"Only the mother is good in the world, and the child with the mother is like a treasure..."
This popular divine song has been sung for generations, and almost everyone will hum a few words.
The crisp children's voice in the original song is a classic memory of a generation, and it is also a heavyweight tear gas in the memory of many people.
And its original singer is Siu Fong Fong, a superstar in the Hong Kong film industry in the 70s and 80s.
Those who know the history of Hong Kong cinema will know the status of Siu Fong-fang in the Hong Kong film industry, she is the queen of the film, and she is praised by director Wang Jing as the most outstanding actress.
However, she abruptly stopped at the most popular time, left the flashy entertainment circle, and turned around and went to the United States to study.
The great talent Huang Xia commented on Xiao Fangfang:
"Xiao Fangfang is a strange woman, who can be gorgeous, can be bland, has a wide range, and among friends, she is the first."
Many people have been pursuing fame and fortune all their lives and cannot get it, but Xiao Fangfang easily gave up.
She knows very well that the mainstream of society still looks down on the dramatists, and she still wants to study.
The most valuable thing about a person's life is not to be blinded by fame and fortune, and to clearly know what you want.
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When the red river is all over the river, the rapids retreat bravely
Xiao Fangfang was born in Shanghai in 1947, and originally, she had a happy childhood.
However, fate is uncertain, the business fails, her father dies, and a series of blows make her and her mother breathless.
It is said that the female is weak, and the mother is strong.
In order to support the family, my mother had to give up painting and switch to designing clothes.
Xiao Fangfang, who is only 6 years old, has also begun to get involved in the film industry and earn money to support her family.
At a young age, before he could taste the candy, he took up the burden of life.
Her first film "Little Star Tears" was sought after by the audience, and the encouragement of the audience also made the young Xiao Fangfang become fascinated by acting and couldn't stop.
Subsequently, she collaborated with Bruce Lee on "Lone Star Blood Tears" and "Mei Gu" with Lin Dai.
What really made her famous was the collaboration with the big star Hu Die's "Wanderings of the Bitter Child", and the theme song of the movie she sang, "Only Mother is Good in the World", has been widely circulated to this day.
The limelight of Xiao Fangfang in the 1960s was unimaginable.
In the movie "Girl's Heart", she played the triangle alone and danced eighteen dances, and the film caused an unprecedented sensation and was very popular.
In the movie "Snitch Red Rose", she played 10 roles, showing her singing and dancing, martial arts, and acting skills, which made thousands of fans fall for it.
As long as the film company signs a contract with her, it can immediately collect the deposit and start up.
Fame and fortune in the bustling world are most likely to be dazzling, so that the soul loses its original appearance.
Although it is highly sought after by fans, Xiao Fangfang is very clear that the mainstream of society still looks down on the dramatists.
She resolutely decided to study in the United States, and before she was admitted to an American university, she had no formal education, and even the tuition fees were earned by herself.
She abruptly stopped at the peak of her popularity and turned her head to run in other directions, a decision that shocked and disappointed many fans.
But she did not regret that the time she went to study in the United States was the most relaxed and comfortable time of her life.
No flash, no crazy fans, no strange eyes, twenty-year-old Xiao Fangfang finally made her true self again.
Her study abroad career made her understand the vastness of the world and her own smallness, experience a normal life, and she understands life better.
Director Wong Kar-wai said:
"Except for Sister Fang, there is probably no second person who can treat the glitzy smoke names of the world as lively and relaxed as she is."
Fame and fortune are not the only ones in life, and you cannot be willing to fall in pursuit of fame and fortune.
Those who regard fame and fortune as dung, which one is not living thoroughly and soberly.
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How many times can you be wrong to meet the right person
Xiao Fangfang fell in love with Xie Xian when she was young, but the two disagreed and eventually broke up. Xie Xian also kept saying in interviews that Xiao Fangfang was a very well-behaved girl and had a high opinion of her.
Xiao Fangfang and Xie Xian
After the breakup, Xiao Fangfang and Qin Xianglin became acquainted with each other because of the movie, and soon entered the palace of marriage.
Xiao Fangfang and Qin Xianglin
However, after marriage, Qin Xianglin still did not change his nature of spending a lot of money and small, and he was everywhere in trouble.
After having a scandal with Lin Qingxia, he couldn't wait to propose a divorce to Xiao Fangfang.
Xiao Fangfang just smiled slightly: "So anxious, but there is an object?" Then sign the divorce papers and turn away.
When love becomes a double-edged sword, whether to abandon the sword or continue to hurt, many people choose the latter.
How many times does a person have to be wrong before meeting the right person?
Fortunately, Xiao Fangfang's mistake finally came to an end.
She and Zhang Zhengfu were old acquaintances for many years, and when they were reunited at the dinner table, she found that she and this man were very compatible.
Xiao Fangfang and Zhang Zhengfu
"He knows what I like by inspiration, and even he wonders how he can know."
After the marriage, Zhang Zhengfu was invited to work for Australian television, and Xiao Fangfang once again abandoned the film to follow her husband to move to Australia, and only returned to Hong Kong with her husband three years later.
Xiao Fangfang said that in the three identities of her life, the roles of wife and mother are always above the actors.
After Xiao Fangfang became deaf, although the two could not communicate normally, many things could be tacitly understood.
He wrote letters at length and invented gestures just to communicate with her.
Xiao Fangfang praised her husband: "He is really a very patient man, otherwise he would have divorced his wife a long time ago." ”
True love is not necessarily a perfect match in the eyes of others, but a mutual fit between the hearts of people who love each other.
Xiao Fangfang is happy, because Zhang Zhengfu gave her exactly what she has been pursuing, all kinds of small happiness in the details of life.
May I accompany you to the long stream of thin water, stranded for a lifetime, until the two sideburns are white, the scenery is seen through, and you do not let go.
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The thing is whisked away, and the merit and name are hidden deeply
Xiao Fangfang sees the actor circle too thoroughly.
As an actor, it is most likely to suffer from gain and loss, and the newspaper has its own bad news, so you must panic. But if you don't have your own news, you must panic.
Once the actor becomes popular, her eyes are only full of herself, and the airtight around her is praise and praise, and the self is infinitely magnified.
"It's enough to live a film life in a quarter of a year, otherwise you will forget how big the world outside the film circle is, and forget your own smallness."
Xiao Fangfang does not like to always "me, me and me", because when she always mentions herself, people will become unable to see themselves.
She likes the big pattern of "brushing up clothes and hiding the merit and fame".
So she decided to take a step back and let more things come into view.
After suffering from an ear disease, Xiao Fangfang put all her energy into charity, and she set up a "nursery fund" to protect children from sexual abuse.
Her team has reached 800,000 students on how to prevent sexual abuse by producing the Nursery Nursery Curriculum, which has reached out to 800,000 students, and has set up a "Nursery Hotline" to provide support and counselling services to victims, violators and their families.
Xiao Fangfang said: "Sex education is best incorporated into the regular curriculum of the school from kindergarten, and the laws of society must also keep up." ”
In 2009, she received the Lifetime Achievement Award at the Academy Awards.
Since she could not hear the call of the host, she slowly got up under the reminder of the neighbor's seat. When she received the trophy, she had a faint smile on her face.
At the end of "Hudumen", Leng Jianxin, played by Xiao Fangfang, wants to bid farewell to the audience:
"I hope you don't forget me so quickly, a man who has struggled on stage for thirty years. I, cold sword heart, have no regrets in this life. ”
This sentence was also given to her fans by Xiao Fangfang.
Xiao Fangfang's life is like a movie, and those most wonderful parts are precisely the most difficult to describe in words.
Now 74 years old, she no longer appears in public frequently, but she still runs through the nursery fund. In the photo, she is not a little old, and her spirit is not at all like an old man over seventy years old.
As an actress, she played Bruce Lee's sister and Hu Die's daughter in her childhood, Played Lin Qingxia's love enemy in her youth, and played Jet Li's mother in her later years. She has been transforming all her life and has succeeded time and time again.
As a wife, she and her husband are sweet and sweet, loving to this day, always putting the role of their wives in the first place, following her husband to Australia, giving up her acting career.
Yang Mi said in "Strange Story": "Although many people say that they are sober in the world, they may not be really sober, and I think that sober people are people who are trying to live! ”
Sober people know exactly what they want or what they can withstand.
Xiao Fangfang is like this, she has been constantly enriching herself, and has different plans at each stage of her life.
She knew she should study, so she gave up her popular acting career to study in the United States; she knew that she had found someone to hold hands for a lifetime, so she followed her husband to Australia.
May the years be kind to Xiao Fangfang, and she will be able to live this life gracefully.
The image comes from the Internet
Author: Nan Xing, a student of Tang Xiaoxiao's writing class, birds fly far with luans and phoenixes, and people accompany virtuous and virtuous products to exalt themselves.