Yang Erche Nam, in the entertainment industry is definitely an outlier, just her origin, Mosuo people,
With a bit of mystery, he became famous for serving as a judge of happy male voices,
I like to pin a big red flower in my ear, and I am jokingly called "red flower god" by netizens.
Whether he is liked or scolded, the life of Yang Erche Nam,
Just like her personal image, she has achieved four words of shocking worlds.
Yang Erche Nam was born in 1970 on the shore of the beautiful Lugu Lake.
The Mosuo tribe, where she belongs, belongs to a rare ethnic minority, with a total number of only about 30,000 people.
The Mosuo people are also known as the last matrilineal clans in the country, and have always retained the original matrilineal social laws.
Those who are in charge and have prestige in the clan are all women, just like the daughter country played on TV.
Men and women are not bound by marriage and reproduce in the form of "walking marriage".
The ownership and upbringing of the newborn is also completely entrusted to the woman's family, and the man is not responsible for anything.
Therefore, there is a popular saying within the Mosuo people that the uncle is far more difficult than the father.
Yang Erche Nam grew up in such an environment.
Before walking out of Lugu Lake, she had never seen a highway or used electric lights.
Until the age of 13, she was fortunate to leave her hometown, and her life changed dramatically.
One day in 1983, in the village of Yang Erche Nam, several staff members of the Sichuan Cultural Center came.
They came to find a little girl who could sing local folk songs and was selected to go back to participate in the folk song competition.
Yang Erche Nam has been a "little lark" in the village since he was a child, and his singing is very good.
In addition, he is tall, has good appearance conditions, stands among children of the same age, very prominent,
In this way, she and three other girls were lucky to be selected to go to Chengdu to participate in the competition.
In this folk song contest, Yang Erche Nam finally won the first place.
It was also this trip that allowed her to experience many things that she had not seen in the past ten years.
For example, in the guest house, the waiter gently pulls the rope, and the light in the room is on.
This scene, at first, frightened Yang Erche Nam, because in her memory,
Only after lighting the pine resin oil he had cut from the trees on the back hill could the house be barely illuminated.
And that light was dozens of times dimmer than the fluorescent lamp she saw now.
That night, Yang Erche Nam had been turning on and turning off the lights in the room, repeating repeatedly,
She began to fantasize that if she could bring this lamp back to Lugu Lake for her family to use.
After seeing the prosperity and convenience of the city, Yang Erche Nam began to make up his mind to go out completely.
In the same year, Yang Erche Nam was admitted to the Shanghai Conservatory of Music with his excellent singing talent.
When she left home, she had only 7 eggs and a box of matches in her luggage, in addition to a few clothes.
From home to the place where the county takes the car, you need to walk through several pieces of primeval forest,
She walked for 5 days and 5 nights to reach her destination, and the process was very difficult.
According to the autobiography, after coming to Shanghai to study, the language barrier does not speak Mandarin.
It has become the biggest problem in front of Yang Erche Nam, in order to learn Mandarin as soon as possible,
She made Han Chinese friends everywhere, and it took her two years to achieve barrier-free communication.
After graduating from the Shanghai Conservatory of Music, Yang Erche Nam has a new goal.
That is to go to Beijing and find a bigger stage to show yourself.
I have to say that women with goals, the energy will be so great that you can't imagine,
In order to be able to enter the Central National Song and Dance Troupe in Beijing, Yang Erche Nam ran no less than 30 times,
Exhausted all the relationship connections she could think of, and finally the effort paid off,
In 1989, 19-year-old Yang Erche Nam finally entered the Central National Song and Dance Troupe as he wished.
After coming to Beijing to work, Yang Erche Nam made many friends in the local literary and art circles.
Among them also includes the host Venus, who is said to belong to the two who do not fight and do not know each other, and both like to be tied up in the area of Sanlitun.
In addition, the personalities of the two are my own, at first they looked at each other unfavorably, no one obeyed anyone, and then the time was long,
The two actually became good girlfriends, and Venus's child called Yang Erche Nam called Gan Ma,
Until now, the two have maintained a very deep friendship.
In 1990, Yang Erche Nam met a foreign photojournalist working at National Geographic magazine, Quail Egg.
The two quickly confirmed their relationship and got married with a license.
After marriage, Yang Erche Nam gave up his career in China and followed her husband to settle in San Francisco, USA.
Originally thought that it would be a new and beautiful life waiting for themselves, but the reality is a blow to the head,
The foreign husband cheated shortly after marriage, leaving only the dumbfounded Yang Erche Nam.
After the divorce, she did not speak a complete Sentence of English, without any work income,
In order to survive, she had to start with odd jobs and go to restaurants to brush dishes.
Nanny for rich people's families, etc., at most, she will take care of 4 odd jobs at the same time,
In addition, she also had to practice her spoken language hard, and under the experience of life, she finally regained her strength.
For this failed marriage experience, Yang Erche Nam did not tell too much in public,
It's just that the media has had a lot of rumors about the truth behind it.
Yang Erche Nam, who has always shown himself with long hair covering his ears, once revealed that his right ear was deaf,
As for the cause of deafness, it is caused by excessive stress and illness,
But some media broke the news that the reason for deafness is far more than that simple, Yang Erche Nam's ex-husband,
It was the initiator behind it that he personally cut Yang Erche Nam's ear, causing the consequences of deafness.
If this revelation is true, it can only be said that behind the failure of this marriage is a chicken feather.
However, for Yang Erche Nam, it is not all chicken and egg beating, at least she passed this transnational marriage,
He changed his nationality to the United States and became an international marriage walker with a green card.
For marriage, Yang Erche Nam said that he only interacts with foreign men, because no Chinese man "dares" to marry her.
In 1996, Yang Erche Nam met the Norwegian diplomat Shi Danwu by chance.
The man was several years younger than her, fell in love with her at first sight, and it wasn't long before the two fell in love and lived together.
The relationship lasted for nearly 7 years in total, during which time,
Yang Erche Nam also published several books, in addition to telling the story of the Mosuo people,
She also wrote her and Shi Danwu's love story into the book,
In the book, Yang Erche Nam even called herself "the ambassador's wife" and gave a set of statements about it.
According to the customs of the boyfriend's hometown, the 7-year history of cohabitation can already be regarded as a legal couple.
In addition, the way this relationship is maintained is also very special,
The two are often not together, on average 3 or 4 months to see each other, after a period of time and then parted ways,
It can be said that Yang Erche Nam copied the marriage of the Mosuo people into this relationship,
After a long time, the feelings have changed, and it is not strange.
After breaking up with Shi Danwu, Yang Erche Nam, who is already a writer,
Nature will not let go of this good material, so she put this broken relationship,
Wrote a new book, "China Red Farewell to Norwegian Blue", and stirred up a wave of topic heat.
In 2007, the "Happy Male Voice" program team of Mango Station found Yang Erche Nam,
Invited her to serve as a judge, she is well versed in the way of hype, and this time she finally became a celebrity.
In the show, Yang Erche Nam is often dressed up in big red and green costumes,
The most eye-catching thing is that she always has a bright red flower pinned to her ear, which is called the Red Flower Sect Leader by netizens.
In addition to the appearance of the eyeballs, Yang Erche Nam also does not take the usual path when commenting on the contestants,
Always grabbing words continuously, the words are very sharp, and some players have not yet finished singing a complete lyric,
She was interrupted and knocked off the stage, just like that, the show just broadcast a few episodes, she completely caught fire.
In addition, in the show, she often hangs her hometown Lugu Lake and the Mosuo people on her lips.
Not only did it publicize its new book, but it also drove the tourism of its hometown Lugu Lake, killing two birds with one stone.
Because of the happy male voice, after Yang Erche Nam became famous and became popular, more variety shows found her.
In 2007, Yang Erche Nam appeared as a judge in Chongqing Satellite TV's "First Heartbeat" program.
It was also on this stage that the "Ring Gate" incident, which became a sensation, occurred.
In the show, a contestant named Dai Chuang suddenly proposed to the judge Ke Yimin for a gift at the scene.
He said he was going to give it to another important person, under the coaxing of the audience,
Ke Yimin took off the ring on his hand and gave it to Dai Chuang,
Who knows, Dai Chuang turned his head and gave This ring of Ke Yimin to Yang Erche Nam,
Moreover, it was sent in the form of one knee, so that the atmosphere of the scene was instantly stirred to a climax,
At this time, another judge, Liu Xiaoqing, couldn't look at it anymore, so he asked Dai Chuang why he did this?
Under the guidance of Liu Xiaoqing, Dai Chuang was almost about to slip up, knowing that Yang Erche Nam, who knew that he was being used,
Instantly blackface, and pointed the spearhead at the culprit Ke Yimin, but Ke Yimin was obviously prepared,
Before Yang Erche Nam could succeed in attacking, she herself cried bitterly.
In full view of everyone, he threatened to strike down the program, as if he were the biggest victim.
The next day, the press release about "Yang Erche Nam angry cry Ke Yimin" was unfolded in an overwhelming way.
Because of this ring door incident, Yang Erche Nam, who was just red at the time, was pushed to the cusp of the storm,
The public image suffered an unprecedented Waterloo, and the variety show was later punished and suspended.
But two months later, the incident suddenly took a big turn, and the parties chuang in an interview with the media,
For the first time, he admitted that he was under the command of Ke Yimin, and acted out a play to help the other party suppress Yang Erche Nam,
After the truth of the incident came out, Ke Yimin was banned by the internal entertainment variety show because of his personality problems.
Although Yang Erche Nam is an innocent victim, his career has also been severely damaged.
Because after the ring door, the State Administration of Radio, Film and Television has rectified and modified the general environment of variety shows.
Similar hype is strictly prohibited, and there are stricter restrictions on the words and deeds of star judges.
In 2016, Yang Erche Nam recalled the ring door incident on Weibo that year, and seemed to still have a grudge.
After retiring from the entertainment circle, Yang Erche Nam did not sit idle,
She built a private museum in her hometown of Lugu Lake, which displayed an introduction to her growth experience and autobiographical books.
There are also collections she collects from all over the world, and there are cafes and guest rooms in the museum.
The museum is open to visitors and sells for 30 yuan because of her fame and has become a popular local tourist attraction.
In addition to the private museum, Yang Erche Nam also opened a flower room bar in Lijiang.
Created by herself, accompanied by flowers, music, and wine,
I have to say that Yang Erche Nam is too good at enjoying life, and he is also very business-minded.
In January 2018, after Li Xiaolu's derailment incident was exposed, what netizens who ate melons unexpectedly was that
Yang Erche Nam actually re-emerged from the jianghu and personally rubbed a wave of heat.
It turned out that when Yang Erche Nam was still developing in the United States, he was a good friend with Li Xiaolu's mother, Zhang Weixin.
One day, her American boyfriends Eric and Zhang Weixin released her pigeons at the same time.
With the woman's sixth sense, Yang Erche Nam ran to her boyfriend's house, and sure enough, she found that the two were "fooling around" together.
This matter was also written into the autobiography by Yang Erche Nam, but the name of the person was not mentioned in the book at that time.
Netizens who eat melons have also put this person Zhang Guan Li Dai on the head of the movie actor Zhang Yu,
Unexpectedly, after many years, the party Yang Erche Nam personally put on the real hammer,
To sum up this incident of being derailed with the sentence "If there is a daughter, there must be a mother", whether she is rubbing heat,
Or the true feelings, the only constant is that the personality is as strong as ever.
Although there are many people who hate Yang Erche Nam, in her hometown of Lugu Lake,
When the villagers there mentioned her, they all gave her a thumbs up and praised her.
If nothing else, just because the tourism industry of Lugu Lake, under the recommendation of Yang Erche Nam, completely caught fire,
And the villagers' income has also increased a lot, and for this alone, Yang Erche Nam is still commendable.
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