Love is a kind of freedom—both sides are free; as long as there is pain, love is gone. If you really love someone, you can't bring pain to them, even though you think you're doing the right thing

Love is a kind of freedom – both parties are free;

As long as there is pain, love is gone.

If you really love someone, you can't bring pain to them,

Although you think what you do is beneficial to him.

If you blindly ask him to act according to your desires,

And he wants you to meet his requirements.

Then the relationship will produce pain.

--Krishnamurti

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