Wang Can has been giving birth to small egg dumplings for a while, and she often shares her daily life and some experiences with everyone from pregnancy to babybirth.
She chose to breastfeed after giving birth, her mother is breastfeeding, people who have experienced breastfeeding know how difficult it is to breastfeed, and Wang Can has also encountered some "small troubles" in the process.
Wang Can wanted to feed his daughter but was "disliked", complaining that the dumplings were somewhat willful
Before getting married and pregnant, Wang Can shared that most of the content was his own beautiful photos, and the photos after giving birth to a baby were inseparable from the topic of the baby.
Although the egg dumplings are eaten with breast milk, Wang Can is not strictly "kissed", because the small egg dumplings have been using bottles to drink breast milk.
Mentioning his daughter's performance, Wang Can was a little helpless, the little egg dumpling seemed to be very disgusted with being fed, and Wang Can also said that it was very willful for his daughter to cry when she touched it.
She also analyzed the reasons for this, probably because she was slow to milk when she was delivered by caesarean section, so she had been feeding her daughter with a bottle in the early stage, which led to the fact that the dumplings were still unable to accept kissing.
Seeing that Wang Can sucked out a lot of breast milk, the mothers said that it was a pity, if they could feed it, it would not be more convenient and convenient, and they could also have more contact with the baby.
The mother who was "abandoned" when she was feeding was not only Wang Can
People without babies may not understand Wang Can's mood, in fact, this feeling of having breast milk but not being able to feed is really sad, breast milk should be the baby's favorite "ration", why does the baby refuse to feed the mother?
★ Accustomed to the "rice bowl" that is the first contact, I am not willing to change the sucking mode
Most babies who dislike breast milk are born with bottles and pacifiers, such as the same situation as Wang Can, or the baby needs to live in the incubator for a period of time due to physical problems, resulting in missing the best time for feeding.
After the baby gets used to the feeding method of the bottle, he has adjusted his sucking mode, and then let him eat breast milk The baby will feel uncomfortable and refuse.
★ The process of eating a bottle is more "labor-saving" than eating breast milk
As the old saying goes, babies suck with the urge to suck, and it looks like the baby is just sucking easily, but it's actually really hard.
Feeding bottles and feedings can be eaten, and sucking bottles requires much less force than breastfeeding. When the baby knows that he can eat milk without effort, of course, he does not want to spend more effort to be fed by his mother.
★ During the feeding process, there have been "unpleasant" experiences
Some babies do not receive feeding after birth, but they eat well at the beginning and then suddenly stop eating. In addition to entering the anorexia period, this situation may also experience an unpleasant breastfeeding process.
When your baby has been frightened during breastfeeding, or criticized by the mother, it may also be because the milk is too rushed and choked. Then out of a sense of protection for himself, the baby will refuse to accept kissing.
There are some differences in the taste of milk powder and breast milk, with milk being lighter and milk powder being sweeter. Little babies also have taste hobbies, and they are accustomed to the sweetness of milk powder and will dislike their mothers for feeding.
What do parents need to pay attention to when making the baby receive "in-person feeding"?
In the case of breast milk, the milk powder is not as good as direct feeding to the baby, kiss feeding is good for adults and children, want the baby to receive kissing should pay attention to the following feeding details.
First of all, as much as possible to cultivate feelings with the baby, even if the baby has not yet breast milk, you must first let the baby suck to adapt to the feeding, so that he will not have a strange and resistant feeling to the feeding.
Secondly, do not be anxious to find the right time, if the baby can not be with the mother in time because of some factors, then do not rush to kiss after meeting, but first contact with the baby to cultivate feelings.
Finally, in the process of feeding, the baby should have a warm and comfortable feeling, not only to take care of the baby's emotional problems. If the baby swallows slowly and the mother's milk array is very rushed, you can pause breastfeeding and wait for the milk array to pass before continuing.
In addition to the above common reasons, the baby suddenly does not accept kissing, even if it is milked into the bottle and does not drink, it may be that the mother's body is in trouble, to check in time.
The feeding time is happy and unforgettable, the baby loves the mother will not refuse to kiss and feed for no reason, and parents must find the real reason.