In the hit drama "Sweeping The Black Storm", Luo Shanhe, the leader of the supervision group, is played by the famous actor Liu Zhibing. Although the years have left traces on his handsome face, the righteousness in his bones is still charming.
In real life, Liu Zhibing and his wife Ru Ping are a model couple. In 1999, the two each took their children and formed a remarried family.
Generally speaking, there are more contradictions in the second-marriage family, and there are more scandals in the entertainment industry, but Liu Zhibing and Ru Ping have become a model couple of second marriage, and now no one can leave anyone.
How did they go through these 22 years with true love and wisdom?
In 1963, Liu Zhibing was born in Hegang, Heilongjiang, and after graduating from the Provincial Art School, he was admitted to the Actors Troupe of Changchun Film Studio.
Liu Zhibing had a failed marriage, and his son Liu Sibo lived with him.
In 1995, in the movie "Armed Forces Behind Enemy Lines", Liu Zhibing played the traitor Ma Ming, and Ru Ping played the female martial arts team member Wang Xia.
Ru Ping is 3 years younger than Liu Zhibing and is the head of the Hangzhou Repertory Theatre.
In the play, Ru Ping hates "Ma Ming" to the bone, so that she enters the play too deeply, and she feels that Liu Zhibing outside the play is also bad. Therefore, from the opening of the film to the sealing of the camera, she has never looked at Liu Zhibing squarely.
Three months later, the filming of "Behind enemy lines" was over, and they went their separate ways.
The two were destined to have a relationship, and two years later, the crew of "All the Way to the Wind and Rain and One World" invited Liu Zhibing and Ru Ping to play the male and female protagonists.
At this time, Liu Zhibing's marriage has hit a rock, and Ru Ping has divorced her ex-husband Xi Tianying and lived with her daughter Xi Wang.
In the play "All the Way to the Wind and Rain", Liu Zhibing and Ru Ping play a couple, ru ping's delicate charm and Liu Zhibing's manly charm make each other feel excited.
After 4 months of getting along day and night, the relationship between the two deepened day by day.
As soon as the crew saw Liu Zhibing looking at Ru Ping's eyes, they understood and encouraged him: "You two are now divorced, and you both have children, just let's two get married, how happy a son and a daughter are!" ”
After this layer of window paper was broken, Liu Zhibing began to boldly pursue Ru Ping.
Ru Ping was also carefully observing Liu Zhibing and found that he was delicate and considerate, talking to her son on the phone every day, and speaking in a patient and gentle tone.
Ru Ping was deeply moved, and thought that a man who loves children so much must be a man who loves his family, and must also be a responsible good man.
On the night of the "All the Way to the Wind and Rain", Liu Zhibing bluntly confessed to Ru Ping: "Can you be my girlfriend?" ”
Ru Ping pondered for a while and sincerely told Liu Zhibing: "I also have feelings for you, but I am divorced and have a 6-year-old daughter by my side." ”
Liu Zhibing said: "I have also been divorced and have a son by my side. We both had 'drag oil bottles' and we were leveled out with each other. ”
Liu Zhibing's words touched Ru Ping, and the two immediately established a romantic relationship.
In 1999, Liu Zhibing took his son Liu Sibo and Ru Ping with his daughter Xi Wang, bought a 3-bedroom apartment in Hangzhou and formed a remarried family.
In general, children of remarried families have a grudge against their stepfather and stepmother.
Liu Zhibing's son Liu Sibo has a gentle temperament and talks and behaves like his father, so it is much easier for Ru Ping and Liu Sibo to get along.
However, Ru Ping's daughter Xi Wang did not accept Liu Zhibing' new father, and Liu Zhibing did not force her to be called "Father", but let her call her "Uncle" and took the initiative to get close to her.
Even so, Xi Wang was very resistant. Ru Ping was sandwiched between her husband and daughter, very embarrassed.
Liu Zhibing came up with a countermeasure, asked Ru Ping about Xi Wang's preferences, and when decorating the house, she equipped Xi Wang's bedroom with her favorite rag dolls, decorative paintings, etc.
Xi Wang, after all, is a child, and when he knew that the beautiful bedroom was designed and arranged by Liu Zhibing, he had a good feeling for him.
Xi Wang's relationship with Liu Zhibing became increasingly close, often calling him "good friend", and the relationship became more and more harmonious. Ru Ping's heart also blossomed happily.
Liu Zhibing and Ru Ping know that the stepfather and stepmother are most taboo about their respective children, and they must be a bowl of water flat in order to integrate the unrelated families.
Couples treat each other's children better than their own, pouring more love into each other's children and keeping this complex remarriage home running smoothly.
Liu Zhibing paid sponsorship fees to his son and stepdaughter respectively, and sent them to a key primary school in Hangzhou.
Ru Ping attended Liu Sibo's parent-teacher conference, and Liu Zhibing attended Xi Wang's parent-teacher conference. Every time the two children make any progress in their studies and personalities, the couple does not hesitate to say praise.
The brothers and sisters give the same amount of pocket money every week, which is 50 yuan.
Every time Liu Zhibing adds clothes, sneakers, and even buys a stationery box for the children, the price is the same, so that the children do not have ideas.
In terms of eating habits, Hangzhou people Ru Ping pays attention to less and fine eating, and makes several small dishes at each meal, making color, aroma and taste.
However, Liu Zhibing, a northeasterner, felt troublesome and put meat and vegetarian dishes in a pot and stewed them.
Xi Hope is not accustomed to eating Northeast chinese cuisine, Liu Sibo is not accustomed to Hangzhou cuisine, no one can change each other, but they eat together every day, and the discomfort in the stomach makes the heart twist.
Ru Ping set a next stipulation: If you eat Hangzhou cuisine at home, you must eat Northeast chinese cuisine at the next meal.
Over time, the two children slowly adapted to each other's tastes.
Although Liu Zhibing regarded Xi Wang as his own, after all, he could not replace his biological father, and he would drive Xi Wang to see his biological father every month.
Similarly, Liu Zhibing's ex-wife came to Hangzhou to visit her son Liu Sibo, and Ru Ping not only invited her to dinner at the hotel, but also made room for their mother and son to be alone.
The love of Liu Zhibing and Ru Ping makes the two children know more and more about humility and tolerance, and live in harmony like brothers and sisters.
In May 2002, Ru Ping unexpectedly found out that she was pregnant and planned to give birth to the child, but was strongly resisted by the brothers and sisters.
Liu Sibo wrote a letter to Ru Ping, saying that her mother was 38 years old and that it was too hard to take care of the family and shoot dramas. It is very dangerous for an elderly pregnant woman to have a child, and she and her sister do not want their mother to have another baby.
Xi Wang said more directly: "My brother and I are not your common children, and if you have your own baby in the future, you will definitely not love us again!" ”
Liu Zhibing and Ru Ping's hearts were disturbed, and they didn't know how to choose.
When Liu Zhibing and Ru Ping watched a Beijing television interview program, a remarried celebrity couple talked about their lives. The hostess mentions a detail of life: "My child and his children often bully our common children. ”
The audience erupted in laughter, but Liu Zhibing and his wife had a heavy heart and couldn't laugh out.
Ru Ping is an elderly mother who is dangerous to have a child, not to mention, the relationship between the remarried family is complicated, and if you add a child, I don't know how many unexpected troubles there are.
The couple reached an agreement, and Liu Zhibing accompanied Ru Ping to the hospital for abortion.
When they return home, they say that they will no longer consider the problem of having children, and will put all their fatherly and maternal love on them.
Liu Sibo and Xi Wang were moved to tears, and since then they have become more well-behaved and sensible, rushing to do housework, and their academic performance is among the best, which makes Liu Zhibing and his wife very pleased.
If Liu Zhibing and Ru Ping both go out to shoot dramas, they will gather less and leave more.
Ru Ping feels that family is more important than anything else, and coupled with the many praises she has participated in such dramas as "Wu Zetian", "Kangxi Dynasty", and "The Gate of the Great Mansion", she feels that she can retire and take good care of this family.
Liu Zhibing knows that his wife loves himself, but he feels that Ru Ping's stopping is a waste of acting talent, and said to Ru Ping: "You still go to work, you will find more happiness when you work, I don't want you to give up your work because of me." ”
Ru Ping froze for a moment and couldn't help but say: "Many men would like their wives to be full-time wives at home, you are good, I volunteer to be at home and you still don't approve!" ”
In the face of her husband's understanding, Ru Ping was deeply moved and loved this man even more in her heart.
In this way, Liu Zhibing and Ru Ping supported each other, and while running a good family, they also flew in their careers, and starred in dramas such as "Watching Happiness", "Adoptive Father", "Blood Rose" and so on, which were unanimously praised by the audience.
Because they are a husband and wife who have been together for many years, Liu Zhibing and Ru Ping cooperate tacitly, and basically every opponent scene is passed once.
Liu Zhibing, who plays mostly a tough soldier, was specially recruited by the Bayi Film Studio in 2007, and Ru Ping and a pair of children also settled in Beijing with him.
Liu Zhibing and Ru Ping bought a spacious and bright 4-bedroom apartment in Shijingshan, and their lives gradually entered a better state, and their remuneration rose steadily.
At this time, Liu Sibo and Xi Wang had entered the first year of high school, and boarded at the school from Monday to Friday.
Without the drag of children, Liu Zhibing and Ru Ping have their own living space. They play sports together, sing songs, and watch movies.
Now that they have more time, they suddenly find that there are so many shortcomings in each other.
Liu Zhibing is a typical northeast man, and he is the master of major events such as buying a house, decoration, and children's further education. In the past, he also asked Ru Ping's opinion, but Ru Ping did not give a clear answer every time, so he did not ask.
Once, Liu Zhibing's relatives in his hometown borrowed 200,000 yuan from him, and Liu Zhibing directly beat the money over and did not tell Ru Ping.
When Ru Ping washed her clothes, she pulled out the remittance receipt from Liu Zhibing's pocket and was very angry: "This family is not yours, people ask you to borrow so much money, you should at least tell me, you can't ignore my existence like this!" ”
Liu Zhibing retorted: "You have never interfered in family affairs, so why are you interfering again?" "The two had a very unpleasant fight.
Ru Ping is a full "Ma Daha", often throwing around, going out either forgot to bring a wallet, or forgot to bring the key.
Once, when Ru Ping was stewing ribs at home, she suddenly remembered that there were no eggs at home, so she hurried to the supermarket to buy eggs and forgot to turn off the fire when she went out.
By the time she returned home, the bottom of the pot had been burned through, almost causing a fire, and the home was filled with a pungent smell of burnt paste, and the property staff broke through the door to eliminate the danger.
Liu Zhibing reprimanded her fiercely: "They are all mothers, please don't you remember sex for a long time in the future?" What if it really causes a fire?
Ru Ping knew that she was wrong, but Liu Zhibing's tone made it difficult for her to accept.
When the husband and wife had friction, Liu Sibo and Xi Wang tacitly acted as lubricants for their parents.
Liu Sibo always sided with Ru Ping, and Xi Wang stood in Liu Zhibing's position, pointing out that his mother's was not.
The sensible child made Liu Zhibing and Ru Ping very pleased, if they quarreled again, what face would they have to face their children?
They also do not have any principled contradictions, so both sides amplify each other's advantages, tolerate some of each other's shortcomings, and gradually return to peace of mind.
Liu Sibo and Xi Wang inherited the excellent genes of both parents, multi-talented and excellent in academics.
In September 2010, Liu Sibo was admitted to the Performance Department of the People's Liberation Army Academy of Arts, and Xi Wang was admitted to the Performance Department of the Central Academy of Drama. Liu Zhibing and Ru Ping felt extremely honored and proud.
The siblings inherited the low-key style of their parents and never mentioned their parents' names outside.
Every time Liu Zhibing gives his children living expenses, he always has to give Xi Wang more and his son less.
Ru Ping asked her husband, "Why don't you end up with a bowl of water?" ”
Liu Zhibing smiled: "Girls love beauty, spend more money, only if they have enough money will they not be tempted by the outside world." ”
Ru Ping was very touched and treated her stepson more kindly. As long as Liu Sibo comes home from school, she will boil chicken soup to supplement the child's body.
Liu Sibo and Xi Wang both graduated from college, they did not rely on the relationship between their parents, and they took their resumes to the crew to audition.
When Liu Sibo got the first film remuneration, he bought a cashmere shawl for Ru Ping, and Ru Ping was very warm.
After Xi Wang got the film remuneration, he gave Liu Zhibing a cliff cypress pipe. Liu Zhibing loved it and said that the stepdaughter was a sweet little cotton jacket.
While his children are successful in their studies, Liu Zhibing has also ushered in the peak of his career.
In 2011, Liu Zhibing starred in China's first film on manned spaceflight, "Feitian", which was nominated for the Golden Rooster Award and the Huabiao Award for Best Actor.
In 2013, Liu Zhibing won the Huabiao Award for Best Actor for "Loyalty and Betrayal".
In 2017, Xi Wang married actor Guo Xiaoran.
At the wedding, Liu Zhibing tearfully said to her son-in-law: "Xi Wang has lived by my side for 19 years, I have not said a heavy word to her, I have not moved a finger of her, I hope that you will treat her well and give her happiness in the future." ”
Xi Wang also burst into tears and hugged his stepfather tightly.
In 2018, Xi Wang gave birth to a daughter in Beijing, and Ru Ping and Liu Zhibing were upgraded to grandma and grandfather.
Xi Wang has starred in many film and television dramas, and the audience is most impressed by her and her stepfather Liu Zhibing's "Amnesty 1959" and "Crossing the Yalu River", and the father and daughter go hand in hand in their careers.
In the impression of outsiders, there are many contradictions in the remarried family, but Liu Zhibing and Ru Ping know how to be humble, tolerant and considerate, and the relationship between the family is more harmonious than many original families.
Liu Zhibing and Ru Ping have been remarried for 22 years, and in the stormy years of mutual froth, the couple's feelings have become deeper and deeper. They feel that every day is full of sunshine, and every day is the beginning of happiness.
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