"Sense and Sensibility" tells the story of the marriage and feelings of two sisters.
Sister Ellie is sincere in her feelings, but always remains rational and does not indulge her feelings too much.
Sister Mariana is full of emotions, always unscrupulously releasing her feelings.
Although in the end both sisters harvested sweet love, the process was very tortuous.
First, unbridled feelings will eventually regurgitate themselves
Marianna is the representative of all teenage girls who are obsessed with love.
She is passionate about feelings, and she does not approve of her sister's conservative approach, believing that if she has feelings, she must be vented freely.
She and her boyfriend fell in love unscrupulously in front of everyone, and gave her love unreservedly to someone who was not worth trusting.
It is precisely because Marianne is blinded by love that she did not see the true face of the bad guy in time.
In the end, Marianne finally paid the price for her overflowing feelings: she fell seriously ill and nearly died.
In life, everything pays attention to the principle of moderation, especially feelings.
If a person excessively vents his emotions, does not care about the feelings of others, only for a moment, and does not plan for the future, then what awaits him in front of him is doubling his reaction.
In the final analysis, people are in various social relations, and they must always interact with others, and the secret of maintaining long-term communication is: the long flow of thin water, continuous flow.
For such a long life, if you burn out your own feelings or others' feelings for a period of time, then after the feelings wither, it is not only others who are hurt, but also yourself.
Feelings cannot lose control of the intellect, otherwise the feelings are likely to become a weapon to hurt people.
Second, feelings are true feelings, and reason is also true reason
In contrast to Marianna, her sister Elilo is a person who combines feelings and reason.
Ellielo will also have happy and sad times, and she has also suffered some hardships in love, but she has handled them well.
Even in the most difficult time, Elilo has not forgotten to communicate with everyone as a normal person, and to deal with various troubles in a good state.
In the face of her sister Marianna's questioning of herself, Elilo generously replied that she would also be sad for love, but even if she was sad and sad, she would not let negative emotions erode herself.
True mature people are like this, they face others, pay their own true feelings, and treat others with the greatest sincerity.
But they will temper their feelings, and they will not be overwhelmed when they are happy, and they will not lose their manners when they are frustrated.
They have a good balance of reason and emotion, not too little, not too much, to maintain a just right degree, to make themselves and others feel better.
The sadness of adults is to cry a lot, but while crying and boiling noodles, they will still add an egg to themselves.
After all, compared with the sadness of the moment, everyone understands that the days still have to go on, and after the wind and rain tonight, the sun will rise tomorrow as usual.
So no matter how sad a person is at a certain moment, remember that the star of reason will always rise after tears.