Su Qing: The price of frankness and sincerity is enormous

Tags: As a female writer who was once as famous as Zhang Ailing, when Su Qing became popular, women with unhappy marriages all went to line up in front of her door to seek chicken soup for the soul. She is both a marriage counselor and a guide to the female mind, her brushstrokes with a woman's fragmented monologue, blunt, sensual and spicy, and the pen easily betrays the emotions that she originally hoped to hide.

⭐️ Style: She is like an ordinary woman, going to work alone, cutting clothes, buying shoes, looking at teeth, running beauty salons. Walk around the campus boulevard with handouts, stop at the window of a brightly lit department store, and go to a magazine stand to buy "Good Friends." She was independent and lively, with a clear-sighted look on her face.

⭐️ Famous: She and Zhang Ailing were both popular writers when Shanghai became an "isolated island", how difficult it is to be appreciated by the talented Ms. Zhang, but in fact, Zhang Ailing's famous work "Blockade" was published in the "Heaven and Earth" magazine edited by Su Qing.

Origin: Su Qing was born in 1914 in a very wealthy family in Ningbo, Zhejiang Province, the female members of the family are all disappointed in the marriage, so they put full of love and tenderness into the young her, so she had a relatively happy childhood, the relaxed environment grew up in her warm and straightforward, no manners.

Education: In 1933, she was admitted to the Department of Foreign Languages at National Central University (now Nanjing University), but under the family's arrangement, she, like her mother and grandmother, married early, and even dropped out of school in order to get married.

☕️ Sour: She dropped out of college and returned home because of her pregnancy, but the birth of her daughter disappointed her expectant in-laws.

That day, she had just experienced the pain of dying and living, and the doctor was busy and said indifferently: "It's a woman." "Even the three children were girls, and she became a sinner in her husband's family.

Child: However, she said in her heart: "My girl, I love her, as long as there is her by my side, I can endure anything, I can ignore anything, even if the whole world of human beings give me a blank eye, I can smile at her alone." ”

Turning point: When asking her husband for family money, she slapped him, and this slap made her a professional woman, and the bitter hatred that the generations of women in the family eventually accumulated into rebellion, and from then on, she embarked on the road of selling literature for a living as a female writer.

Wen Feng: She always tells the big truth. For example, "I love money because money gets everything, and that's the highest goal." Secondly, it is the most convenient way to use power to grab money"; and like "Xi Shi became famous through the favor of Wu Wangfuchai, otherwise she is only a rural woman in an old and dead ramie village, and is she still worthy of these many poets of past generations to sing and chant for her?" ”

Contrast: If Zhang Ailing looks down on the sorrows and joys of all sentient beings from the clouds, she is living in the moment lively and lively, participating in the joys and sorrows of the people around her, they are like two extremes that just complement each other, leaving a proper distance of mutual appreciation, warmth but no interference.

☁️ Comment: She has four children to raise, and she has long been tempered by life to be realistic and spicy.

She is also a simple woman, and the difficulty of survival of the big family has not trained her to be exquisite, and she seems to have never penetrated human nature.

Perception: A simple and frank woman, who finally leaves simply and frankly. She is really like the woman around us, and the bitterness she experienced makes you and I sigh!