There is a saying: don't be afraid that you are not good enough, you are afraid that excellent people will work harder than you.
Victoria Beckham, a woman who gave birth to four babies and defended her rights many times in marriage, is now in her forties, but still maintains the face and figure of a girl, is it not terrible?
Since marrying XiaoBei, Victoria has been hidden from her popular hot girl name, thus becoming "Bei Sister-in-law".
This is a kind of destination for women in love, but it is a kind of self-decline for independent women.
However, Bei's sister-in-law did not sink because of this, whether it was "hot girl" or "Bei's sister-in-law", it seemed that it was completely unable to wrap victoria's thriving life.
If there is one word to describe the state of The Sister-in-law, it is young.
Born in 1974, she is actually already middle-aged, and she will run to the fifth person immediately, can you see a hint of old age in her?
Some people will ask: Why did Bei Sister-in-law give birth to 4 children, and in the marriage for many years to upgrade and fight monsters, is not old?
This is the result of self-discipline.
When it comes to bei sister-in-law's self-discipline, don't say that outside fans can't stand it, even Xiaobei can't stand it: I feel a little frustrated, even disappointed.
It turned out that in order to "freeze" her youth, Bei Sister-in-law had only eaten one kind of meal for so many years after marriage, simple and single, every day was so, and one meal was 25 years.
What kind of meal did Sister-in-law Becky eat? You may not believe it: grilled fish and steamed vegetables.
Don't think that Bei's grilled fish is fresh, fragrant, spicy and flavorful, but it is an original grilled fish sprinkled with a little salt, and what you want is a light.
It's okay to eat this kind of thing once in a while, but if you eat it every day, I'm afraid your taste buds will refuse to accept it.
And steamed vegetables, can you imagine what it tastes like? Why do our people cook and fry? In order to remove the astringency of the vegetable itself, thereby changing its discomfort with the mouth.
Usually, vegetables that can really be used raw are not widespread, at least, without the "accompaniment" of various seasonings, the ideality of the entrance is really poor.
Steamed vegetables are even more unimaginable: light and tasteless, and destroy the taste, and taste the same as chewing wax.
However, there is a little benefit that all foods take the steaming method with low calories and can also maximize the preservation of their nutrient content.
Imagine what kind of persistence and self-discipline is it for a person who lives in such a colorful state of life and eats a meal every day for 25 consecutive years?
We can't help but think of the lives of monks, it is true that they do not eat meat, but in today's highly civilized living environment, vegetarian dishes have already made a super delicious taste.
But Sister-in-law Bei kept the recipe for making her young, unchanged for many years. I am afraid that it is a conviction that is stronger than that of a monk to do so?
In this case, if she did not appear young, she would have been a little unable to resist the persistence of so many years.
There must be some people who can't believe that this is true, after all, it is easy to do it twice, and it is okay to stick to it for one year or two years, but if it remains unchanged for more than ten years, twenty years, it will be too difficult.
Xiao Bei once shared his wife's eating habits in a podcast, claiming that her wife's simple meals that are exactly the same every day have frustrated her a little.
In fact, what we see behind the home is helplessness, is the collapse.
After all, the temperature of a family comes from steaming meals, and the steaming dishes and grilled fish of the day like Bei Sister-in-law are too lacking in atmosphere, and even a little disappointed.
Don't say that Xiaobei can eat his own food, just think, a family sitting at a dinner table, you eat your box lunch, I eat my abalone wings, is this psychologically inexplicably difficult to accept?
Beckham said she had eaten every meal since he had known his wife.
The only time I made an exception was when I was pregnant, it was harper, the fourth. Perhaps out of a good mood or a pregnant woman's taste problem, So Bei sister-in-law did not insist on eating grilled fish and steamed vegetables.
Although Beckham had forgotten what his wife had eaten at the time, that night was enough to excite him, claiming it was his favorite night.
You see, this is reality, this is life. When couples can be on the same channel, the index of a happy life is the highest.
Unfortunately, Sister-in-law Bei is not the kind of person who cares about what others think, for her: what I think myself is the most important. Therefore, in order to be young, in order to maintain her figure and physical function, she firmly believes that her diet will not change for 25 years.
During this time, she would occasionally add a piece of salted whole grain toast to the same meal.
Whenever you eat such a bread that others least want to eat, you will have the feeling that life has become happy: a great sense of comfort.
Usually through various festivals, Bei Sister-in-law will not make an exception, it seems that her life is only grilled fish and steamed vegetables.
In the face of light and tasteless food, her self-discipline is reflected, and at the same time, her youthful state is also consolidated.
This is the person who is better than us, but at the same time works harder than us, right?
Sister-in-law Bei's life is not short of wealth, there is no shortage of reasons for dinner, but she will never change her firm beliefs because of these "excuses".
While her husband was eating delicious steaks, fresh salads, and high-grade red wine, her sister-in-law was slowly consuming the dull food in front of her.
Is this life happiness or faith?
In fact, for most people, when there is a change in life, there is a need for a change called celebration, which is called ritual.
The "incomprehensible" sister-in-law never needed such a sense of ceremony, even if her husband had just signed a £150 million endorsement contract, even if the family added a luxury yacht worth 5 million pounds, she was still unmoved.
Years of persistence have given her the style of maintaining her own youthful state, and also given her the status of not falling in the fashion circle for many years.
Even if the eldest son is 22 years old, standing with her, he still can't see the reality of Bei's sister-in-law Ben Wu.
If you say that there is a reward for paying, I think this is the biggest gain behind the self-discipline of Bei Sister-in-law, right?
However, Bei's sister-in-law may not only pay for persistence and self-discipline, because so many years of dog blood life have proved that her marriage is not perfect.
David Beckham cheated on him several times, and the kids (especially the eldest Brooklyn) didn't get anywhere.
What she has to do every day is too tedious: pay attention to her husband's dynamics, worry about inexplicable women suddenly "breaking out of the siege"; pay attention to the development of her son, and prepare them for various expenses for love and marriage.
This life is really very "wonderful", as a wife and mother, Bei sister-in-law may have entered a strange circle of life: to stay young, in order to keep the marriage, in order to give the children a happy family.
She put all her bets on the "frozen age", as long as the "youth" is still there, nothing is a problem.
This way of solving the problem, I am afraid that few people can do it. No wonder Xiaobei cheated many times, but eventually "fell in love with Victoria again." ”
But what is life?
For the world, pride must be king. Blindly pursuing immortality and pursuing youthfulness, I am afraid that what you pay is the real joy of life.
Sister-in-law Bei guarded a "fairy tale" marriage written by herself, and used her self-discipline to move forward firmly, although it looked very touching, but the detailed taste inexplicably produced a bitter feeling, do you think?