I often hear many female friends lament: I have a lot of men around me, but there are very few men who are suitable for love! Especially for some mature women who are very skeptical that all the good men who are fit in a relationship are married.
Why this happens at the end of the day, it's women's "pickiness". This kind of pickiness is what we often call "perfectionist psychology."
When they were young, women looked around at men of the same age and thought they were smelly and too childish. But when men become mature and stable types, they can meet their love requirements, but these mature men are generally a little older. In the face of women and young women of the same age, although women of the same age will have excellent personal abilities, men usually choose young and beautiful women as partners, which is why older women can't find a suitable partner.
This phenomenon is also widespread in other countries of the world. Especially divorced men, they still fantasize about marrying a young and beautiful wife, and the older they go, the greater the age difference between the chosen object.
Women who have the ability to reject marriage in their 20s and have a strong sense of self will become increasingly attractive and valuable as a result of their continued self-growth. Regrettably, however, no matter how good they are, the effective demand for them in the market is woefully inadequate.
In fact, the pursuit of love is one way to pursue happiness. Although modern women are more stressed, while they need to take care of their families and careers, women have more space for activities, and the recognition and tolerance given by society are also greater. So why not pursue your own happiness and explore the joy of love.
Now, more and more women know how to establish their golden status, pursuing no less than men's status and self-esteem. Therefore, they screen one man after another on the grounds of "beauty", "wisdom", "wealth" and so on, and consume their young capital with the desire to "find Prince Charming". Or, even if a woman chooses a marriage partner, she will feel that "the next pair may be better", think of herself as a princess, and think that the emperor's daughter is not worried about marriage. Cut your own red line, but in the end, when you're looking for someone else on the cutoff line, it's too late.
In fact, it's not because there are too few men fit for love and marriage, but because women don't explore and nurture men. Men are like oil fields, waiting for you to get everything ready and then start acting and exploring. Therefore, if you want to fall in love or get married later, you need to set clear goals. In other words, you should understand what you want to achieve during this time.
If it is not unmarried singleism, it is hoped that women will find a good man, fall in love, get married, live a happy life, and have a wonderful relationship while enhancing their self-worth.