlord's family did not have any surplus grain, and the art in the hutongs really could not make a few dollars.
Once with his uncle in the park to set up a stall, Zhao Benshan saw a blind fortune teller on the side of the money very fast, so he moved his mind.
As a result, as soon as he mentioned his head to his uncle, he was caught and beaten up.
At the end, my uncle told him that it was all crooked and evil, we are art, you follow it and study hard, and you will not starve to death everywhere in the future.
Seeing that the "great plan to make a fortune" had failed, Zhao Benshan could only follow his uncle to learn the skills hard, while starving and struggling to survive.
Fortunately, Zhao Benshan has a neighbor named Zhou Yumei, who is a kind person.
When she saw that Zhao Benshan was really hungry, she called him into the house and invited him to a full meal.
Looking at Zhao Benshan's dry little body, Zhou Yumei really couldn't bear it in her heart, and simply recognized Zhao Benshan as a dry son.
Since then, as long as Zhao Benshan was hungry, he would run to his mother's house, and he would be able to mix a full meal.
Fast forward to 1979, 22-year-old Zhao Benshan was still a poor egg.
Originally, he felt that farming was too bitter, and he begged Bai Lai to enter the literary and art propaganda team.
As a result, the life of the propaganda team is not good, walking the streets and alleys every day to make less money, not to mention, but also to endure the blank eyes of the villagers around them.
In the eyes of those who are thick and rich in crops, Zhao Benshan, who refuses to honestly cultivate the land, is no different from the "street slipper".
At that time, Zhao Benshan was thinking about how to fill the rice tank at home every day.
There is never much to think about pleasing a wife.
After all, finding a wife is equivalent to having one more mouth, so isn't it necessary to share the few surplus grain in the family with yourself?
However, Zhao Benshan is not in a hurry, which does not mean that others are not in a hurry.
Zhao Benshan's uncle and aunt saw that he was getting bigger and bigger, and they had to say a daughter-in-law to their nephew no matter what.
The old couple went to consult with Zhou Yumei, the dry lady, and did not expect that the three of them would hit it off immediately.
Regardless of whether Zhao Benshan agreed or disagreed, he began to give him a marriage affair.
Unfortunately, the girls in the nearby villages all knew that Zhao Benshan's family was ugly and poor, and no one could look up to him.
By coincidence, the aunt remembered that there was a girl in her mother's village who was just right.
The girl's name is Ge Shuzhen, 19 years old, and her parents died early.
Although people are not beautiful, Ge Shuzhen has been in charge of her livelihood since she was a child, and she is a good hand inside and outside the house.
The next day, the aunt and Gan Niang escorted Zhao Benshan to go on a blind date.
At that time, it was not necessary to say how many bride price gifts were required, and whose name was written on the property deed.
Coupled with the absence of Ge Shuzhen's parents, the marriage between the two was easily finalized.
But Zhao Benshan was really too poor, and the four walls of the family were not an adjective, it was simply the actual situation.
Once married, I can't even add a new object in the house, which is really a bit unreasonable.
In the end, the dry lady could not see the eyes, and then came out of the cotton ticket and cotton, and made a new futon for Zhao Benshan, which was the only "big piece" in the family.
In fact, Ge Shuzhen did not value these things, otherwise people would not be able to marry Zhao Benshan.
What the girl wants is that the two of them will work together to make the day better.
On the day of the wedding, after Zhao Benshan picked up the bride, he did not have the good sense to enter the house.
He went up the hill with an axe and cut a large stack of firewood, as if he wanted to prove that he had the determination and ability to live a good life.
In this way, the ignorant Ge Shuzhen and the confused Zhao Benshan began a confused married life.
Fortunately, the days after the marriage were not as Zhao Benshan thought, and the couple quarreled endlessly over the surplus grain in the rice tank.
On the contrary, after Ge Shuzhen's arrival, he busied himself with the days of the two little ones.
With surplus grain at home, Zhao Benshan could finally walk the streets and alleys outside with peace of mind, and slowly broke out a little fame in tieling folk.
At the end of the year, the first daughter of the two, Zhao Yufang, was born.
Second, the rich divorce
In 1982, two events changed the second half of Zhao Benshan and Ge Shuzhen's lives.
Li Zhongtang, then director of the Tieling Mass Art Museum, wrote a script for "Three Strings", in which the role of a blind man has not been determined.
Growing up with a blind uncle, Zhao Benshan thought that he could play a blind man and no one else could do it.
He introduced himself, and while getting the role, he also recognized Li Zhongtang as a dry father.
With the opportunity to star in "Three Strings", Zhao Benshan shined.
Brilliant acting skills and exquisite three-string skills have made the name of "the world's first blind" circulate in the black land.
Also in this year, Ge Shuzhen gave birth to a son for Zhao Benshan.
Originally, it was a great joy for the family, but because this child was born deaf and mute, and suffered from various diseases such as hypochondriasis and emphysema, it became sad and miserable.
In order to pray that his son can live longer, Zhao Benshan gave the child a "cheap name" Zhao Tie Egg.
In 1987, Jiang Kun went to Tieling to perform cross-talk, and as a result, he was exhausted and could not make fun of the audience.
Jiang Kun, who is famous throughout the country, has suffered this grievance, and he has seen any scenes for so many years in the south and the north of the sea? How did it get planted today?
As soon as the performance was finished, Jiang Kun stopped an audience member and asked him, is this cross-talk not funny?
The audience glanced at Jiang Kun and said that good is good, that is, it is far worse than the old Zhao Ke of Tieling.
Jiang Kun became curious, so he went to see Zhao Benshan's performance, and also understood that what his fellow villagers said was not false.
Jiang Kun, who had a heart of love for talent, decided to push Zhao Benshan to a bigger stage.
In 1990, accompanied by a "Qian Guang Hat" that could never be correctly placed, Zhao Benshan appeared in front of the national audience for the first time.
The sketch "Blind Date" blows the unique language charm of Northeast China to the whole country.
Overnight, Zhao Benshan was on fire, and various invitations flocked to it.
Zhao Benshan also began to perform around to collect gold, traveled all over the motherland's great rivers and mountains, and also saw many people and things that he could not think of in the past.
On tv, on the stage, Zhao Benshan was in the limelight for a while.
But few people know that he still has a wife in his hometown and still lives the life of an ordinary peasant.
At sunrise and sunset, guarding an old house and a pair of children, they cleaned up the house in order.
To say that this Ge Shuzhen really has a "stubborn" force on the body.
At first, Zhao Benshan was poor and depressed, and Ge Shuzhen married him without hesitation.
Later, Zhao Benshan soared to the top, and Ge Shuzhen was somewhat distant from her husband.
In her opinion, how much money you old Zhao can make outside is your skill, but it has nothing to do with me.
Ge Shuzhen is a farmer with a duty, and I am only willing to rely on a pair of diligent hands to live a good life in a down-to-earth manner.
I don't want to be in touch with you, and you don't want to make me happy.
With this kind of psychology, coupled with the long-term separation of the two people, divorce is only a matter of time.
In 1991, Zhao Benshan decided to divorce Ge Shuzhen.
Remembering ge Shuzhen marrying him at his worst, and raising her daughter and sick son alone at home for so many years.
Now that he has come out on top, he wants to dump others, but he really does not have the face to personally mention the divorce to her.
Zhao Benshan looked for Ge Shuzhen's relatives to be lobbyists, but he did not expect that Ge Shuzhen was not surprised at all after learning that the other party had come to him.
She found Zhao Benshan and said, I am willing to divorce, and I don't want you a penny, but you must take care of the child's maintenance and medical treatment money.
In the end, Zhao Benshan left the 250,000 yuan he had saved over the years, along with a property under his name and a Xiali car, to Ge Shuzhen.
Zhao Benshan was out of the house, but everyone knew that his future had infinite brightness.
For Ge Shuzhen, even if she gets more things, she can only face challenges alone in the future.
Three, fight alone
Leaving the countryside and land, Ge Shuzhen had no means of making a living.
A middle-aged woman who has never read a book can only make a living by doing odd jobs in the city.
Daughter Zhao Yufang hurt her mother and advised her not to be so tired, anyway, now that the family has money, it is enough to support her family after completing college.
250,000, which was definitely a huge sum of money in those days.
But Ge Shuzhen stubbornly believes that the money is for her daughter's schooling and her son's medical treatment, and she must not use it indiscriminately.
She told her daughter not to tell anyone and go out to look for a job.
But jobs in the city were not easy to find, and after several turns, she finally found a job as a dishwasher at a hot pot restaurant.
The hotel owner offered her a salary of 150 yuan per month.
With a monthly salary of 150 yuan, Ge Shuzhen supported the two children.
Although life is a little difficult, but looking at the more and more sensible daughter and the son who is more and more stable, Ge Shuzhen is full of energy.
In 1992, Zhao Benshan ushered in the second spring of his life and married Ma Lijuan, a young female teacher, as a bride.
The eldest daughter, Zhao Yufang, went to her father's wedding, and when she returned home, she said to Ge Shuzhen: Daddy is married again, and you can also start a family again.
After speaking, Zhao Yufang sat down at the small desk on the other side and began to study hard.
Ge Shuzhen looked at her daughter's slightly lonely figure, and then looked at the uneasy look in her son's eyes, and she secretly resolved that no matter how difficult the future life was, she could not let her child be wronged.
Two years after such a poor and happy life, a great change suddenly hit Ge Shuzhen's head.
In 1994, Zhao Tie egg suddenly suffered a heart attack, ending his 12-year short life.
The sudden death of her son caused Ge Shuzhen to be greatly shocked, and she washed her face with tears all day long, and finally fell ill in bed.
After a long period of cultivation, Ge Shuzhen's condition gradually improved.
As a result, as soon as her body recovered, she began to work outside the home again.
At first, Ge Shuzhen found a nearby individual store as a salesperson.
Unfortunately, after a few months of work, the boss wanted to go to the south to develop, and the store was cashed out, and she also lost her job.
Subsequently, Ge Shuzhen went to the street to set up a stall, selling some hats, socks and other daily necessities.
But before they could earn money, things were confiscated by those who managed the appearance of the city.
After taking a turn, Ge Shuzhen returned to her old business, the catering industry.
This time she came to a dumpling shop and applied to be a handyman.
Work more than 10 hours a day, sweeping the floor, washing dishes, greeting guests, and doing all the dirty work.
Even so, the monthly salary is only more than 200 yuan.
With a pair of industrious hands, Ge Shuzhen offered her daughter all the way to college.
Zhao Yufang wedding photo
In 1999, her daughter Zhao Yufang received an acceptance letter from Dalian Foreign Chinese College, and Ge Shuzhen moved to Dalian with her.
For four years, Ge Shuzhen worked while taking care of her daughter's life.
As her daughter graduated and found a good job, Ge Shuzhen also let go of the last big stone in her heart.
Ge Shuzhen, who has no worries, can finally let go of her hands and feet, and she is ready to open a restaurant by herself.
This idea had been swirling in her mind for a long time, and she had always considered that her daughter was still young, so she did not put it into action.
Coincidentally, a nearby restaurant called "Miso Zhenxiang" was preparing to close its doors due to poor management, and all the timing was just right.
Ge Shuzhen was fierce, took out the 20,000 yuan deposit she had saved, and redeemed the hotel.
In fact, Ge Shuzhen's "taste of true fragrance" under the plate is not a whim, she has carefully studied and found that this hotel is not short of traffic.
The reason why I used to lose money was because the boss was too picky and gave a small amount of food, so he couldn't keep the guests.
Ge Shuzhen learned her lesson and asked the chef to increase the portion size and use enough ingredients when cooking.
Although this will reduce profits, but small profits and high sales, business soon boomed.
The restaurant was so busy every day that Ge Shuzhen had to add manpower and hire several helpers and waiters again.
But Ge Shuzhen's affordable approach broke the "rules", causing several nearby restaurant owners to hate each other.
They worked together to raise the salaries of a nearby chef, and then poached the staff at Ge Shuzhen's shop, forcing her to re-recruit at a high salary.
Ge Shuzhen's hotel, first of all, the number of employees is large, and the second is to take the road of small profits and high sales.
As soon as labor costs increase, there is basically no profit margin.
Although Ge Shuzhen's restaurant still looks prosperous, it is actually not profitable at all.
In 2004, Zhao Benshan established the "Benshan Art College", and his daughter Zhao Yufang also quit her job as a civil servant to help in her father's school.
She saw that her mother was busy every day for the restaurant from morning to night, not only did not make money, but even owed hundreds of thousands of famine.
So he proposed that he hoped that Ge Shuzhen could go to work at Zhao Benshan School.
Zhao Benshan also said that he could pay ge Shuzhen to fill the hole, and then find her a decent job so that she could enjoy the blessings.
But the stubborn Ge Shuzhen rejected her daughter's kindness.
First, she was reluctant to bow her head to her ex-husband and reach out for help.
Second, she is even more unwilling to concede defeat because of the squeeze of the villain.
Back at the restaurant, Ge Shuzhen discussed with the chef and decided to make fast food instead.
Ge Shuzhen still adheres to the principle of "enough material", filling each box lunch.
The move was indeed a peak, and the 500 box lunches prepared in the store every day were basically sold out.
After several years of business development, Ge Shuzhen has long earned millions of dollars on her own.
Although it is far from being able to compare with Zhao Benshan, at least he can live very comfortably.
epilogue
Ge Shuzhen has been stubborn all her life, and even in the most difficult time of her life, she has never extended her hand to Zhao Benshan once.
In her own words: Zhao Benshan is Zhao Benshan, I am me, I can't smash his signboard, and I can't smash my Ge Shuzhen's signboard either.
When Zhao Benshan was the poorest, she married him without hesitation.
When Zhao Benshan flew yellow and tengda, he voluntarily divorced without nostalgia.
Since then, the two have embarked on two very different paths.
Zhao Benshan, with his special talent, stood on the cusp of the wind and soared.
Ge Shuzhen relied on a pair of industrious hands and moved forward step by step with her feet.
She is not beautiful, nor is she smart, and she has encountered many bumps and downs on the road of life.
But with a tenacity and determination to work hard, Ge Shuzhen finally won her own success.
Compared with the brilliance of Zhao Benshan, Ge Shuzhen's experience is more worthy of learning and respect.