The 2022 Beijing-Zhangjiakou Winter Olympics is in full swing, and China's athletes are sweating on the field and trying to win medals for the motherland, and no one can succeed casually, and the hard work behind this is unimaginable to ordinary people.
In the flowers and applause, one Olympic star after another was also displayed in everyone's vision, among which there were two girls that I most wanted to tell and introduce to everyone, one was Gu Ailing, and the other was Fan Kexin.
Gu Ailing and Fan Kexin are children who grew up in completely different family environments, but they both won gold medals for China, which is the pride of Chinese.
As the saying goes: the sons of rich families are easy to get angry; the children of the cold door are afraid of no ambition, and in their growth environment, there is the same supporting force:
That is, the family education that can be given regardless of the family situation is enough to break free from the shackles of the family situation, enough to make the rich family less defeated, and the cold door and more noble children.
【Rich families are more afraid of losers】
It is often said that it is not more than three generations rich.
There is some truth in this statement, and the most important thing that affects the growth of rich children is not the economic difficulties that most people feel empathy for, but the natural and unequivocal mentality of the loser.
Rich people often pay more attention to the family education of their children, once a person has property that can be disposed of at will, then he is very easy to be caught up in the vortex of crazy consumption, such as approaching the abyss, such as walking on thin ice.
If such a rich child does not have good family education guidance, then the probability and severity of his mistakes are often beyond imagination, and there are many examples, such as "My father is Li Gang" and so on.
The hard-earned money is lost by the child overnight, and the taste of having and losing it is very uncomfortable, so the rich often prefer to cultivate excellent children.
Their money can support them to learn more advanced educational knowledge, can support them to find more suitable interests for their children, can support them to let their children get a better starting advantage, Gu Ailing's mother Gu Yan is how she plans for Gu Ailing.
When Gu Ailing won the award, she expressed her gratitude to her mother for her patient guidance, once saying: "My mother will drive 8 hours a week to take me to skiing. She's the most open-minded person I know, and she'll always give her all to the people around her. ”
Gu Yan began to take her children to experience various interest projects when Gu Ailing was very young, and finally found Gu Ailing's lifelong love - skiing.
Because of her interest, Gu Ailing has the motivation to challenge herself, strive to achieve her highest achievements, and grow into a confident and sunny girl under the influence of her mother.
Gu Yan herself is Gu Ailing's lifelong mentor, and Gu Yan's self-confidence, optimism, kindness and hard work are also reflected in the light of Gu Ailing, which will be used for her for life.
【Cold door can also produce takako】
A long time ago Chinese had a deafening question: "The prince will have a kind of Xiangning?" ”
The answer, of course, is no.
From ancient times to the present, the cold door is an indelible existence, but it is also the cold door that has created countless talents. The successful cold door jumps to become a rich family, and the loser is still a cold door, which can be understood as the root of the rich family, that is, the cold door.
Then people can't help but wonder, what makes Hanmen a rich family? What are the key factors in this? Is it a success that can be replicated?
The cold door becomes a rich family, and Takako is the key.
We all know that in the process of a person's growth, the most profound influence is his original family, so your son's original family is already cold, so where does his preciousness come from?
It is obvious that family status is not a factor that restricts children from becoming noble children, and despite the chance of chance, privately believe that expensive is expensive in family education.
Good family education does not need to be accumulated with money, people's quality and temperament do not distinguish between money and no money, parents are the child's lifelong mentors, and the words and deeds of excellent parents are enough to cultivate "noble sons".
Fan Kexin's family lives in Qitaihe, northeast China, and when he was a child, his family rented a tin house of only 6 square meters and relied on his father to repair shoes to make a living.
The hardships of parents, Xiao Kexin looks in the eyes, although they are poor, they are still optimistic and hardworking, relying on their hands to improve their lives, and creating good conditions for their children as much as possible.
In the yin and yang mistakes, Xiao Kexin was hit by speed skating coach Ma Qingzhongxiang, and she also asked the coach if it cost money to participate in training, and Coach Ma smiled and said: "As long as you train hard, I will not charge money." ”
Fan Kexin immediately said that she was very able to endure hardships and promised to practice well.
She did what she said, and finally with extraordinary efforts, she slid into the national team, slid into the World Cup, and finally slid to the highest Olympic podium, and gradually improved the family's situation and became the noble son of the cold door.
【Do a good job of family education, you and I have noble sons】
Yi Shu expressed it in "Flowing Golden Years": "Rich people lose their families, and the cold door reads talents hard." In fact, it is not necessarily, or to look at the tutor, look at the experience. ”
Yes, good family education is the biggest boost to truly achieve the future of children, the influence of the original family is huge, do not be arrogant because of family circumstances, teach children no matter what the starting point, adhere to continuous efforts, you can water the flower of success.
The Winter Olympics are still in progress, and the competition of the athletes is still continuing, let us wait and see, and look forward to the "noble sons" to play for us to play the style and level! Come on, Chinese athletes!