Xiaoming after the official divorce seems to be no different from before.
He still likes to share his daily life on the public platform, and still sends whatever he wants.
On February 8, Xiaoming excitedly confessed on Weibo that Gu Ailing, who had just won the championship, was full of admiration between emotions.
Soon after, he was in the same frame with other actresses and used the same special effects when filming Douyin, resulting in both of them being sent to the hot search.
Netizens were excited, they matched the two people, and finally a sentence from the woman: "We are brothers", successfully clarified the relationship.
It turned out that they were just filming together in the crew, so the interaction was naturally more.
As for the ab side, it was also calm as usual.
On the eve of Valentine's Day, some netizens met her shopping with a small sponge, although it was only daily attire, but it was still girlish.
This inevitably reminds people of another "teenage mother" - Yang Mi.
From Xiaoming and ab no longer interacting with the same frame, changing their titles, and not responding positively to the rumors, to the official announcement of divorce on the day of the election, this way of gradually diluting the relationship between them has been identified by many netizens: "Ab is taking the road of Yang Mi." ”
ab, did it really become Yang Mi 2.0?
I don't think so.
Xiaoming and Ab's marriage is not a copy of Liu Kaiwei and Yang Mi.
It seems to be the same destination, but in fact, there are many differences.
I think that back then, Liu Kaiwei and Yang Mi were also like glue during their passionate love.
But after entering the marriage, it was because of the geographical and psychological distance, and finally went against the road.
Because of their work, they have been separated for a long time, each busy, and the opportunity for communication is becoming less and less.
Even if Liu Kaiwei once went deep into the mainland to develop, he did not eat up the dividends because his wife was Yang Mi.
This probably has to do with the difference in their values in their careers.
In an interview, Liu Kaiwei once talked about the difference between himself and Yang Mi: "I am more artistic, and Yang Mi is more commercial."
Despite this statement, Yang Mi did not agree, and clearly responded: "I do not agree."
But it is enough to glimpse the real feelings of Liu Kaiwei when he was in this marriage, and he has insight that they are not fellow travelers.
The two people who should have held hands and moved forward had different directions of progress, and the pace gradually changed in size.
Yang Mi did not stop and wait, nor did he bother too much because of some gossip, disrupting his plan.
Instead, choose the right time to part ways with a low profile.
Later, everyone knows the story: she continues to be red half of the sky, and he gradually becomes a little transparent.
They are still the parents of Little Sticky Rice, but they are no longer lovers.
Because of the divergence of values and the insurmountable chasm, they become familiar strangers.
The marriage between Xiaoming and Ab, from the very beginning, involved various interests.
Before the two people met, they were originally just two parallel lines, working in their respective fields.
Xiaoming, who was born as an authentic science actor, has been running in the daily life of various auditions before graduating.
Until he accidentally got the starring role of the TV series "Han Tianzi", he was lucky to become famous in one fell swoop.
Ab is a model, in order to find a better development, she signed a japanese model agency, went to Japan to debut, in a foreign country, living very hard.
Later, she returned to Hong Kong to find a new way out and began to appear frequently in Hong Kong movies.
On the screen, the pure image allows ab to successfully attract the attention of the audience, and the popularity is there, but the reputation is mixed.
Plastic surgery rumors and love affairs, which have become more and more deeply exposed in major media and on the Internet, have become one of the restraints on her development in Hong Kong.
Until she met Xiaoming, her life ushered in a new turn.
When Xiaoming first met Ab, he thought she was simple and cute, took good care of her, and always persuaded her to develop in the direction of an actor.
In order to bring Ab, Xiaoming let Ab participate in his own MV, introduced her to audition, and even pushed off his own schedule in order to play for her partner.
With the help of Xiaoming's god, ab quickly opened up its popularity in the mainland and ushered in the explosive period of entertainment industry resources, during which it even exceeded Xiaoming's commercial value.
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Some people describe ab as a typical silk flower, relying on Xiaoming's resources to successfully become popular, and building his marriage on the basis of interest exchange.
In fact, she said very early on: "I don't like to be attached to other people." ”
This, after she became popular, was gradually verified.
She has more far-reaching ideas and plans for the direction of her career.
Although still accompanied by ridicule, her commercial value is undoubtedly soaring, and she has become the endorsement darling of many luxury big names.
With the development of the two in the business sector, this marriage mixed with interests has become a mysterious one.
After dividing up the interests, they chose to maintain a superficial peace and jointly announced the divorce.
One by two, this should be their best ending.
It can't be said that there is only ab reality, after all, the time when the husband and wife were together, each other ushered in a higher peak of their careers, and now looking back and deeply investigating why this relationship has come to an end, both of them should have a bottom in their hearts.
When the relationship of interests is higher than the relationship of marriage, the feelings will naturally die out.
At the beginning of entering the marriage, couples who infiltrate the relationship of interest into the feelings of marriage are most likely to change from lovers to enemies.
Just like Li Guoqing and Yu Yu of Dangdang.com.
No one thought that this couple, who were openly torn apart on the whole network, had also been very affectionate.
When the two first met, Yu Yu was like a fan, admiring Li Guoqing's talent.
Li Guoqing is a talented man of Peking University, and he has also been full of spirit and has a career ambition in his heart.
But his personality is hot, lack of composure, for entrepreneurship, only have the motivation but can not hold the breath, which can be very deadly.
In order to help his lover bravely move forward on the road of his career, Yu Yu gave up his career in the United States and returned to China to help him without hesitation.
Li Guoqing said that he wanted to build an online book city, and Yu Yu did not say a word and was busy for him, and finally pulled the first start-up funds.
Li Guoqing's remarks on the public platform are extreme, and Yu Yu always defends him without thinking, and tries to explain for him, calling him a "person in temperament, compared to two".
In the face of this woman who is willing to give everything for herself, Li Guoqing was also deeply moved and decided to put her at the tip of her heart and take good care of her.
If they can always support each other, maybe the couple will achieve a good story.
However, with the divergence of interests and the struggle for power, this war without smoke of gunfire began to become more and more intense, seriously consuming each other's feelings.
Li Guoqing scolded, describing Yu Yu as the Wu Zetian who seized power and made himself cornered;
And Yu Yu also issued a long article exposing Li Guoqing's true face and exposing his corrupt private life.
Once a model couple, now they have become a joke after dinner among netizens (mainly to see Li Guoqing's jokes).
More and more netizens felt that Yu Yu's original struggle was not worth it.
No one can guarantee that the marriage will end from one end, and not all couples who have built a career will turn against each other.
But at least remember that when deciding to enter a marriage relationship, you must first rely on yourself, become yourself, and then mutually beneficial.
Maintaining their independence and being able to watch over each other and help each other is more sincere.
When the proportion of interests in marriage exceeds the emotional basis, and anti-guest-oriented has become the main factor over marriage, the marriage is doomed to only drift away.
Marriage and interests should not be a pair of enemies, but they are easy to become enemies.
But then again, it's better to get together and disperse than to fight a long-lasting melee, isn't it?