In the relationship, the people who become desperate immediately after the breakup are people who have been premeditated for a long time.
Obviously, I was very enthusiastic about you before, and after I started breaking up, I immediately became indifferent, although I didn't delete the blackout. But in the face of everything you do, he only responds with a few words. I don't want to communicate with you more.
Direct is cold treatment, leaving you alone in the same place to blame and doubt. Friends around you will also say that it may be that he has accumulated enough disappointment around you to make him feel like leaving you.
So unwilling to face, choose to escape. If you believe, then you will take the blame on yourself. But in fact, it is not because you are not good enough that the other party made such a decision.
Because when he feels that your feelings have cracked, he is already sane. And a decision has been made. It has been decided to leave you.
It's just that he waited for himself to completely let go of it before telling you. That's why when he offered to leave you, he was able to be so determined and rational. Because he had already passed this stage before.
In fact, such people are also quite selfish, usually the excuse for them to leave is that I am for your own good, but why do they choose to leave for my own good.
Shouldn't a problem be a problem? Instead of running away. To put it bluntly, the other party does not love you. Everything else is an excuse.
