Some time ago, the dead party came to me and told me that she was talking about the object. As a result, yesterday she ran again to say that she broke up, and righteously said that she would never talk about the object again, and even let me supervise her.
I didn't ask, and I don't know if she would regret saying it. It suddenly occurred to me that the teacher of the basic writing class had spent a big class discussing the problem of college love with us, and the teacher said it very interestingly, and the whole class was full of laughter. At that time, I was only in college, and between the teacher's narration, I don't know how many people's longing for love was aroused.
It is strange to say, I don't know when the word "in love" seems to have been lifted from the parents. During the winter vacation, my aunt's family was busy giving my brother a blind date, my brother was not much, and as soon as he slipped away, he was busy, while inquiring about the situation of the girl's family, while urging my brother to buy a house. Because I interjected, I was also urged to find a partner.
The answer they gave was that if they didn't talk about the object now, the good ones would be chosen and would regret it later.
01
"I just want an object"
Before seeing this topic on the hot search, I thought of the dead party's sentence "never talk about the object again". Nemesis has never been a person who is keen on falling in love, so even if I ask her if she will feel sorry after that, I believe that the affirmation will be a negative answer.
Before it was particularly popular, "don't skip class, don't hang up subjects, don't talk about the object, your university is incomplete." This sentence, many people even in order to seek excitement, to try these three things.
A high school classmate told me the story of a "love brain" classmate. As with the development of the dog blood series, the beautiful girl failed to stay with her lover, and after breaking up with her boyfriend, she suffered from depression, and her ex-boyfriend hugged another girl in front of her, and the girl finally dropped out of school, and every day she was sad in the circle of friends, as if she couldn't live without the boy. Later, things are even more bizarre, the girl found a boyfriend again, but still continued to repeat the same ending.
Classmates said that this girl is also stupid, originally a very beautiful girl, professional results are also good, not in this kind of thing can not think of.
Wouldn't it be a shame not to talk about campus love? Yes, after all, it is so "painful", and I still want to continue.
02
"I'm always accommodating and tired"
The classic sentence in "The Siege" is "Marriage is a siege, people outside the city want to go in, people in the city want to come out." "It is placed here that I will feel sorry for not talking about campus love, and after talking, most people will regret it."
The nemesis also mentioned to me yesterday a little reason for the breakup, and she felt too tired. "Always accommodating him, I'm really tired. He was the kind of person who completely ignored my thoughts, did whatever he thought, talked to him, and was too tired. ”
The two of them broke up very sharply, and there was nothing to be reluctant about. The nemesis said, "When I was still with him, I found that he was quite careful." I guess I didn't want to talk about it well, then it was just right, and I didn't want to talk to him so tired. ”
The dead party also laughed and joked, saying that people in love are slow to react to their thinking, thanks to her own sobriety and knowing who she is. Otherwise, if this trap is in, several horses will not be able to pull back.
Wouldn't it be a shame not to talk about campus love? No, after all, so tired, who wants to continue?
03
"It's not easy to meet like-minded people"
I remember that the basic writing teacher told us very seriously in that class: "The university will not hinder you from falling in love, but what you have to think about is how to live together after being together, how to be able to afford the future, not that when you are in love, you should be tired and crooked together every day, and there should be no one else to talk about, you are envious, and you want an idea." ”
"In short, it's okay to fall in love, but it definitely won't be in the first place. Because in college, you'll find a lot of things more fun than falling in love. ”
The teacher is not against college love, and he then revealed to us that he was invited to the wedding of his former students, laughing and saying that they walked from campus to the workplace and finally entered the marriage.
When you are in love, when you meet a like-minded person, it will always last a long time.
I met a schoolgirl who was in her senior year right away, and she and her boyfriend held hands when they were sophomores in high school. The two of them spent each other's difficult senior year of high school, one went to the ordinary second book, one did not take the exam to repeat the study, and now with me, in the medical university. Although they don't meet often, their feelings have not changed at all. Xuejie was preparing to go to graduate school, he was also helping her, Xuejie also quipped: "In high school, my biology was also tutored by you." Her boyfriend was laughing.
Once I asked my sister what if I didn't go ashore this time.
"Another year, anyway, he is now one year younger than me, and he is still studying in the medical university, even if I come back for another year, I will be faster than him, hahaha~" She also laughed.
I don't know much about their stories, except that they supported each other and survived their most painful periods.
It was only when I talked about them every time that I felt like I had become lemon essence.
04
"Falling in love is not the only thing on campus"
Towards the end of my sophomore year, I suddenly realized that many people in the class were in love. Talking to a roommate, she said I was closed-ended. "There are basically people in each dormitory, and there are six people in our dormitory." When she said this, I couldn't figure out the expression on her face.
Because she regretted that she had not been able to agree to a confession from a senior. It's too late now, the senior has already graduated, and it's hard to meet again.
Haven't talked about campus love regrets? Is it a pity that there is no love? Do you really have no regrets after talking about the object?
We will always indulge in the fictional campus love in the TV series, as if the protagonist in the story is the real us. However, we must know that not everyone can meet the person who is willing to accompany you from the school uniform to the wedding dress.
Falling in love is not the only thing on campus, but it is not easy to meet people with similar interests and can support each other.
When I think of exam week in the library revision, I always have a couple sitting in front of me, and boys will come early every day and carefully hit two glasses of water. When the girls came, they began to review. Boys tutor high numbers, girls tutor English, go to exams together, and come back together. Very plain, but it is a real scene of campus love.
True campus love should have a temperature, never bind the personality of either party, and be free. There are not so many edges and corners, it is pure.
Haven't talked about campus love regrets? Half and half.