Sobriety is the true state of many parenting bloggers this week. It is also after seeing the life course of Gu Ailing, who is less than 19 years old, that everyone has made a positive reaction.
People have tried to piece together a set of Gu's education dafa from various interviews and documentaries by Gu Ailing and her mother Gu Yan, and some methods seem to be very practical.
For example, sleep for 10 hours a day; encourage and support children's creativity and efforts; let children pursue their own interests; train children to face setbacks; and make up for the Olympics in Haidian.
When the educational achievements of this kind of high-ranking elite in China and the United States were displayed, most people chose to only report, not to compare, not to imitate, to love it, to play, and to lie flat.
The happiness, self-confidence and popularity that Gu Ailing shows are exactly what many parents expect from their children, and what many Chinese children lack.
In addition to several common characteristics such as making up for the Olympic number, being able to eat and drink, and not folding quilts, the gap between their own children and Gu Ailing is farther than the distance between China and the United States.
Q: How do you become Gu Ailing?
A: Wouldn't it be nice to be sober?
After all, people's education began from the generation of grandmothers and grandfathers, so in this comparison, the big guys all lost. Chicken babies and self-chickens, biting their teeth can also insist, why should they give their old men and women chicken blood.
Children can let you learn from Gu Yan and become the mother of other people's families. Do you still have to go up to the square and drag the dancing retired mother back and say, you are going to try to become someone else's grandmother?
This is no longer a matter that money can solve, there is spare money to train children to play golf, is it not good to play tennis? skiing? What's the joke, even if the child has this talent, does the parent really have confidence?
Do you know what Schumacher has been lying for 8 years? Didn't you just fall on a ski? There were no injuries on the track of F1, and a ski run almost killed the car king.
Taking a step back, even if Gu Ailing did not become an Olympic champion, or only won the silver and bronze medals, her rich life experience won most of the earthlings.
The same is the chicken baby and the self-chicken, between the mother and the mother, between the father and the father, between the child and the child, the gap has crossed the solar system, straight to the Milky Way.
Of course, the discussion of Gu Ailing will not stop for a while and a half, such as her nationality, such as her mysterious father. This is purely the content of entertainment gossip, yes or no, does not affect Gu Ailing's current representative of the Chinese team, for China to win the gold medal, more importantly, Miss Gu's international influence, in the Pacific on both sides of the waves.
Reluctant parenting bloggers turn to other Olympic champions to study what educational models are available to champion families.
In the articles that Yiyi Dad saw about Yusheng Jiexian, Wang Meng, Wu Dajing, Ren Ziwei, etc., he found that the growth process of these champions was similar, and it seemed that the parents initially opposed it, and the children insisted on their lives. After that, the parents compromised and silently supported, and the child finally became a champion after years of hard training and injury troubles.
Everyone in this is repeating the above process, I don't know if it is Asian characteristics, parents are easy to oppose their children's sports. Chicken babies can engage in learning, but engaging in sports is absolutely impossible.
Of course, just like last year at the Tokyo Olympics, Yiyi Dad wrote an article titled "Do You Want Your Kids to Participate in the Olympics?" As mentioned in the book, for Chinese parents, being an athlete or going to college is not a multiple choice question, and the direction of the vast majority of parents is to let their children go to college.
After all, raising a baby is also a kind of venture capital, you can say that Gu Yan is right to gamble, but for ordinary people, there can be many directions for raising a baby, and the Olympic champion is not among them. Gu Ailing can be an idol of wa, but it is certainly not the direction.
At the same time, the baby still wants the chicken, and the chicken baby is to persuade the child to work hard, not to persuade the child to become someone else's child. Don't watch other people's children play table tennis, you let your children learn table tennis, other people's children ski, you also let your children ski.
The so-called sobriety in the world is not to find fault with yourself and add to your own blockage. Honestly watch the Winter Olympics at home and let other people's children continue to shine.
The picture in this article comes from the network
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