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I saw a saying on the Internet: "What is the easiest way to improve emotional intelligence?" Just don't talk nonsense. ”
Speaking through the brain and not indulging in one's own language is the manifestation of a person's high emotional intelligence.
There are thousands of kinds of learning in the world, and the three things of speaking, doing things, and being a person are the three things that everyone has to learn, and they are the lessons that need to be learned all the time.
Whether it is talking or doing things, people can not be willful, you need to have certain rules.
Speaking is an art, and doing things is a science.
Don't talk casually
Linguists say, "Shrews often curse the streets like a river, and people who go to the rivers and lakes to sell plasters are more like rivers, but we don't admit that they can talk." ”
Speaking is the easiest thing to do, but also the hardest thing to do.
A person speaks with his mouth open, and sincerity is the most basic requirement.
The charm of speaking is not how fluent and gushing it is, but whether the expression is sincere.
A little boy always loses his temper with others for no reason.
One day, his father gave him a pack of nails and told him to nail a nail in the fence every time he lost his temper.
The nails were soon gone, and the little boy gradually learned to speak well.
His father asked him to pull the nails from the fence again, and when the little boy finished pulling the nails on the fence, he found that there were countless small holes in the fence that could not be repaired.
Once verbal harm is formed, no matter how you make up for it afterwards, there will be traces.
Before you say it, think about whether your words will cause harm to others.
Don't take the unguarded mouth as true temperament!
Don't do things as you please
In the Analects, it is said that "if you are small and intolerable, you will be chaotic and conspiratorial."
How much regret and regret there is in life is caused by a momentary impulse.
The problems and sorrows we face today are also the result of a lack of thought before.
Everything in the world is a "degree" word, we often say "too much is too late", this characteristic of things requires us to do things to grasp the measure.
Pay attention to "proportions" in doing things, and be reasonable and decent.
In what position and what to do, this is divided into people, and does not exceed the authority and does not shirk responsibility.
Do things to pay attention to "proportions", know how to stop at the right time.
If you have enough money to spend, don't lose your heart in order to pursue fame and profit;
Forgive and spare others, and do not force others nor embarrass yourself.
Life is not a TV series, not what you want to do, you can do.
Don't be casual
"A gentleman does something, but does not do something."
Society has rules, but there are also temptations, so be principled.
There are always many temptations in life, and people also have an inferior side, but the reason why people are human is because they have the ability to control their desires and have principles.
People must have their own bottom line, even if they are kind, they should have their own dignity and view of right and wrong.
If people do not realize the value of life, they may choose to go with the flow, and life will become lifeless.
A chaotic, walking corpse-like life seems simple, but it is actually a waste of life.
Life needs to be taken seriously, and all people and things in this world are mutual.
You fool life, and life fools you.
People who live seriously, life will never treat you badly.
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