In 2002, Shen Dianxia's new interview program "Behind the Applause" was launched.
What is unexpected is that the guest who appeared on the scene in the first issue was actually Zheng Shaoqiu.
At this time, the "fat sister" Shen Dianxia was 55 years old, and it had been 13 years since their failed marriage.
But after the end of this episode, Shen Dianxia still couldn't help but ask her ex-husband Zheng Shaoqiu a question: "In these ten years, have you ever tried, and really liked me?" ”
Hand in hand with the lover of more than ten years, she actually asked "tried".
Zheng Shaoqiu's answer is also very worth savoring: "Wow, I really like you, you are really good to me." ”
Not "you're good," it's "you're good to me."
Shen Dianxia cleverly did not ask again, ending the topic with a sentence of "Thank you very much".
She had spared no effort to win the red Zheng Shaoqiu, and despite the persuasion of her best friends, she also wanted to be with him.
More than ten years of effort, half a lifetime of entanglement, in exchange for this sentence "I like you well".
Compared with Shen Dianxia's obsession, Zheng Shaoqiu's emotional history is much more "wonderful".
He experienced 4 relationships, 3 marriages, a total of 4 daughters, a proper "father-in-law's life".
But although these 4 daughters are the same father, they live completely different lives.
One, like Zheng Shaoqiu, is a stranger, one, self-reliant and self-reliant in his career, one, the debauchery-shaped skeleton has a chaotic private life, and the last one is a pampered little princess.
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Zheng Shaoqiu was a well-deserved male god in the 80s and 90s.
At that time, the Hong Kong entertainment industry was the most lively time, handsome men and beautiful women emerged in an endless stream, and many classic works and characters were talked about by the audience until now.
His ancient costumes are a combination of style, heroism and elegance, whether it is Chen Jialuo in "Book of Swords and Enmity", or Chu Liuxiang, the "Xiang Shuai" in "Chu Liuxiang", and then Qianlong Ye in "Joke about Qianlong", all have a different flavor.
At that time, there was no selection of "Four Beauty in the End of the World", but as long as there was an inventory of costumed characters, Zheng Shaoqiu would definitely be among the best.
Probably good-looking people are always more likely to harvest love.
Speaking of Zheng Shaoqiu's love life, people will always think of his past with Shen Dianxia.
But in fact, before this, Zheng Shaoqiu had already had a short-lived de facto marriage.
Zheng Shaoqiu has a fondness for acting since he was a child, and applied for the artist training class at the age of 16. at
During the training class, he met Lu Huiru, who was also a trainee.
The love of youth is always as warm and brave as a moth to a fire.
Love brought the young couple together despite the opposition of their families, and before they were 20 years old, the two began to live together.
Although there was no wedding ceremony or registration certificate, the two have become a de facto couple.
Soon, the young couple had the crystallization of love, and this lovely girl was named "Zheng Anyi".
But the love of young people is vigorous when it comes, and it is equally resolute when it goes.
After 3 years of love, Zheng Shaoqiu and Lu Huiru's living habits and personalities have never been able to achieve harmony, and their love has come to an end.
Lu Huiru took the child away without authorization, and the two broke up. Zheng Anyi also left her father and was raised by her mother.
As a new father, he was still a half-sized son, and with the gradual busyness of work later, Zheng Shaoqiu did not know how to be a good father. The intersection between him and Zheng Anyi is limited to providing for his daughter's life and study.
But after Zheng Anyi graduated from university, Zheng Shaoqiu was no longer needed to provide her with schooling, and the two also lost contact.
When Zheng Shaoqiu talked about this daughter, he once said: "I have regrets for her. ”
Then he said with a little pity: "I don't know if I recognize it when I walk on the street now." ”
His words should be directed at his daughter.
After all, Zheng Shaoqiu has been in the industry for more than 50 years, and her daughter will definitely know his face.
But for him, who has not seen his daughter for many years, it may be that he really "does not know each other when they meet each other".
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After a brief marriage with Lu Huiru, Zheng Shaoqiu did not give up looking for love.
In the program "Happy Tonight", he met the "Hong Kong singer Queen" Sensen and developed into a couple.
But about Lu Huiru's love affair and daughter Zheng Anyi, Zheng Shaoqiu chose to hide it.
Later, with the intervention of Sen Sen's mother, Sen Sen swung his sword and decided to break up with Zheng Shaoqiu.
At this time, Zheng Shaoqiu and Shen Dianxia were filming in the same crew, and Shen Dianxia and Sensen just happened to be friends.
Sen Sen took the breakup letter to Shen Dianxia and asked her to hand it over, Shen Dianxia thought that the two Hongyan had exchanged heartfelt complaints, and after handing it over, he also teased Zheng Shaoqiu and asked him to invite guests to have morning tea.
Unexpectedly, after Zheng Shaoqiu read the breakup letter, a person hid in the corner of the kitchen and cried, just happened to be bumped by Shen Dianxia.
Originally, I thought that Zheng Shaoqiu's pair of peach blossom eyes must be Shen Dianxia, who was a flower heart, but unconsciously had pity for Zheng Shaoqiu.
So she began to run forward and run to relieve Zheng Shaoqiu's depression.
A letter of renunciation led to a bad relationship between "Fat Sister" and "Qiu Guan".
Shen Dianxia is kind and cheerful, and also has excellent popularity in the circle.
In order to support her boyfriend's career, she used all her resources to pave the way for Zheng Shaoqiu, and only then did she have Chen Jialuo, Qianlong, and Chu Liuxiang, who were extremely popular.
In order to take care of Zheng Shaoqiu, in those years, she even gave up her hard-working career and followed Zheng Shaoqiu to Taiwan to develop a career.
But Shen Dianxia's efforts were not exchanged for the same return.
In 1984, Zheng Shaoqiu filmed "The New Biography of Chu Liuxiang" and met Jinghua, the female number two official.
Guan Jinghua was 17 years younger than him, and he was only in his early 20s at that time, which was a beautiful and beautiful youth.
The two soon spread the gossip.
Shen Dianxia learned of the relationship between the two and was in pain, but Zheng Shaoqiu denied it at that time.
In order to prove his innocence, he even said to Shen Dianxia, "We are married."
This was the moment that Shen Dianxia had been looking forward to for many years, but it was not the look she was looking forward to in her heart.
In 1985, without even a wedding dress, Shen Dianxia wore an old blue cheongsam and became Zheng Shaoqiu's wife.
Getting married in old clothes, maybe from the beginning, the relationship didn't bode well.
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The marriage, which was united to prove its innocence, did not last long.
After marriage, Zheng Shaoqiu issued a "notice" to Shen Dianxia: "You can give me a baby quickly, I will give you another 3 years, if not, you don't blame me." ”
At this time, Shen Dianxia already had high blood pressure, diabetes, and her heart was not very good, and she was still an elderly mother.
Moreover, Zheng Shaoqiu was also found to have poor sperm quality.
But shen Dianxia tried everything to keep her lover, and actually got pregnant.
It is a pity that the child cannot keep the lover who has changed his heart, and he cannot repair the broken marriage.
When her daughter Zheng Xinyi was 8 months old, Shen Dianxia took the initiative to file for divorce, ending this relationship that lasted for more than ten years and fulfilling Zheng Shaoqiu, who was in Cao Ying's heart in Han.
After that, Shen Dianxia wholeheartedly cultivated her daughter Zheng Xinyi, although the family was broken, she also tried to give Zheng Xinyi a complete love, never said to Zheng Xinyi that Zheng Shaoqiu was not, but always invited Zheng Shaoqiu to participate in every step of Zheng Xinyi's growth.
However, although Shen Dianxia loved her daughter, she did not spoil her.
She respects her daughter's wishes, and if her daughter wants to enter the entertainment circle, she will escort her, but at the same time, she has also been educating Zheng Xinyi to be self-reliant and independent.
Zheng Xinyi has been overweight since childhood, and weighs more than 200 pounds as an adult.
Since the age of 16, Shen Dianxia has personally supervised her weight loss. For the sake of health and beauty, Zheng Xinyi cooperated with nutritionists and body beauticians to successfully lose weight and once became an idol of fat people.
But perhaps it is the natural physique that Zheng Xinyi is very painful in order to maintain her figure, and it is effortless to regain weight.
At the age of 27, she finally decided to be brave and no longer force herself to lose weight.
Fortunately, although the appearance is not a beauty in the traditional sense, her strength has always been online.
He won the "Most Promising Newcomer Gold Award" musically, and also won "My Favorite Singer" for the song "Goddess".
Participated in the movie "29+1" and won the Hong Kong Film Award for Best Supporting Actress.
In 2008, Shen Dianxia died of illness.
Before her death, she asked a lawyer to make an agreement: Zheng Xinyi could withdraw 20,000 yuan of living expenses from the property every month, and the rest could not be taken without authorization until Zheng Xinyi was 35 years old.
When Zheng Xinyi was the poorest, she only had 46 pieces left on her body, but she never sought Zheng Shaoqiu for help.
Later, Zheng Shaoqiu knew, and his heart was full of pain: "My daughter is so stubborn that she refuses to ask me for pocket money." ”
Zheng Xinyi is 34 years old this year, and according to Shen Dianxia's previous will, she will receive the huge inheritance left by her mother in a few months.
However, even without this legacy, she can live well now, strong and independent, and has always been full of vitality.
Zheng Xinyi was dissatisfied with her father when she was young, and when she grew up, under the persuasion of her elders, she took the initiative to take the first step and eased her relationship with Zheng Shaoqiu.
When she participated in the variety show "I Am Not a Star", she also mentioned that she saw the doubts of the outside world and would also feel sorry for her father.
Zheng Xinyi lost her father's care in her infancy, and her mother died just as an adult, which was not bitter enough for outsiders.
Although Zheng Shaoqiu is now trying to make up for his responsibilities as a father, some childhood injuries are always imprinted in the bottom of his heart and cannot be erased.
Some time ago, she was hospitalized due to illness, and she suddenly cried abnormally, which was heart-wrenching.
Zheng Shaoqiu's second marriage hurt not only Shen Dianxia, but the most innocent one was Zheng Xinyi.
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After divorcing Shen Dianxia for a year, Zheng Shaoqiu finally married Guan Jinghua.
The first child of the two, Zheng Yong'en, is a collection of thousands of pets.
But it is also because of her parents' doting that she has a rebellious personality from an early age, and her private life is very chaotic.
Since I was a teenager, the boyfriends around me have changed one by one.
Later, seeing that their daughter was becoming more and more out of line, Zheng Shaoqiu and Guan Jinghua simply sent their daughter abroad.
Unexpectedly, without the restraint of his parents, Zheng Yong'en was like Sun Monkey without a tight curse on his head, and he actually caused scandals continuously.
First, he took a selfie of a group of intimate photos of 19 different men wearing bikinis and posted them on the blog, causing an uproar.
Later, he was photographed several times by the media.
However, for Zheng Yong'en's behavior, Zheng Shaoqiu's reaction was even more shocking.
In the face of the reporter's interview, he actually said, "Girls who are almost 20 years old don't have to care too much, the most important thing is that people should be beautiful." ”
Although Zheng Shaoqiu is so maintained, Zheng Yong'en does not buy Zheng Shaoqiu's account, and even because of her sister Zheng Xinyi and her father.
Zheng Xinyi inherited her father's good looks, but she has the same figure as her mother, so she has repeatedly failed to lose weight.
Zheng Yong'en has no physical troubles, but from her appearance to hairstyle, even her preferences are similar to Zheng Xinyi, so she was named "Thin Version Xinyi".
For this title, Zheng Yong'en showed complete resistance, and she also said in front of her classmates, "I don't have a sister, only a sister!" ”
Zheng Yong'en hates Zheng Xinyi, but Zheng Shaoqiu cares for Zheng Xinyi because of his regrets, and he sends red envelopes every New Year's Festival, and Zheng Xinyi's amount will be a little larger than others.
Therefore, Zheng Yong'en was also dissatisfied with Zheng Shaoqiu, feeling that Zheng Shaoqiu gave all his love to Zheng Xinyi, and even developed to the point of seeing Zheng Shaoqiu turn his head and leave.
In fact, what Zheng Xinyi lacks is not the booing and warm greeting on the phone, not the thick red envelope, but it is exactly what Zheng Yongen has but does not put in his heart: the companionship of his parents.
However, in recent years, Zheng Xinyi has sent out intimate photos of Zheng Yong'en's face on several occasions.
Probably really grew up, matured, and suddenly discovered the goodness of my relatives.
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Zheng Shaoqiu's youngest daughter, Zheng Yongxi, should be the most "successful" of his four daughters.
The eldest daughter is missing, the second daughter has been separated for many years, and the third daughter is spoiled...
Mr. and Mrs. Zheng Shaoqiu finally found the right way to raise children in their youngest daughter, Zheng Yongxi.
Zheng Yongxi does not have the bad habits of her sister Zheng Yong'en, she is smart and well-behaved, has excellent academic performance, and has been very worry-free since she was a child.
After that, he was successfully admitted to the university and studied in his favorite biology department.
Compared with her three sisters, Zheng Yongxi has a more complete family, a better way of education, and the blessing of her parents' resources, it is no accident that she has the happiest life among the four sisters.
It is said that the nine sons of Long Sheng are different, and Zheng Shaoqiu's 4 daughters profoundly explain this.
The three mothers involved in the upbringing are different, and their status when they grow up is also different.
Shen Dianxia has a deep affection for Zheng Shaoqiu, and she brought up Zheng Xinyi, inheriting her mother's good character and becoming closer and closer to her father.
Lu Huiru and Zheng Shaoqiu are teenagers, but after a knife and two cuts, they run to each other, and the daughter Zheng Anyi's impression of her father is probably just an ATM machine that regularly transfers money.
There is an important problem in both of their lives: the absence of fatherly love.
What about Cheng Yong Eun? After she was born, Zheng Shaoqiu's "father's love exploded", but her father's "only love does not care", but also let her teenage years full of "black history".
Zheng Shaoqiu is a good actor, but in the matter of being a father, he is really a down-to-earth "scum".
From the different experiences of Zheng Shaoqiu's 4 daughters, it can be seen that raising children is not the mother's life mission alone.
The involvement of fathers is as important as that of mothers.
Throughout a child's life, the father is the first idol of "power."
No matter how good a mother is, she cannot make up for her father's absence.
No matter how unbridled pampering is, it cannot replace high-quality companionship.
Fortunately, after decades of life, although the past cannot be repeated, the future can still be expected.
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【Text| Attack on Li Zhuangzhuang]
【Editor| Zhiyu 】