Xie Bingying said in "Green Window Message": Only people with rich emotions can have a great interest in literature.
The biggest role of literature is to let women read other people's stories and get their own growth.
In the process of reading, it is both a nourishment of the soul and an emotional resonance.
It can be said that reading is the fastest growth and the best way for a person, especially reading a good book.
Reading is the best growth
As a famous female writer, Xie Bingying has written more than 80 kinds of works, nearly 400 books, and more than 20 million words in her lifetime, and these achievements have benefited from her continuous reading.
In The Green Window Message, she replied to a letter from a reader like this:
Reading can cultivate the soul, enlighten life, help form a correct outlook on life, so that the loser is not discouraged, and continue to struggle hard, she can reflect the reality, go deep into the folk, and guide young people to embark on the road of truth, goodness and beauty.
Indeed, reading is a shortcut to the lowest cost and fastest growth for everyone.
There is a saying that there are three kinds of people, one is prophetic and foreknowledge, and the other is hindsight and hindsight, unconscious.
Most of us are hindsighted people, so we need to read more to receive more of the prophet's knowledge, which is also the best way to promote personal growth.
So how to read books to make people grow faster?
First of all, choose a good book before reading. There are many people who have read books for more than ten years and more than twenty years, and still have not lived a life, but will get worse and worse.
The reason is that because the choice of books is not correct, if you only read some cool texts, or read them in a sloppy manner, you will not only be more skeptical of life, but also produce "reading useless theory".
Second, read more classics. For example, books with fluent writing and rich content, read less best-selling literature and read more classic books of famous artists;
Finally, carefully chew the plot of each work and absorb the essence. It is necessary to know more about the source of the subject matter of the work, as well as the author's thoughts, outlook on life and the structure and rhetoric of the work.
In this way, deep reading is achieved, and personal growth is promoted through reading, and only by deliberately practicing reading on the ground can we grow faster and better.
Reading makes people live more and more advanced
Reading books can make people wise and know what is good and what is bad.
And know what's so good about it? What's the bad? How to turn bad into good?
This is the sense of luxury that reading brings to people. That is to say, when looking at a problem, you can not only see the appearance of the problem, but also see the essence through the appearance.
Taking reading as an example, we judge whether a book is good or not, and we can identify it according to several aspects:
First of all, the text is fluent but not fluent. If the writing is good and the sentences are fluent, then this book is worth reading;
Second, the story is not moving enough. That is to say, it is difficult to make people empathize with things that are very difficult to read, and only the more grounded the story, the more it can help people solve real problems;
Finally, clarify the author's purpose, the background and theme of the characters. Only by knowing why it is so, knowing why it is so, can we better understand and read a book thoroughly.
So how does the method of reading books allow us to gain a sense of superiority in life?
In fact, if you think about it, we can also cultivate a sense of seniority in life according to the method of reading, if it is just commonplace, it is not bad with what others think and do, it is difficult to make a difference.
But isn't it comfortable to live this way? Did this life impress me? What is the meaning and core of life?
You see, is this the method of reading directly used to cultivate a sense of high-class life?
That's why it is said that reading is to integrate the truth of all things, once we grasp the underlying logic of reading, then we want to apply to any one thing, it is feasible.
Reading is lifelong growth
I have always liked the idea that not all readers are beneficial to open books.
Some books, reading more books not only do not have a positive effect, but have great disadvantages.
Xie Bingying told such a story in "Green Window Message":
One student went to her to borrow books, and as soon as he opened his mouth, he borrowed ten copies.
This made Xie Bingying wonder very much, thinking that according to the speed of students, they should not read so fast.
The student said proudly: Ten books is not enough for me to read for three days, sometimes I have to read four or five books a day?
It turned out that the student was turning over the front, turning over the middle, and then flipping over the back and jumping to read. What's worse is that she only reads love stories and is impatient to read word by word.
As the old saying goes: slow work makes small work.
"Fast" reading like this is useless at all, it can only consume more time and energy, and pretend to be very diligent.
Think about it, have we ever made such a mistake? Many people love to read, but they chew on stories and feelings, but they do not really immerse themselves in the original mood of the work.
It is impossible to grow up in such a sloppy reading, and if you really want to grow, you must be like Xie Bingying wrote in the "Green Window Message":
First, read a book that is good for you. Only by choosing some books that are beneficial to physical and mental health and can increase experience and wisdom can we be regarded as having the ability to grow for life;
Second, read more and write more. Reading is to increase knowledge, and writing books is to integrate what is learned;
Finally, keep going. In the process of effort, neither stop halfway, nor is it easy to be ambitious, let alone look high and low.
Xie Bingying said: The more you go to the cold place, the faster and better the plant grows, and the flowers bloom particularly brilliantly.
The words are like this, people are like this, only a person who has experienced the process of pain and hard work can get better growth, and can make his life more and more wonderful through reading.
This is the lifelong growth brought about by reading, and it is also the only way for a person to lead to beauty.
And man is the spirit of all things, but also should have the ability to struggle with the environment, to overcome all material and spiritual difficulties, in order to usher in their own bright and ideal future.
This "Green Window Message" is 40 hot and warm letters written by Xie Bingying, with reading methods, writing methods, material collection, and attitudes towards love and marriage, which is very suitable for adults and children to improve their literary literacy and nourish their hearts.
Therefore, if you want to solve the problems in life, work, and feelings, you can change your mentality and change your behavior by reading books, take struggle as the foundation, take efforts as the cornerstone, and meet your own beautiful life.
Only when we leave our comfort zone, overcome all kinds of delays and difficulties, and continue to work hard, can we become a person with a sense of superiority and have growing skills.