As the saying goes: "Survive the past, shine; survive, get out." ”
Anyone can succeed, the key is to see if you can stick to it.
Who can succeed casually? But it is only longer than the people in the same industry.
Believe it, stay up, you'll always get ahead.
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Survive the darkest moments of life and you will see the light.
I have seen such a story: In the Edo period of Japan, there was a daughter of a cloth shop, who was pregnant before marriage, and her parents were very angry and asked bitterly, whose child was it?
The daughter said that it was the "White Hidden Zen Master."
Therefore, Bai Yin raised the child alone, begged for white rice porridge everywhere, and listened to harsh gossip.
Later, the family finally figured it out, the daughter found a poor boy, afraid that her parents would not agree, before making this decision.
The child returned to the cloth shop, and Bai Yin's reputation became better and better, and many people sang praises his merits.
The ancients said, "There is no more evil than anger, and it is difficult to endure." ”
With a knife on his head, if he is poured with sewage, he can endure it, and he is not afraid to move forward in the darkness, then he will eventually usher in the dawn.
No matter how long the night is, it can't stop the day from coming, can it?
Facing unwarranted humiliation, malicious slander, and the ordeal of being crushed by others is actually a practice. After surviving, the practice is successful.
If you retaliate with a tooth for a tooth and stare angrily, you will not be able to survive, and your heart will be particularly flustered, and you will be swayed by others.
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Survive the days of "no relatives", and turn around and someone will like it.
There is a very heartfelt saying: "If you are particularly poor, even your parents look down on you." ”
Netizen "Hate Ginger" shared such a thing: when he first entered society, his salary was very low. I went home for the New Year, and for various reasons, I didn't go out until April to find another job.
He plans to go to Hangzhou to make a living, and wants his parents to give 5,000 yuan as a travel fee and rent for the first two months. His parents refused, saying that he ate and drank at home for nothing, and did not take money to the family, and it seemed that he would not have a job in the future.
The ending, a bit unexpected.
Parents are also people who want face, and if their children return home, they will set off firecrackers to greet them, hoping that their neighbors will know. If the children come back with gray heads and dirty faces, it is estimated that the parents' faces are not very good-looking.
Of course, not all parents are so good-looking, after all, the love of flesh and blood is always indelible.
In addition to their parents, other people, that is even more unreliable. Brothers and sisters will also feel poor and love the rich. Or, you're so good that they'll be jealous of you, say something vicious, and curse you.
To put it bluntly, the original intention of people-to-people interactions inevitably exists in the "exchange of interests".
You have the plane tree, you have the phoenix; you are the golden phoenix, and there are plane trees everywhere.
People are not short-sighted, find their own direction, and toss more than a few times. When you have improved, everywhere you go, you will hear applause.
"People are poor and cannot be persuaded", this is the common sentiment of people, don't resent anyone, find the reason from yourself.
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After surviving the helplessness of loneliness, I learned to enjoy loneliness.
Singer Li Zongsheng sang: "Only I applaud myself, only I mourn for myself, although I have had a lot of emotional debts, I am still very much looking forward to future love..."
Li Zongsheng is an emotionally rich person and a lonely person. His love affair with Lin Yilian, once vigorous, was later broken up very quietly.
He said, "If our love is wrong, may you and I not suffer in vain." ”
After experiencing the ups and downs of life, Li Zongsheng still walks on the road of singing, keeps a low profile, and insists on creation.
Pin Guan, a male star who performed on the same stage with Li Zongsheng, said that at such an old age, he can still memorize the lyrics well, which is really remarkable.
It can be imagined that many classic sentences need a person to calm down and rub the feelings of life into the words, in order to be so vicissitudes, always speak to people's hearts.
Where there is any loneliness, it is just that your heart is not strong enough; where there is loneliness, loneliness can be enjoyed.
You can survive countless days and nights, but it is difficult to survive your heart. If you can, you have reached the highest realm, and there is nothing that can make you cry and despair.
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After surviving the years of hard reading in the cold window, people will be graceful and luxurious.
University professor Jin Peifen once said: "For those who are engaged in manual labor, reading is a kind of rest. For those who use their brain power to deal with things, reading is a relief. When we are bored, reading can certainly relieve our boredom; when we are sad, reading can also make us forget our worries. ”
Reading cannot solve all problems, but wisdom can.
An important way to gain wisdom is to read. Treat life, society, love experience, school, work as a book, and over time, you will surpass many people.
The bitterness of reading will eventually become the sweetness of life. Those who do not read are destined to suffer for a lifetime.
Confucius and his disciples Zigong and Zengzi were quite accomplished, and posterity admired them and said a word after the break - Confucius moved and finished his books.
A person's body is originally a skin bag, only by reading, can the soul become noble, so that the skin bag also becomes more valuable.
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Conclusion.
Zen Master Bai Yin said a very classic sentence: "Don't you see that you can't get through this hurdle?" ”
Along the way, life is not always walking on the kangzhuang road, often have to cut through thorns, cross dangerous rivers, and climb over mountains with no end in sight.
If you are afraid, you can only stagnate; if you are brave, you can always have better results than expected.
Oniguzi's disciple Sun Zhen was injured by his colleagues and had his kneecap cut off, but he relied on pretending to be crazy and stupid, escaped the disaster, and finally became a famous military expert.
During the Three Kingdoms period, Pang Tong, because of his ugly appearance, was ridiculed and could not be reused. Sitting on the cold bench for a long time, he gradually became famous because of the rapid judgment of the case and the meritorious management of the local government.
Agree with the same sentence – what is greatness? It's just a boiling word.
Author: Cloth coarse food.
Follow my words and go into your heart.
The illustrations in this article come from the Internet.