Carnegie, the father of modern adult education, once said: "If you are humble on the road of life, you can be wide in the world." ”
Women know how to give in, in order to harvest more luck. Women never speak up, and it is the real wisdom and foolishness.
Smart women never make much fanfare, and she hides her edges in life. No
Communicate with other people so that you don't leave a handle on others.
Leave your own affairs to yourself, and some secrets must be kept in mind.
If you want to live happily, you can't do everything in detail. If a woman is too smart, she will only be smart and will be mistaken for being smart.
A woman who grasps the measure of life and is wise and foolish is the real hidden.
Over forty years old, smart women understand a truth: "pretend to be stupid."
Only by not saying a word on a daily basis can we get away from the noise in a silent way
The novelist Xin Yiwu once said: "A lifetime is so long, a day has not come to an end, you don't know which one is the one who accompanies you to the end." Sometimes you meet a person and think it's her, and then look back, in fact, she just gave you what you wanted along the way. ”
Not everyone can accompany you to the end, and not everyone deserves your trust.
If you entrust yourself to give it without reservation, others will only take advantage of your kindness.
Do not know how to refuse, women can only be bullied. Establish a clear point of view so that others can see you differently.
To reject ineffective socializing, women must learn to "pretend to be stupid."
If you have always been in a state of not knowing, others will not easily disturb you.
Others talk about your stupidity behind your back, but he never thinks that you have other intentions.
You won't do anything, and others won't bother you all the time.
Women have always been in a state of ignorance, and the people around you will not invite you to the party.
Outsiders think that you are a person who does not smile, and he will also joke about your incomprehensible style.
Outsiders can't see what you really think, and they cleverly alienate you.
In fact, dealing with stupid people requires a "stupid" approach, and pretending is particularly important.
You pretend to be childish in front of outsiders, so that you will not be deliberately harassed by others.
You are a quiet person, and you must not force yourself to fit into the wrong circle.
If you can't even control your own happiness, your life will only be full of troubles.
Establish an image of bad words at the beginning, and the other party will retreat from the difficulty.
Don't deal with hypocritical people, high-quality social skills can promote the improvement of personality.
I don't want others to know, so I quietly handle everything
Writer Yang Xiwen said: "Life is a process of accumulation and thin hair, I am willing to continue to learn, see the progress of myself every day, a little closer to those seemingly distant dreams." ”
You are a person who has accumulated thick and thin hair, and you must accumulate strength in the early stage.
Quietly improve in one's world and don't share the process of effort with anyone.
In the workplace, everyone is your opponent, everyone is spying on your life, and once you hand over everything, you are doomed to lose.
Don't trust other people, you can only believe in yourself in this life, no one can put yourself in your shoes, you have to focus all your attention on yourself.
Immersing oneself in one's world is to shine one day.
Others don't know what you're doing, but you've seen it all.
You have reached the state of knowing yourself and knowing the other, and you can never lose a battle at all times.
You complete a gorgeous transformation in an unexpected moment, and others will surely look at you with surprise.
Everyone can talk big, but not everyone can make their dreams come true.
Everyone dreams, but not everyone can reach the other side of their dreams.
The interaction between people can only stay on the surface, and not all people will take care of you from the heart.
You treat the other person as a friend, but the other party will only use you as a tool to use.
Women are not moved in life, and others cannot feel your true strength.
You are always in a state of indifference, and you will not cause trouble.
Without the blessing of strength, women must not be hyped up. Wait until the time is ripe to usher in your own world.
Don't say anything, and action is often more convincing than words.
No one will feel sorry for your efforts, you must be the ultimate winner.
There are difficult scriptures in the family, and you don't have to care about the joys and sorrows of outsiders
The writer Hayao Miyazaki once said: "Recognize the world, and then love it, just like this for a lifetime, the next life you may not be in this world, some troubles, throw away, there is a chance to be light." ”
When you recognize the development of the world, you can enjoy every day of life.
Embrace the beauty of nature and leave your excess worries behind as soon as possible.
If you don't understand anything, you can reap better happiness.
The person who troubles herself is the most pitiful, and she will always be influenced by others.
Always punishing herself for the mistakes of others, women can not live their true appearance for a lifetime.
Having been emulating other people's lifestyles, women will never be able to meet their own expectations.
Women are always indecisive in life and will only fall into endless darkness.
Think more about yourself, and you won't beg for it. Other people's lives have nothing to do with you, so don't focus on other people's emotions.
Pretend not to see, not to see and not to be upset, just treat that nasty person as air, he has nothing to do with you.
Learn to pretend to be stupid, in order to harvest a real ease. Don't care about the disturbances of the past, in order to achieve true love.
Women who can talk to everyone and are open-minded and generous never nitpick.
She has long forgotten the past love and hate, and women with broad hearts will bravely look forward.
Only by truly letting go will we not be entangled in the heart.
The days ahead are full of beauty, and you must not stop moving forward.
An insignificant person is not worth your big fight, and there is never anything empathetic in the world.
Such as people drinking water, cold and warm self-knowledge, do not argue with others, do not entangle with themselves, look down on a little, there is no obstacle in life that cannot be overcome.
Put your mind a little shallower, you must not torture yourself.
If the life in front of her is smooth sailing, women must know how to be happy. Playing dumb properly can you discover the beauty hidden in life.
Big things are small and small things are good, and the confrontation can not get any results, and everything can be laughed at and enmity, which can reflect the high emotional intelligence of women.
The wise woman has long been able to settle down with the encounter, and she will not worry about ordinary people at all.