Whatever happens between the two of you depends a lot on the first conversation and the impression you leave on her.
Because first impressions matter, here are five ways to get you to talk to a girl for the first time and make a good impression on her.
1. Timing is critical
That's the most important thing you can't screw up. If your timing isn't right, there's not much you can do right.
If you approach her in a bad mood, her chances of patiently listening to you are halved. It's the same thing when she's with a group of friends, or when she's with a large group of friends, or when she's doing something else.
You need to do more to get her to talk to you normally, and you won't want to put yourself under this pressure and increase the likelihood of failure.
So pay attention to timing. This determines her attention span in some way, and of course, this may enhance or disturb your attention.
2. Boost your self-confidence
Project this as forcefully as possible, but don't be arrogant. You can be confident without losing respect or condescending, which is the direction you should always strive for.
Keep eye contact with her. This is non-negotiable. Don't be vague or speak too fast so it doesn't sound like it's rehearsed. In most cases, approaching someone for the first time is nerve-inducing, but if you want to get the girl's heart, you have to do it, and be confident that you're already on the way.
3. Praise her subtly
The first time you talk to a girl is basically what you say and how you say it.
So, after building the right confidence, the next thing to do is to use it wisely, and one of the useful ways to do that is when you compliment the girl.
When talking to a girl for the first time, don't forget to compliment. But be careful, don't say those tacky, stick to sincere praise. Say something beautiful about what you see in her.
Her eyes, the clothes she wore, her smile, her shoes... It can be anything. Just make sure it's sincere and not exaggerated. Women can feel and distinguish between praise and flattery, and if you're too flattering, they'll feel uncomfortable.
4. Open-ended questions
To avoid over-complimenting, you need to quickly shift from praise to something else. That's where your ability to really engage her in the conversation comes into play. If you want her to speak, ask her questions that will make her open.
Instead of saying, "Is there any fun plan for the holidays?" (You can answer with a short "yes" or "no") rather than "what are you going to do during school holidays?"
A question that needs to be answered in detail is always more conducive to a conversation than a simple "yes" or "no" question.
5. Don't stay too long
No matter how much the conversation becomes interesting, learn to leave when things are still interesting. Don't overdo the conversation to the point of embarrassment or running out of words.
Leaving before the end of the conversation gives you a greater chance of getting her phone number, getting her to promise to date you and being able to contact her next time because she will associate you with fun rather than boredom.
It is here that all the potential romance between you and her begins.
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