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At midnight, the topic of "the first Microblog of the Year of the Tiger" rushed to the hot search. Sure enough, most of the clicks are netizens' good expectations and wishes for the New Year.
The arrival of the new year, the moment the fireworks bloom, what kind of wishes did you make?
I guess most people's wishes are that their parents be healthy and their days will go smoothly, after all, family peace and joy are the first, and the rest is just icing on the cake. My wish is that in the new year, there will be stories that are truly worthy of praise.
You must have heard the term "highlight moment", now mostly used to express some proud moments, then do you remember in your own growth process, is there a highlight moment of your own?
I often can't believe that I am in my twenties, and the people around me are moving forward, going to school, working, talking about marriage, getting married, getting married and having children, as if only I am still stuck in my teenage years, even the joys and sorrows are still obviously expressed on my face.
I suddenly realized that time had added wrinkles and years to me, but it had not made me a qualified adult.
I used to think that when I was in my twenties, I would go north and south to see the mountains, lakes and seas, the sunset, but I didn't expect that now I had reached the age I had longed for, but I still had nothing, and I didn't even know what I wanted, or I was always looking for it.
I remember a quote from Haruki Murakami that said, "I wasn't prepared for twenty years at all, and I wondered, like someone pushing me from behind." ”
I think most people face their twenties, probably like this: rushed and ordinary. Instead of outstanding looks and no top-notch achievements, most of us may be greeted by the urge to grow.
To share a passage of what Luo Xiang said: "We are on the stage that we did not choose, and the performance is not the script we chose. You have two choices, one is to abandon the performance, and the other is to put the established script well. ”
While overcoming the anxiety brought about by age, I often jump back and forth between the two thoughts of "I am in my twenties" and "I am only in my twenties": in fact, I am still young, in fact, I still have many opportunities to change, in fact, I should listen to my heart more than the voices of the outside world.
It is better to look forward to the mountains and seas while patiently growing up, and grow up at your own pace.
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Growing up for me is a process of gradual reconciliation with myself.
I began to know what kind of person I wanted to be, and I also began to find myself an ordinary person, and began to accept my own ordinary and imperfections.
Although sometimes it is suddenly impossible to distinguish between priority and priority, it will blur what is most important in the moment, and it will feel that your life is like a pool of stagnant water, nothing new, but you are afraid of change. But in fact, it is the fear of being flustered and unprepared in the face of the unknown, and the fear and dislike of always not being able to do the best of themselves.
However, anxiety that we can't be perfect in the face of things does not solve any problems, not everything can develop according to our wishes, and not everything can achieve the results we expect.
Reconciling with ourselves does not mean that we should give up our original pursuits, but we must understand that for what we want, we will not waste our past efforts. Unsatisfactory, more desperate than you, that's more, but satisfactory is never the result of a strong demand.
The "sadness" that people experience can be passed, but after today, tomorrow will come back. Everyone has asked for it, and they have cried heart-wrenching tonight, and the next day they still have to act as if nothing happened, and then study and work as usual with a pair of swollen eyes.
Crying while walking, crying and then continuing to walk, everyone is like this to get to the present. That being the case, live as happily as possible, accept yourself more than anything else, and love yourself is the beginning of a lifelong romance.
Click "Watching", take advantage of the New Year's fireworks, and make a wish. May we all be interesting, hopeful, disaster-free, and difficult-free.