Without clicking on Haiqing's Weibo, you will never know how good someone else's son really is! Haiqing's son Zhu Hongye, whose English name is Daniel, is always called "egg girl" by his mother. Don't look at the egg girl is only 13 years old now, but she has long become the standard male protagonist in romance novels.
Proficient in cello!
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The writing is good!
At the age of 10, the level of painting was enough for people to bid 30,000 yuan:
Even if they are proficient in piano, chess, calligraphy and painting, people can also write in English, and the ideological height at a young age has reached a certain realm - educational equality:
My childhood—climbing trees and playing with mud, the childhood of an egg girl—writing poems:
Just a word to create a sentence, it feels like a poem:
You think that's the only way? Egg girl pursues the all-round development of morality, intellect, body and beauty, and is also a small swimmer:
Rubik's Cube slipped to fly!
So, is there anything else that an egg chick wouldn't?
What is called "winning at the starting line" – it doesn't matter what my mom does, I'm good enough.
This child is not only a bully, but also a well-known little warm man, envious of how many mothers have been damaged!
Indeed, in Haiqing's Weibo, we often see the "warm man" side of the son's egg girl. Mother and son go out on a trip, and the egg girl will intimately help her mother wash her socks and T-shirt.
Egg girl is also very grateful, once after watching TV was eating ramen, suddenly her eyes were red, and said to Haiqing, "Mom, thank you for raising me!" ”
Several times, fans have captured photos of Haiqing taking his son out to play. It is commendable that every time Haiqing mother and son travel, the mother is lightly packed, and all the luggage and bags are borne by the "little man".
At that time, when the mother and son went to the Film Archive Art Theater together to watch "Gone with the Wind", the young "egg girl" was also very gentlemanly, and she was helping her mother with her bag the whole time.
At the airport, the egg girl is responsible for confirming the direction of the airport, while the mother Haiqing on the side is very trusting to follow the direction chosen by her son.
The understanding of the son egg girl has received high praise from netizens, and Haiqing's education method has also been recognized by everyone from the heart - to provide more possibilities for children.
When Egg Girl was 4 years old, Hai Qing began to teach him to learn to do simple housework; every day after school, Egg Girl carried her own school bag; when mother and son went out shopping, Egg Girl would take the initiative to help her mother carry bags and do what she could, full of gentlemanly temperament.
Even learning this kind of thing that makes many parents their hearts is not a matter in Haiqing's home. The egg girl even had to comfort her mother in turn, saying: "I will play with you after I finish my homework, and you will rest on your own for a while" "Mom, you must be patient, don't have negative emotions about homework"...
When it comes to the education of his son, Haiqing said that he has a unique parenting method: gradually cultivating his son's sense of independence through appropriate weakness.
Don't look at the egg girl is the second generation of stars, but Haiqing is not arrogant or spoiled by him at all. When Haiqing was 4 years old, he began to consciously exercise his sense of autonomy, letting him do simple housework, carrying his own school bag when he went to school and school, and going out shopping to help him carry bags and bags.
Through "showing weakness", Haiqing not only taught his son to take the initiative to help others, but also cultivated his manhood, so that he learned what responsibility is from an early age.
Similarly, Hu Ke also said recently: "I will only be spoiled in front of my son, and the mother of a boy must know how to weaken the role of a mother, show weakness in front of his son, and give your son a chance to grow into a real man."
In the show, Hu Ke often flirts with his son Anji: "Big Anji, my mother is a little hard, can you take care of your brother?" It is Hu Ke's weakness that makes Anji grow into a "24K pure master", who knows how to take care of his brother and is very considerate of his mother, and has become a little man with a sense of responsibility.
In the eyes of children, the stronger the parents, the stronger their dependence may be, and the parents who know how to show weakness to their children have achieved the "strength" of their children. Parents must understand that showing weakness is not weakness, and showing weakness is also a kind of wisdom. Experts say that only if you are willing to use it, can children become big tools
In the evening, Xiaoxiong's mother returned with a tired face, and today the company arranged many tasks to meet the inspection of the superiors, so that lunch was not eaten. As soon as I entered the door, I saw Xiaoxiong playing with toys in the living room, and Xiaoxiong's father was cooking in the kitchen, so Xiaoxiong's mother sat on the sofa and said to Xiaoxiong weakly: "Xiaoxiong, today's mother is very tired, go and help your mother get the slippers over?" Xiaoxiong was playing vigorously, and when he heard his mother say this, although he was a little reluctant, he saw that his mother was not in good spirits, so he ran to the shoe cabinet and took his mother's slippers.
Then, the mother said, "Son, come here and help your mother beat her legs!" XiaoXiong said, "Mom, wait until Daddy finishes cooking for you." I'm going to play with toys. The mother pretended to be very sad and said: "Son, you are a little man, you should be the mother's dependence." Don't you care about your mom? XiaoXiong heard this and immediately ran over to beat his mother's leg.
At this time, dad came out of the kitchen with dishes, saw this scene, and said happily: "Xiaoxiong performed very well, and I will be relieved to have you take care of my mother in the future." ”
Xiao Xiong shook his small head triumphantly, and his small fist pounded harder.
It is often said that "the father of the tiger has no dog", but in life, the "father of the tiger" has more "dogs". There is a friend with a successful career, in order to take care of his son's life and study, hired a nanny, driver, tutor, now the child is 14 years old, self-care ability is very poor, and very cold, can not listen to anyone's words. The father looked helpless when he mentioned this, but he did not know that the biggest reason for the situation of the child was himself. It is his strength that makes children feel that they do not have to do anything, and gradually children take these things for granted.
Coincidentally, a strong woman mother in the career of the wind and rain, because of the busy work, sent the child to the best private school, but also equipped with a full-time "maid", the result of the child even lazy to turn over the book, only obsessed with video games, in order to play the game even out of the house.
Some people say: If we all do things, the child naturally does not have to do anything; if we do 20% of the things, the child can complete 20%.
In the eyes of children, the stronger the parents, the stronger their dependence may be, and the parents who know how to show weakness to their children have achieved the "strength" of their children.
Parents must understand that showing weakness is not weakness, and showing weakness is also a kind of wisdom. With the help of the child's desire for independence, parents appropriately show weakness to the child, give the child a certain degree of autonomy, stimulate the child's ambition and confidence, and is more beneficial to the child's growth.
First of all, in life we must learn to show weakness to our children.
There is a mother who is sick and has to support her child to cook and wash clothes, while the child plays games and complains that the meal made by her mother is not delicious. The same is sick, but another mother clearly told the child that now she has a fever and is weak, the child has to cook his own food, and he has to bring water to the mother to deliver medicine. As a result, the child not only cooked his own meals, but also ran forward and backward to take care of his mother.
Secondly, in learning, we must learn to show weakness to children.
When many children encounter difficulties in learning, they will be accustomed to asking their parents for help, "Mom, what does this word say?" "Dad, how is this question answered?" At this time, most parents will actively cooperate, as if they cannot show their knowledge level without answering, and they are afraid of discouraging their children's enthusiasm for learning.
In fact, if the child easily gets help from the parents, it will reduce the opportunity to think, and the parents can actually show weakness at this time and let the children try to solve the problem on their own. "This word mother does not know, you look up the dictionary yourself, and then tell your mother is good", "This problem is really complicated, let's take a look at the example problem, see who can come up with a solution to the problem first."
Parents can also take the initiative to ask their children for advice and let their children be their own teachers, so that their children's initiative in learning is more likely to be improved.
Finally, in terms of communication, we must learn to show weakness to our children.
Some children are not willing to interact with people, and even afraid of interacting with people, should have done things on their own, but looked for help from their parents, such as signing up for a dance class, not daring to register themselves, they asked their mothers to accompany them; they were wronged in the class, wanted to appeal to the teacher, but did not know how to say, let the parents call the teacher. At this time, parents are best to show weakness and let the children find ways to deal with them, and after a few times, the children will be able to deal with these problems with ease, and may even be better than the parents to solve them.
In short, "weak" parents will push their children in front of difficulties, let children learn to face and solve, and prompt children to slowly improve their abilities.
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